I have often discussed with Xiao Haozi since I was a child. During adolescence, children and their mothers quarreled and rebelled. On one occasion, Xiao Haozi said with red eyes, how could my mother not have puberty? I don't want to quarrel with you. I was so distressed that I hugged Xiao Haozi and assured him that my mother would not quarrel with you.

? In a blink of an eye, I was sixteen years old, and various symptoms of adolescence flashed on him more or less, but quarreling with me rarely happened, and occasionally I was embarrassed to ignore me. I said left and he said right, and even yelled at me on purpose, no-no-no, but I knew he was just teasing me. He basically wants to do everything we tell him, and he seems to see at the first time that we are doing it for his own good.

When Xiao Haozi was very young, I was worried that he would inherit some bad personality characteristics from me. "Yin-fire people are impatient, argumentative, like exaggeration, vanity, saving face, insatiable greed, and do things in an anticlimactic way." When we were young, when we took him to study The Analects of Confucius in a temple on the mountain in Taizhou, we knew that because of the Yin-fire in nature, it was necessary to turn Yin into Yang and remove the earth, so at that time we often asked Xiao Haozi to shout out: Ming-Li-,and at the same time we paid special attention to it. Once I found him very focused on taking Lego. In two days, besides eating and sleeping in the toilet, he was playing Lego in his room. In those years, I bought almost all the movies of 1 0,000 that boys liked. Later, when he participated in the Lego mindstorms Competition on behalf of the school in the second and third grades of primary school, he built and debugged the robot in the school laboratory alone. We picked him up from school at 9 pm, and he was alone in the laboratory in the dark building. We feel gratified and proud.

? When Xiao Haozi was very young, he followed us everywhere. He went to Tibet at the age of five and went down on the first day. He has a high fever and vomits. I held him for two days before the fever went down. When I was ten years old, my father and I rode motorcycles around the island in the rain and went to Phuket for a day. In the evening, I had a high fever in the hotel. We looked everywhere for ginger and brown sugar to reduce his fever, and finally I was cured by a local magic medicine. When I was ten years old, I took him diving in Maldives. May be young, underwater pressure, got acute otitis media. On the last painful night, I was asked to sleep in my arms. The doctor in the hotel just prescribed some smeared medicine and went back to Singapore to see a hospital. The doctor only coated me with medicine. When I was eleven, I threw him into a summer camp in Algonquin, Canada for 14 days. When we went to pick him up, they hugged me and refused to give up. I thought this summer camp scared him and he didn't want to study abroad. Unexpectedly, the next year, he told me and my dad that he would come to Canada, so he decided to go to Thailand for the New Year with his grandparents. The day after he came back from Thailand, Xiao Haozi had a high fever. The news said that dengue fever appeared in Thailand. I was so scared that I stayed with Xiao Haozi day and night. I thought I would miss my plane ticket, but I couldn't find it alive the next day.

? Xiao Haozi is very adaptable, because he was beaten like this since he was a child. In the first year of National Day here, I went back to China to handle some work myself. One day, my friend called to ask me about Xiao Haozi's study. I didn't sleep well for several days. I quickly returned to him after dealing with domestic affairs, and found that he actually adapted quickly, and English and French really couldn't keep up. Kumon recommended by my friend really helped Xiaohaozi a lot at this stage. At first, he

The ninth grade is the most uncomfortable year for Xiao Haozi. In order to change his state, we began to look for a new school for him, hoping that the change of environment would have a little impact on him. The lucky child finally went to his dream school in the tenth grade. This year, Xiao Haozi almost became a legendary child. With Norman's help, he found his goal and communicated his future plan with the school teacher. He just took the computer AP exam on Tuesday and started yesterday. And proudly told me that Aunt Lily helped him find a math course in this school, which cost $890, which is cheaper than a course in their school. The key problem is that their school can only take 1 1 grade in July, but can't take1grade 2, and he can only take the math AP exam next year after studying1grade 2.

I feel that there are more and more suicides among teenagers. Teacher Chen and I pay special attention to Xiao Haozi's ability to resist pressure and the sublimation of the spirit of "two skins". Now what we nag about Xiao Haozi most is to do things wholeheartedly, and the result is not the ultimate goal. The process is more important than the result. Learn to accept the result after trying your best.