Zhang Wenjie, the parent of the first-grade children, also believes that cultivating children's good living habits as soon as possible will help children adapt to primary school life as soon as possible. "When they go to kindergarten, they will shorten their nap time, let them carry small schoolbags and give each child a notepad. In addition to changing children's physical habits, it also helps to cultivate children's self-care ability and good listening ability. Children have strong self-care ability, and now they will not rummage through seven or eight books and four or five exercise books in their schoolbags; If the child has good hearing, he will remember the homework assigned by the teacher. " Wang Xinfeng also thinks that parents should be normal. Don't instill some knowledge of Chinese and mathematics into children in advance. Instilling too much, children can't master it, which will lead to inferiority complex; If children master it, they may not concentrate on the class. He also stressed that children should not be forced to achieve their desired goals. "I always think that what children write is not good-looking and often criticize him. But the teacher told me that the weight of a child's pencil is equivalent to two pounds in an adult's hand. Since then, I have stopped asking children to write words. " Wang Xinfeng said. Teacher: The most important point in Pan Qinglin's concept of "young convergence" is that children should love and yearn for primary school life. She believes that children's attitudes, views and emotional state towards primary school life are closely related to their adaptability after entering school. Therefore, in the kindergarten stage, we should pay attention to cultivating children's positive attitude of being willing to go to school, interested in and yearning for primary school life, and proud of being a primary school student. Song Weihong, director of Shibei Experimental Kindergarten, also holds the same view. "Our kindergarten has a goal in the first month of freshmen's enrollment, which is to let children go to kindergarten happily. In fact, primary schools should be like this, so that children can go to school happily. " She believes that teachers in the first grade of primary school should give children a transition period, so that children can gradually adapt to the transition from kindergarten to primary school, be tolerant and not too strict. From the perspective of lifelong development, cultivating children's awareness of rules and responsibilities and forming initiative and independence should be an educational goal that should be paid attention to from the beginning of small classes. Song Weihong believes that the large class size is mainly the change of children's physiological habits, such as the adjustment of schedule. Although the large class in kindergarten is the key stage of children's connection, it is too late to pay attention to the cultivation of children's ability from this time. Expert: Establish the concept of lifelong education. President Wang Lanying of Parents' School Research Association and Director Wang Ruihua of Preschool Education Research Office of Municipal Education Bureau attended the exchange meeting as experts. They all suggested that parents should establish the concept of lifelong education and pay attention to the cultivation of children's character and emotion from an early age. Wang Lanying believes that parents and kindergartens should cultivate the habits that children should have when they grow up. "We often say' sowing behavior, harvesting habits'. Every parent wants his child to be a phoenix, but there is a process from ugly duckling to swan. This process depends on whether the child has good habits and good personality. " Wang Ruihua even put forward the idea of "people-oriented" education for children. "During kindergarten, children cultivate their own abilities. They don't know more words than anyone else and learn more English words than anyone else." She gave an example: "Scientists can recognize about 3,000 Chinese characters, and so can ordinary people. It is easy to recognize Chinese characters, but it is not easy to write a beautiful article with these three thousand words. This requires us to let children explore, discover and appreciate life. With the feelings of life, you can write a good article. "