The child did well in middle school, but suddenly he didn't understand it after high school.
Most of them are stuck in math.
So how can children get through the critical period of senior one and change the status quo that children don't understand?
children's psychological counseling
Now children's psychological pressure is very great, especially in junior high school. He used to be the first and second, but now his grades have suddenly dropped a lot, which will make him doubt that he may be a little anxious about his studies. What parents have to do now is to guide their children's psychology and let them treat the transition of learning with a normal heart.
Thinking changes in mathematics
Why can't you learn math after high school? In fact, the deep-seated reason is that children don't understand mathematics when they are in primary and secondary schools, that is, our mathematical thinking is not very good. Well, at that time, children could learn by brushing a lot of questions, but after high school, the amount of knowledge suddenly doubled, and the change of thinking mode made children unable to start. The previous learning methods and skills are not used at all in high school.
In view of the problem of poor mathematics learning, we must find an experienced teacher to help our children. In other words, it is unnecessary and useless to do more exercises because you don't understand the basic principles.
Never blindly find a remedial class for your child, or ask a tutor. It must be to find a teacher who speaks math well to open children's minds and let them understand how to learn math in high school.
Why do I know so clearly?
I know this clearly because the situation of your child's high school is the same as that of my high school. Mathematics has always been my proud subject, but in the last semester of high school. I got 80 points in the mid-term exam of the first semester. Full score 150.
When I saw that achievement, my mood was very heavy. At one time, I even suspected that I was depressed, because I was depressed. How can my study be like this? Why am I so good in junior high school that I can't keep up with it in senior high school, which affects my study of other subjects, causing me to have no confidence at all and other science students to be in a mess
But I know that I am very talented in mathematics, so I am not convinced of mathematics, so I began to teach myself to find out the reasons why I am not good at mathematics, slowly change my learning style and spread my learning thinking, so I studied mathematics at the end of the term and improved my confidence in other subjects.
I changed my math teacher next semester. Since then, my math has never been lower than 140. I didn't know until today that if I didn't understand this subject. If you have the basic core knowledge of mathematics, it is no problem to deal with elementary school and junior high school by brushing questions, but it is impossible for senior high school, because senior high school needs too much knowledge of mathematical thinking and many mathematical problems. You need to learn the knowledge in the textbook thoroughly and learn the extended parts well. At the same time, you should combine what you have learned in junior high school and primary school to solve these problems comprehensively. It can't be solved by brushing one or two problems. After all, there are too many problems now.
Advice to parents
This is a common phenomenon. Don't be surprised. Many students get good grades in junior high school, but it is also common in senior high school that they can't adapt to the learning environment of senior high school and can't master the complicated knowledge of senior high school, which leads to confusion and backwardness.
A colleague's child had a similar situation before. In junior high school, he was totally favored by heaven, and in senior high school, he was still in a key class. However, he was later transferred to an ordinary class, and there was a big psychological gap. Later, he got tired of learning and lost confidence.
Seeing the child in this state, colleagues are also particularly anxious. Colleagues heard that a private person helped me and changed me a lot, so they also hired an expert to help their children.
Shortly after a legal incident, my colleague's children changed a lot, as if they were much more mature and enlightened in their studies. They are no longer confused and afraid of learning, but they are very comfortable with learning. Later, the results were greatly improved, and the college entrance examination was admitted to a 985 prestigious school.
High school is very important. Although there are problems, most of them can be solved, so don't worry too much.
There are two problems here, the so-called teaching learns from each other.
First of all, as far as children are concerned: I was in the top few in junior high school, with a high psychological orientation and stability. But this is a junior high school after all, and what is the local level of this school? Now I'm in a key class, and my classmates may be higher or lower than you. As far as the relative learning level is concerned, children's learning state in junior high school does not exist, and of course their psychological orientation should also be changed. It used to be easy to learn, otherwise what would other students do? The teacher taught him only one person.
Not now, the teaching principle stipulates: set the teaching level with the middle and high level as the goal. If you don't reach the middle and high level, you will be surprised if you are not tired. At this time, if you think about your junior high school classmates, you will know that they are not easy. Solution: Only work harder, prepare well, attend classes and review. Don't pretend to be high flyers, everything depends on your grades!
As far as teachers are concerned, there is a problem: when teachers arrive at freshmen in high school, they always feel worse every year. The reason is that the one who just left is a senior three, and his level is of course high. With such a psychological set, students in new high schools, especially those in key classes, will suffer a lot, because teachers usually work hard at first, but they will change, because teachers are faced with new high schools after all.
Control yourself, continue to work hard and adapt to the teacher. After the difficult period, there are still three years of high school to show their talents.
I have the right to say that my child just entered senior one last year, just like your daughter. At that time, he was depressed, impatient and scared. In fact, this is a normal phenomenon, because children have just entered a strange environment and need some time to adapt. What's more, the knowledge in high school is completely different from that in junior high school. There are many courses, which can't be digested at once and the pace is fast. In this case, parents should not panic. Instead of patience, it is counterproductive. I don't know how to ask my teachers and classmates in time. I slowly accept and adapt, adjust my mentality, and I can't lose confidence. After a period of adjustment and adaptation, my child will be full of self-confidence, optimism and positive attitude. Don't worry, parents Come on!
Psychological problems are very likely, such as resistance, rejection, depression and so on. So find a professional psychologist for examination and consultation. There are several such children in any school, and it is not a case that they drop out of school. Early examination and early treatment are better, and parents are generally required to seek medical treatment together. Family environment is the main inducement.
Children are excellent in junior high school and have many problems in senior high school. I come into contact with many similar children every year. I think the problems that parents see and express are superficial, and parents only see scores and achievements. In fact, parents don't really understand their children's hearts.
I think there are two reasons, one is mental health, and the other is thinking mode.
Many children are excellent in junior high school. Under the aura of school and parents, they are under various pressures. In addition, adolescence and senior high school entrance examination are in junior high school. Therefore, too many children will have mental health problems at this stage. If parents know that they can be adjusted in time and give their children psychological support, they can get through this stage smoothly, and there will not be too many problems in high school. Only most parents don't know how to pay attention to their children's mental health. Putting time and energy into children's studies and achievements has invisibly increased their mental stress. Even if there is no problem in junior high school, this hidden danger will appear in high school. These phenomena are the most common problems in education in recent years.
For your child, I suggest to find a professional education consultant to find the problem and then solve it, so that the psychological problems can be alleviated, and then the child can improve the way of thinking about the high school curriculum.