It can be seen that good habits are important to children. And bad habits will also affect a child's life. What bad habits will affect children's success?
First, the habit of not losing money
Today's children are loved by their families, and if they are not careful, they will raise a selfish bully. But after all, children should enter the society and get along with others. The habit of not losing money will make children think about taking advantage of others everywhere and refuse to pay anything. After a long time, you will be rejected by the group and lose many opportunities for promotion. If a person's eyes only focus on the immediate interests, his pattern and vision will eventually be smaller, and opportunities and success will be far away from him.
Second, the habit of not following the rules
Two recent incidents were the result of violations.
One was a girl who didn't obey the traffic rules and was involved in the bottom of the car by an off-road vehicle and crushed to death. The other is a 13-year-old boy sitting on the roof, who was hit by high voltage and died on the spot.
Rules should always be kept in mind. Perhaps many times, obeying the rules seems useless, and sometimes people even laugh at it, but at the critical moment, rules can be used to save lives.
If a child has no sense of rules since he was a child, he will be more indifferent to rules when he grows up, and even people will develop to the point of ignoring the law.
Third, the habit of lying.
Child psychology tells us that children learn to lie at an early age. But the lie at this time is not that the child really wants to lie, but a stage of his growth and development. At this stage, his cognitive ability is improving. At this stage, he can't distinguish between imagination and reality. So it is normal for children at this stage to lie.
But if children have grown up and often lie, this is a bad habit that needs to be corrected by parents. A person who often lies, he uses lies to seek benefits or escape punishment; Once successful, he will often use this trick. People who have the habit of lying, without a sense of responsibility and responsibility, will deny themselves many opportunities for development.
Fourth, the habit of dependence.
China has many only children, and his family likes him very much. He doesn't want his children to do anything, his clothes are stretched and his mouth is full of food, so he is easy to rely on.
Once children have the idea of dependence, they will have the heart of pleasure, indulge in pleasure rather than suffering, and become parasites of their parents. Parents are still alive and can be relied on; Parents will leave him one day. Who will the children live on? Moreover, once parents are old, their earning power is insufficient, and their children cannot be independent, life will be very difficult.
Therefore, for the sake of children's happiness, don't let them form the habit of dependence. We should let them learn to be independent as soon as possible, let them suffer as soon as possible, and let them master the skills of survival as soon as possible, not only for their parents themselves, but also for their future.
Tian Gefei: Freelance writer. Wechat official account: Hotan Gefei (ID: ID:ahetian20 17)?