My daughter, like you, graduated from the sixth grade this year. We studied for two years. In the summer vacation of grade five, I was ill and hospitalized. The neighbor recommended a piano teacher, and the daughter went to class by herself. I haven't paid attention to her study for a year, and I feel that she has made general progress. Since the sixth grade, I have been attending classes with her and communicating with teachers. I just don't want to learn piano for exams, but the basic things should be solid and strict. After half a semester, I still feel very general and my progress is slow. My understanding is that the child passed the tenth grade examination of guzheng in the summer vacation at the age of four and five in the sixth grade, and his understanding ability is no problem. Plus, he is willing to practice piano every day, so he should learn faster than a five-year-old in kindergarten. The teacher's teaching method is traditional textbook soup and the like. Six times, I communicated with the teacher again and made a decision to apply for the Emperor. The teacher said that we could take the third grade exam. Usually, the content of the class is Tang Xiao's increasing grading content. Why did you choose the emperor? Because the emperor's exam requires a comprehensive examination, including scales, sight-reading, listening, music theory and etudes. Although the third level is relatively simple, there is no need to test music theory, but it is necessary for the cultivation of children's comprehensive ability. At the end of July, the emperor's level 3 exam was finished, and it is certainly no problem to pass it, but whether you can get good grades depends on your grades. On second thought, I decided to change teachers. It's not that the current teacher is not good, but I don't think she is the good teacher I want. Through the introduction of the mothers in the group, I got to know the current teacher. I wanted to go to school with him a year ago, but the time was not right, because the children left school late every day. Recently, I won a summer vacation quota with that teacher, and I have to wait until the school starts to arrange classes. No matter whether you can start school or not, you must first experience the feeling of a famous teacher in the summer vacation. After two classes, I feel really different. I feel that my daughter has really wasted these two years. This is not a denial of the previous piano teacher, but the concept of learning piano is different. The current teacher has been in France for more than ten years, and I heard that he has obtained a certificate of performance level, which is said to be very powerful. This teacher doesn't need soup or anything. He has his own reserved programs. In the first class, she asked her daughter to play the bullet of the song she practiced recently. After the fight, he pointed out many details and told her how to deal with it. It's transparent. Let her play it again. Sure enough, it feels very different He asked his daughter to listen to music of different periods and learn about the history of different periods in the West, because different writers and backgrounds expressed different musical feelings. I also printed some composers, including their backgrounds, to let my daughter know their stories. It's nice to come out after class. This is the teacher I am looking for, and his idea of teaching music is what I want. It's like studying history. You just recite the events of the times, just like who are the five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period? What if you didn't learn the history of a hundred schools of thought contending during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, but memorized it all? Isn't that equal to learning in vain? My daughter is also very happy, because many of the teachers' ideas are novel. He doesn't just ask you to put the bullet down, he talks about what kind of feelings, what kind of tonality, and how to deal with the details here. This pop-up piece of music is really different and refreshing. Junior high school is coming, and my daughter says she wants to continue studying. My request to her is that if she wants to learn, she should study hard and arrange time to practice, because this teacher is also very serious. If you just don't practice after class, he will be dismissed directly. I admire such a teacher, who has his own career pursuit and ethics. My daughter explained that she would continue to take the emperor exam next year, so she signed up for a five-level music theory class online. As a parent, give her support as long as she likes it. After all, music is a wonderful thing. As long as she wants, if time permits, she can continue. Good teachers are really important!

Grading does not mean ability. It's normal to take the senior one exam every year. Many teachers let their children take the grade examination in order to earn a commission, and the organizers will give them a refund. Grade exams are basically a bluff. Normal grade one has scale exercises, module exercises, several etudes and several playing tracks, but in order to pass the exam, the teacher will only let the children dig up an etude and a finished song. What if they pass the exam? It's such a song. Generally speaking, to test and learn musical instruments, we should practice more basic skills, and then practice all the tracks in each level of the test book. And it is an exercise of real understanding, so it is normal to take the first grade every year. As for learning or not, it depends on the child's interest. If children don't like it at all, there is no need to force them to learn.

Learning the piano is not for passing the grade. As far as the intensity of our study and the energy we spend are concerned, we don't expect her to take the road of professional development, but let her have a specialty, know a skill, cultivate her temperament, improve her self-cultivation, and play a song to relax when she is lonely. When she is happy and excited, she will have a sustenance.

Therefore, it is not difficult for a daughter to get through it as long as she has passed the third grade!

Everyone who specializes in learning has this idea. He doesn't want his children to embark on the road of career development. Unlike Lang Lang's father, if he loses all his money, he has to pay for piano lessons. He must fight his way out of the piano!

