Campus is the ivory tower of life. We, the seeds of love in the ivory tower, have holy feelings, while the first love is a pure emotional experience. Two people who love each other will consciously or unconsciously build an emotional model, which is like a stamp and firmly covered in your emotional impression like a blank sheet of paper.

Secondly, the first love on campus is also the experience of allowing a stranger to break into your emotional territory. It makes you feel fresh and curious, sometimes sweet and sometimes painful, full of unknowns and a little scary, but you unconsciously want to explore and solve the mystery. It is this thrilling feeling that is unforgettable.

From a psychological point of view,

There is a principle of diminishing marginal utility in psychology. When we were in "Seeds of Love", the expectation and yearning for love in our hearts have made the marginal utility value of first love extremely high.

When the first love breaks up and falls in love again, our expectations for love will be reduced, and feelings will have no initial mystery and curiosity for us.

Therefore, the first love or unrequited love is not necessarily the most suitable and perfect, but because it is the first time, the unforgettable value of feelings is the highest, so we may never forget it.