Liaoning's father helped his children learn math, and his 9-year-old son cried with anger. The reason is that when he helps his children with their homework, he also educates them according to his childhood learning methods and thinking, but he doesn't know that the knowledge his son has learned has changed a lot. The change of educational methods has a vital impact on children, which will not only affect their thinking, but also affect their learning methods and interests.
In this incident, Liaoning's father had a big problem. When he was helping children with their homework, he didn't pay attention to the changes of what they have learned now, but taught them what he had learned as a child. Children think that this knowledge has not changed for many years. This is a misunderstanding in education. He is always self-righteous. If we don't change his educational methods, it will have a bad influence on children, and it is easy for children to have resistance to learning.
If the child is obedient and thinks that what his father said is right, then the child's learning thinking will be changed and distorted because of this improper education method, and the school can't keep up with the progress of the teacher. These are all serious consequences caused by parents' inaction. Therefore, the way parents educate their children must be changed according to the way of school education, and they must keep pace with the times, and they can't remain the same for a lifetime and confiscate their success.
At present, the most correct way for parents to educate their children is to read textbooks first, understand what children are learning now, and master their learning methods. Parents are much better at learning and accepting than their children. Only by mastering the knowledge that children have learned can we help them, follow the teacher's ideas, and let them receive the same education at home and at school, so as to improve the procedures and cultivate their study habits and interests.