Most children I know who specialize in learning give up after junior high school, not because they don't want to learn, but because they don't have time. There are too many subjects and homework, and the pressure of entering a higher school suddenly increases, so I have no time to take care of others. Piano, pipa, erhu and painting all stopped, leaving only culture class. There is no way! I know, the most persistent thing is to stay in high school, and there will be no more. Except those who want to take the road of special students.

I understand your inner contradictions. After studying for so long, you suddenly gave up. You didn't even finish a grade exam before you entered the third grade. You are really unwilling! Please believe that you don't have this idea. Any kind of things, accompanied by a long time, there will always be missing. I began to feel very lost. But I will put it down slowly. After all, there are so many homework and exams waiting for my children.

Giving up is inevitable, sooner or later! Spare time, seize the time to practice, find a sense of music, relive childhood and relax, which may be the original intention of our piano practice!

It is said that you can pass the exam by paying money, but the process of practicing the exam and the experience of taking the exam are very rare for children. My child learned to play the piano at the age of six. At present, grade five has passed grade nine. Strive to finish grade 6 10. She has two classes a week and practices the piano almost every day. I passed Band 4 for the first time and Band 8 for the second time. Now children say that Grade 9 is easier than Grade 8. Now she can play all kinds of music by herself. For her, playing the piano is a pleasure. After practicing every day, she plays and arranges music for a while. If playing the piano is fun, stick to it. This is a kind of music quality cultivation, which may not have any effect on children. Now that children are going to junior high school, they may not have time to learn piano, but as long as they like it, they must play for a while and stick to it. Otherwise, how can you learn a few good songs if all the previous ones are learned in vain, right? Leave some memories for children's piano learning.

Parents must first understand that according to the arrangement of the examination syllabus, it is normal and scientific progress to take the first grade every year! Therefore, it is completely normal to take the third grade exam in three years, but it depends on how many real skills children have learned in these three years.

In off-campus music teaching, we can't just take the grading as the basis of teaching evaluation, because the grading gold content of different institutions varies greatly, and there is a lot of water in some places, and the original intention of letting children learn piano is to make them happy, not to get a certificate.

I support children to continue learning, because the bottleneck period and boring period of musical instrument learning are for everyone, even international masters. If you give up your study because of temporary stagnation, you will feel sorry in the future.

Piano learning can bring a lot of extra energy to children besides music, which is of great benefit to the development of left and right brains, the coordination of hands and brains and the activities of small joints. Practicing the piano and learning cultural lessons are different learning modes, not a choice. They can be completely combined. Playing the piano when you are tired of learning is actually a very efficient way to relax.

When children enter universities and workplaces in the future, being able to play the piano skillfully will add a lot of color to their lives. Excellent children will be excellent in all fields, and it is an eternal truth that most of the voice leaders in the student symphony orchestra are top students in all schools and grades.

Countless cases tell us that children give up learning music and their grades in cultural classes improve rapidly? Actually, no, there is no conflict between the two.

I suggest you give up!

Hobbies are more important than anything else.

It is very important to learn piano hobbies. Children will continue to learn if they are interested, but they are already in the sixth grade and will be promoted to junior high school. The child's academic burden is already very heavy. Does he still have the energy to learn the piano?

Parents should never follow suit.

More than 20 years ago, some families here ostentatiously followed the trend and didn't ask their children if they were interested. They spent 10-20 thousand yuan or more on a piano, hired a teacher and took remedial classes. As a result, they studied for several years, but they didn't like it. Children with high academic pressure had no time and no mood to play! Now the piano is sleeping! Moving is still tiring, zui! Give it away! My two children have one at home, so keep it as an antique!

Does the child have any talent?

I'm over seventy now. I think I have talent in singing, dancing and painting. Of course, diligence is also very important! There must also be a lot of money to ensure!

Faye Wong is the queen of singing. If she doesn't have a good voice, she can't become a singer no matter how hard she works!

Lang Lang is a world-famous pianist with talent, diligence and abundant funds.

Parental companionship and support

Children like it, children are talented, can parents accompany them? Zhu Ting, the world captain of women's volleyball team, and Yan Ni, the best passer of women's volleyball World Cup, have poor family conditions, but they are talented and have hobbies. Parents repair bicycles and do odd jobs to earn money to accompany and support their children.

Ten years ago, I heard that there was a child who learned to play drums. Because small cities don't have such resources, every weekend, parents have to accompany their children to study in Beijing. How much is the tuition? Mom, how much is the fare, room and board? Excuse me: can children not like it? Parents don't have time, okay? There is no money at home, okay?

When my little grandson is five or six years old, he wants to learn dance. The tutor said that he was too fat, and the child lost weight in the third and fourth grades. He won the first place in our city by skipping rope and kicking shuttlecock, but his parents didn't cultivate their children's hobbies and talents. Now he is tall, and only weighs more than 90 kilograms. I think he has good physical coordination and is suitable for dancing. He is also interested, but her parents are both civil servants. Do you have time to study abroad with him? Can two people earn more than 10 thousand a month enough for their children's tuition?

