20200506

1. Communication between parents and children is not only necessary, but also necessary, which is the foundation of human progress. The present situation of our family education is that parents and children only see little communication. Meeting only asks about study and homework, and rarely asks about ideological and psychological needs. Whether personal relationship is harmonious or not also determines the success or failure of education to a great extent.

2. Parents' knowledge and life experience are passed on to future generations, so that almost every generation can easily surpass the previous generation, and civilization begins. The educational level of parents will have a great influence on their children. Of course, whether parents are civilized and educated will have an impact on their children.

Optimism is more important than anything else.

? Happiness has little to do with wealth, but more to do with the attitude towards life. The happiness of childhood comes from family harmony. This sentence made me particularly moved. Many times, our generation is asking ourselves: Why did we have many brothers and sisters when we were young, but we are happier than our children now? That's because we have playmates, a lot of game time and a heavy academic burden. However, today's children go to early education and cram schools since childhood, and many children feel unhappy. Happiness comes from the release of human nature. In addition to external factors, happiness comes from the heart. A person is open-minded, broad-minded, and naturally happy. Now we pay more attention to children's learning, but seldom guide and plan their life style, which is also the lack of our education.

4. The source of happiness

The author and his two daughters read a book together, and then exchanged and discussed it. Reading in person is a good way of education, but its level is not just reading, but the exchange and sharing of views based on the contents of the book. Moreover, reading in person is not a unilateral output of parents, but an interactive output between parents and children. It is more about giving children an opportunity to output and seeing their innermost thoughts from their expressions. Because happiness itself is a feeling, in order to make the experience of happiness more profound, we need to change the width, length and depth of life.

20200507

1. How to have the ability to resist temptation

Outdoor exercise is not only physical for children's healthy growth, but also an exercise of willpower and cooperative communication ability. If you have a high degree of self-discipline, you can resist temptation well. In addition, the most fundamental way to resist temptation is to have a long-term big goal. Moreover, this goal should be meaningful, so that you are willing to work hard for it, and you can also do something with a sense of accomplishment to inject energy into your persistence.

In fact, what our children lack now is the ability to persist, including some family education. Choosing too many learning projects for children and meeting some excessive requirements at will have an impact on children's ability to resist temptation. Lack of target education is also a big problem. Children still listen to adults when they are young, such as controlling children to play mobile phones and computer games. However, if they lack the education of life goals, once they leave the constraints of their parents, their desires may flood like a flood.

2. Success is the mother of success.

Everyone says that "failure is the mother of success", which is true. However, it is also true that success is the mother of success. Because success has different definitions, a small step forward on the original basis is also success. Too much pursuit of perfect success will often lead to your own failure, because you are afraid of failure and dare not take the first step, which will always be failure. Whether you avoid difficulties or challenge yourself in the face of difficulties will determine whether you can succeed in the end. For example, the significance of practicing piano is not to become a pianist, but to cultivate personal cultivation and persistence.

20200508

1. Better be a better enemy.

It is right for a person to pursue Excellence, but he should combine his actual ability, otherwise he will pursue the best and get nothing in the end. Therefore, the author holds a conservative concept and improves our environment and society step by step from small things, things around us and things that are easy to do. Or you think it is the best, then you will lose the motivation to move forward, so after reaching a certain "good", you will pursue better. Because there will never be the best, there will always be progress and better.

2. Good habits make a lifetime.

Good habits formed from childhood will ultimately determine the fate of our life, so it is more important to form good habits from childhood than to learn knowledge. Unfortunately, many parents can't see this. Take simple homework as an example. In the eyes of some parents, children only need to finish their homework, ignoring the time, environment, quality and degree of care of homework. These seemingly unrelated things are precisely the performance of children's habits. For example, doing homework regularly, forming a good study biological clock and carefully checking the habit of homework), this part is basically done by parents now. Another good habit is to cultivate a good character and make good friends. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, and the choice of friends has a great influence on a person's life. Making friends carefully should also be a good habit that will benefit him for life.

20200509

1. "The decision-making mode is bigger"

To do this, the most important thing is to have a rich background, so besides majors, learning some necessary humanities courses can broaden people's horizons and enlarge the pattern, and don't limit yourself to learning some special skills. Therefore, we should look at the big picture and surpass our peers in the realm, not just in skills. Moreover, if you want to exercise your own pattern, you must be able to withstand loneliness. I remembered the story of Wen Zhiming, a typical late bloomer. The reason why he can leave a deep impression on the cultural history of China is inseparable from his pursuit of the realm.

