Is this so-called "professional guidance" really correct?
I have a cousin. Just because she heard this statement, she has been educating her children in Buddhism to make them as happy as possible during kindergarten. As a result, her intestines are almost useless now.
Since my nephew went to primary school, my cousin has been so anxious that the teacher has finished spelling. Because my nephew can't distinguish B, P and D, Chinese and Chinese dictation have become insurmountable obstacles.
Not to mention math, other children have done the problem of 10. My little nephew can run to the toilet three times and break two erasers.
No, during the summer vacation, my little nephew was stared at by my cousin to make up lessons. Every day at home, chickens fly and dogs jump, crying, and children try to resist, and the result is "suppressed by force."
I advise my cousin: the child is still young, only in the first grade. Why are you in such a hurry to force the children? Who wants my cousin to say: parents who have never been to primary school think so, and when they really go to school, they will look at them one by one. What I regret most now is not pushing him.
It is precisely because of my nephew's current study situation that my cousin sometimes hates it: never listen to the guidance of online experts, or you will step on the pit at a young age.
I used to be a Buddhist parent with an open mind, but since Dabao entered primary school, I found this mentality very "naive".
In the fierce competition, children are under great pressure to study. If we don't take measures in advance, what is waiting for us is "we shout and the children cry".
Therefore, it is also my own experience, plus some exchanges with other parents, I will share with you some experiences of people who have experienced it.
Don't fall into the pit of illiteracy.
Many parents think that primary school teachers can teach literacy, and there is no need to reinvent the wheel in advance. But in fact, everyone who has been there knows that there must be a literacy reserve of at least 300-500 words before going to primary school.
Many children find it difficult to adapt to the rhythm of learning because they have to "play" and "learn". If they don't reserve in advance, they will fail to keep up day by day.
Moreover, illiteracy affects not only Chinese, but also mathematics. Children have too little literacy, and math problems are difficult to understand, so they basically have no chance to do them.
Just like my cousin's little nephew, why does he have to pick an eraser to go to the toilet every time he mentions doing math? It is because children can't understand the topic that they can only do something that is not there and divert their attention.
② Mathematics should learn addition and subtraction within 10.
In the eyes of most parents, the addition and subtraction within 10 is almost easy, and children will easily win it after primary school.
But in reality, it is often a slap in the face, just like my family's Dabao. Just entering primary school is a simple addition and subtraction. I can't figure it out. At that time, snacks, lollipops and chopsticks at home were all tools for doing arithmetic, but as long as there were no such things, children would immediately "stop eating".
Later, through the knowledge of psychology, I learned that the first-grade children are at the junction of "pre-operation stage" and "concrete operation stage" and have almost no abstract thinking ability.
So in our opinion, such a simple addition and subtraction is like an insurmountable gap for children. If you can't pass the exam for a long time, it will hurt your self-confidence and interest in learning, and more importantly, you can't keep up with the pace of learning.
Therefore, before children enter school, it is best to master the basic ideas of mathematics and practice more, so that practice makes perfect and children can connect seamlessly.
(3) Don't fall into the pit of "writing posture"
The writing posture is incorrect. What's the biggest problem? The efficiency is too slow.
For example, my cousin's children, my little nephew, the biggest problem is: wrong posture, writing too slowly. Every time I see it, I write with my wrist hooked, and the words are crooked, which is too slow.
So sometimes we often see videos of parents giving their children homework. In fact, when we see children writing as slowly as snails, the key is that when they write badly, we can't control the power of the wild.
Therefore, before entering primary school, it is best to give children some pen control training, so at the same time, the efficiency will be high and the handwriting will be beautiful. With the promotion to the senior grade, it is definitely a plus item.
The "pits" mentioned above are all lessons from the blood and tears of people who have experienced them. Parents who are ready to "grow up young" must pay attention.
Many parents may subconsciously think that children are so young and complicated, can they understand and learn?
In fact, according to the characteristics of children's brain development, before the age of 6, it is the fastest stage of development in this life. At this time, the efficiency of children's learning knowledge and understanding things, especially their memory ability, can be regarded as the peak of their lives.
Therefore, children aged five or six can master some systematic knowledge, such as pinyin, Chinese characters, addition and subtraction, etc. And this knowledge will enhance children's interest in learning and make them more confident after entering primary school.
As parents, at the first level of their children's life, they should intervene in advance to help them lay a good foundation.
Many people have suggested that if economic conditions permit and parents are busy, they can consider signing up for a young bridging class.
Of course, if parents have time, they can actually do a good job of "young convergence" training at home. For example, many mothers are now using "one-day young convergence exercise" to help their children lay the foundation.
Including my family's Erbao, it used to be "teenagers practice for one day". It takes half an hour for children to practice every day, and the effect is very good.
This book has a total of 16 volumes, including Chinese, pinyin, mathematics, English and other basic contents. There are many exercises, which can make children put themselves in other's shoes and lay the foundation for primary school knowledge.
Moreover, this set of books is a tailor-made learning textbook for children from childhood according to the "Guidelines for Kindergarten Education" and the first-grade Chinese textbook of People's Education Edition.
Therefore, on the one hand, this set of books fully conforms to children's cognitive development, on the other hand, it can also make all-round preparations for children.
For example, my second treasure is now in the first grade, and learning Chinese and mathematics is obviously much easier than my big treasure at that time.
Let me give an example of the "math part" of this set of books. It helps children to practice 0-5, 6- 10 math problems respectively. At first, it cultivates children's sense of mathematics through small numbers, unlike other workbooks, which brush the problems directly.
In addition, what is even more surprising about this set of books is that it has designed a special "stroke practice" section to let children develop good habits from the root and put an end to careless and slow writing.
Of course, the biggest highlight of this set of books is "practice". All the contents are based on the characteristics of children's gamification, using game thinking to let children master knowledge in the process of playing.
The advantage of this is that children can have an acceptance process, and "play-learn-learn" can make children adapt better than directly from "play" to "learn".
Therefore, if there are young children at home, it is better to prepare a set of "children's training" for them. Every book is a thin one, so children will not be under pressure and will be confident when they enter primary school.
At present, this set of books has 16 volumes, and the total cost is ***49 yuan, only 3 yuan, but the price of an ice cream can bring essential help to children and get into primary schools better. Why not?