Your child has been learning the piano for several years, and his achievements are not outstanding. You're struggling. Your child will be promoted to junior high school next year, and you are very confused.

I suggest: talk to the child and see what she wants. What does the child want? What does she like? You can send your children to private schools, and there is no shortage of money at home. But you can't take the place of children! Children's talents and hobbies are her motivation to learn! Let her choose her own path!

The landlord's children have been learning piano for 3 years, and now they have passed level 3. According to this speed and situation, it should be that they usually have heavy schoolwork and little time to practice the piano. If the landlord doesn't want to take a professional route, he just needs to cultivate interest and play, and he can play when he sees the soundtrack of pop music. Grading is to test a child's general ability to learn the piano. What's more, there is the piano performance of the Central Conservatory of Music and the Music Association, which is even more difficult (there are extra points for going abroad in the future).

Now most children are learning the piano, so we should stick to it, even if it is cultivated as an interest, and don't stop. It's a pity, don't regret it when the child grows up.

My daughter touched the piano when she was about 5 years old. She is eight years old. She is a senior two student. This summer vacation, she prepared for the Alto Band 6 and the Imperial Capital Music Theory Band 5 exams. When her palm is big enough, she will take the performance test of the Imperial Capital, because we will get extra points for taking the test in other schools in the future. I often tell my daughter that if I don't push you now, you will regret asking me why it is so easy for you to give up.

Still insist on studying next semester, even if he can only practice for half an hour every day, it is also a time when he is under great pressure to study, which can ease his mood and mentality. Girls who have been learning piano for a long time have different temperaments.

My daughter in grade 6 studied piano for three years, but only passed grade 3, which is really a bit tangled.

My daughter will learn piano in a small class next semester. The big class will pass Grade 6, Grade 4 will pass Grade 9, and Grade 5 will pass 10.

Now it's the first day of junior high school. She will play once in a while and share this situation with you to see if it helps you.

At first, I thought:

At first, it was to test children's interests, including painting, dancing, playing the piano, handicrafts and so on.

Later, it was found that only the piano persisted. Why? Because the teacher is very important, she is very responsible, not only to learn the professional content of the piano, but also to influence the growth of children. She is as close as her own child.

So the children liked her and listened to her. Gradually, they played the piano better and better!

There is another purpose in choosing to play the piano. Finger training is good for brain development (I heard it through hearsay), and I hope it will help children learn math.

Grading is not important, it is only the embodiment of phased results and has no practical significance. By the way, middle school will choose you to participate in some activities at the beginning, and the rest will be nothing. Can know a little rhythm, know a musical instrument!

What I want to say is about developing the brain. I don't know whether children are good at or learning piano. She got up in math in the sixth grade or even the first grade.

Originally the weakest of the three subjects, now it may be the strongest.

So, what I want to say is, if time permits, let her continue to practice, not for the exam. It doesn't matter. The important thing is to help her brain training.

There is also a girl who knows a little about temperament and music theory, which is not bad. She will be a talent when she goes to college in the future, don't you think?

My daughter is also learning piano. We are not going to take the exam. We just want to keep learning, practice when we have time, and practice less when we have no time. I just hope she has a hobby, and I don't want to force her to lose interest!

My son took the piano band 6 exam one summer vacation and got good grades.

Many people scoff at exams and think they are simple and utilitarian. I think it's just that my cognition is too low. First of all, there are many people who fail in the exam; Secondly, the grading examination was originally divided into three grades: excellent, good and qualified, and it also has the ability to distinguish.

I think the graded examination has the following advantages:

1, grading can make children concentrate on training and improve their ability in a short time;

2. Grading can test the learning results during this period, which is conducive to adjusting the next study;

There will be several songs in each grade exam. These songs can be performed after they are practiced.

4. Our school rewards these achievements;

5, more valued by the school, the school has the opportunity to perform, generally looking for a high level first;

6. Recently, I heard that all primary schools in the district have musical instrument competitions, and the requirements are children above grade 5;

7. Grading will make learning more targeted, learning with goals, clear direction, sufficient motivation and easier to achieve results.

Therefore, I have always thought that just like learning to take an exam, learning musical instruments should also be graded.

However, children's important things will change at every stage, learning priorities, and affirmation strategies should be adjusted. Although I think piano is very important for the cultivation of children's temperament and many abilities. However, if you have reached the sixth grade involved in the senior high school entrance examination, there is no harm in letting it go. After all, the summer vacation is coming. If children are interested in piano, they can concentrate on practicing, and then use their holidays to arrange their future piano learning plans. If I don't take the professional route, I don't think it is necessary to practice the piano every day, so I will slow down the progress. Stick to it for 3-4 days a week, and it is good to arrive at 1 hour for half an hour at a time, so there is no need to put too much pressure on children.