2. "The realm of doing things is higher"

The size of a person's pattern refers to whether he can see big opportunities and do something with wider scope and greater influence in space. I suddenly thought of one thing, that is, the opportunity to compete. Many times, we will provide opportunities to people with more competitive strength. But if one person wins the prize, another person may not win the prize, but it can affect a team. Who will we choose? If it were me, I would choose the person who can drive a team without winning the prize. Of course, the premise is that the level of two people will not be too different. Therefore, people can go further if they have a higher realm, pay more attention to the long-term and pay less attention to the present. However, more and more people live in utilitarianism and ignore their long-term development. Just like some people say that many people earn thousands of dollars a month after graduating from college, it is not as good as a takeaway. This statement ignores the space for development and the pattern of doing things.

202005 10

1. Life is concrete.

Life is concrete, but how many people can understand it? Just as we say that happiness is concrete, it is a meal, a pair of shoes that fit, or a pleasant chat. Similarly, life is made up of every specific thing. If we want to live a better life, then we must learn to deal with every specific thing in life. There are no big or small things in life, everything represents our attitude towards life, and this attitude just determines the quality of life.

2. "Education changes fate"

If you admit the necessity of receiving education, you should receive the best education possible. But it is right to receive the best education, but the best education has family reasons besides school, including parents' educational concepts and so on. If soft education factors can't keep up, just sending children to good schools will not have absolute effect. Nowadays, the pursuit of high-quality educational resources has made many parents overload the purchase of school districts, and the follow-up educational facilities after enrollment will also be overloaded. So choose the best education for your child according to your ability. Therefore, we should clearly understand the significance of education.

202005 1 1

1. Behind good luck is triple efforts.

It is said that a sweat is a harvest, but it is often not the case in life. Sometimes a sweat will yield something, sometimes not necessarily. And many times we really have to pay three times or more to get the reward. Opportunities are for those who are prepared. If you don't work hard at ordinary times, you can only watch it slip away when you come

More importantly, be a good person.

A person's good character is not born, but is cultivated through small things from childhood. Children are born with a blank sheet of paper. What kind of environment or education they are given may produce what kind of results, which may be the educational significance of the original ecological family. Many people who lack good conduct are generally due to their parents' neglect of discipline since childhood. Since ancient times, China has paid attention to both ability and political integrity, and virtue always precedes talent. This point is clearly expounded by Sima Guang in Zi Tong Zhi Jian, including The Analects of Confucius, Da Xue and The Doctrine of the Mean.

202005 12

1. In the face of poverty, you can choose to sink or rise.

Poverty is a double-edged sword. Some people can rise up in the face of poverty and try to change the status quo with their own efforts. Zhuge Liang once said, heal the wounded and save the dying. But some people go the wrong way when they are poor, and finally ruin their future.

2. "Admit that you are poor, and you can be really rich."

It is human nature to be uneasy about the status quo: if you are poor, you will think about change, and if you change, you will understand. Poverty can be our driving force. But how to make good use of this forward momentum is worth thinking about. If you want to change your poverty situation, you must first learn to get out of the comfort zone, because people are lazy and it is difficult to get out if you are used to a life. This poverty is not only material, but also spiritual. People should also strive to make themselves spiritually rich and become spiritual aristocrats.

202005 13

1. Do not spend money or save money.

Open source and reduce expenditure is the correct attitude we should have towards money. But there are certain limits to how to use money. You can't save the money you should spend, such as investing in study or education, but you should save it when you should. This is a virtue.

"When using wealth, we should focus on the overall situation."

If a person has wealth, whether he can make good use of it determines his pattern. I think of those real estate developers who donated land to the United Nations, and their eyes on wealth are really admirable.

202005 14

1. "Know the purpose of money and have the ability to make money."

No matter whether people are rich or poor, they should be kind to money and don't let small money slip away from them. I once saw a news that Jackie Chan used disposable paper cups and wrote his name on the set, and he wouldn't throw it away casually, unlike some people in our life who don't like some small money.

2. The first investment proposal

Investment is an attempt for young people, but how to invest should be clear. First of all, we should have the capital, vision and professional knowledge to invest, otherwise we should reconsider. The purpose of investment is not to make money at first, but to exercise oneself as the main purpose.

202005 15

1. "Three Red Lines Never Touched in Life"

When doing things, it is more important to be strict with yourself and abide by principles than to be smart and professional. People should stick to their own principles and bottom lines at all times in their lives.

2. "My view on money"

A person's outlook on money determines a person's attitude towards life. First of all, how to treat money? The significance of money to people is to ensure survival first, then to satisfy food and clothing, and finally to develop. This is also in line with Confucius' ideal, so that people can move from poverty to prosperity and receive education after they are rich. The more money, the better, because with a certain amount of money, it becomes a simple number, so after solving the problem of food and clothing, we should think more about using money to develop ourselves.

202005 16

1. On friendship: Don't be afraid to make friends.

What kind of friends a person makes is very important to his life, but how to keep the pure friendship between friends is very important. First of all, don't consider personal gains and losses. Secondly, be generous and empathetic.

2. On love: The right person will let you see and get the whole world.

Only the feet know whether the shoes are big or small. So love is appropriate. Having the right person in life will give full play to one's energy. It should also be an old saying of China, home and everything will flourish.

202005 17

1. Unite the majority

People are social animals, and this is a highly cooperative society, so how to communicate with people is the most important performance to adapt to society. In today's society, it is impossible for a person to work alone in Ma Chenggong, and it is necessary to rely on the strength of teamwork.

Step 2 stay away from snobs

A gentleman is figurative, while a villain is figurative. So stay away from villains in life and work, because these people often do all kinds of things that are not good for you because of their interests.

202005 18

1. "Effective communication is only possible when communication is realized"

Communication lies not in the number of words spoken, but in the effectiveness of communication. Sometimes communication should not be wordy: the more you talk, the less information the other person may receive. Therefore, it is a misunderstanding to think that speaking a few times more is good communication. To achieve reasonable communication, we must first understand each other's demands, and then we can find a suitable incision. "Guiguzi" and "enjoyment" are very clear.

2. How to refuse others with dignity

Rejection is a virtue. Sometimes you won't refuse others and you don't have the ability to do it well. On the contrary, it will delay other people's affairs and do bad things with good intentions. But there must be a proper way to refuse and choose the right time.

202005 19

1. God likes stupid people.

Stupid people don't play the edge ball and don't know how to maximize benefits. People who often play the edge ball seem smart, and opportunism will only ruin great things. In fact, there is no shortage of smart people and down-to-earth officers in this world.

Falsification is more important than confirmation.

Right is right, we don't need to get the certificate, because it won't hurt itself; But counterfeiting is very important, because it will bring us harm.

20200520

1. Become a rational skeptic.

Many times we think that science is right, but it is not necessarily so. There are many times when science is wrong, or when it brings harm to human beings, such as the discovery of plastics.

2. "Why should we read non-fiction classics?"

It can improve our language ability, especially our understanding ability; Famous books are full of wisdom, so you should feel them with your heart. A shortcut to systematically understand an idea. Humanism can make our life richer and more interesting.

2020052 1

1. Why do you want to learn math well?

Mathematics can cultivate our more rigorous way of thinking and make us think more rationally. I am not good at math, so I can't understand more benefits of math.

2. "What are we studying at university?"

You should learn the scientific knowledge and humanistic quality that will benefit you for life, learn to do things, master the ability of self-study and cultivate the writing spirit.

20200522

1. How to choose a school and major?

There are many factors in choosing a school, and the best way is to choose a school with a strong major that you like. Otherwise, if the school is not your favorite major, it will increase the difficulty in the learning process, and you will feel excluded from the heart and the learning process will be unpleasant.

2. Writing skills of scientific papers

No matter what article you write, practicality and organization are an important factor. What you said is meaningful, reasonable and orderly. Avoid empty talk and try to speak with data.

20200523

1. "Don't over-calculate the probability before doing something"

For things that have been decided, work hard after making a plan, and don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. If the final goose result is considered before implementation, it will often affect the success of things.

2. The difference between occupation and amateur.

Everything is divided into majors and specialties, but as long as it is something we choose, we must try our best to do it, even if it is only amateur, and we must follow professional standards. This is not only a skill, but also an attitude to do things, and there will be more room for improvement by professional standards.

20200524

1. There is always a better way.

We should not only consider success, but also the most efficient way, so experience is like learning. We can accumulate more experience in doing things by ourselves, so that we can get twice the result with half the effort when doing other things.

2. Obedience is the first step in learning to lead.

Empathy, put yourself in the other's shoes, so only by starting from the foundation can we better understand the relationship between management and being managed. In the process of obedience, you can realize how to be a leader to win people's hearts.

20200525

1. Pick the most important thing and do it first.

There will be many things in life and study, so we must make plans in complex situations. What are the urgent and important things to do first, and other things can be done later. The orderliness of doing things largely determines a person's success or failure.

2. "A positive attitude can improve the overall concept and cooperation ability."

At any time, initiative is the greatest source of strength, and initiative will make us live and work happily. Moreover, initiative allows us to face problems bravely and actively find ways to solve them.