Since the autumn of 202 1, I have been full of confidence in my daughter who just entered the first grade. Coupled with the knowledge base, I don't have to pay attention to my habits from the first grade and take the phenomenon of the first grade seriously, as advertised on the Internet. However, the reality is that my daughter scored 80 points in the final exam of the first semester and was in her early 90 s (a very low score in the whole grade), ranking in the bottom ten without exception. Because the mother's heart suddenly became fragile, after educating her children hard, she learned a lesson from the painful experience and began to try to find a way. After half a semester's hard work and persistence, my daughter won the first place in the class in the mid-term exam of the second semester. Personally, I think these methods helped me:

First, look for role models and insist on learning Chinese in the morning. To tell the truth, it is difficult to find a role model in real life. Why? Because everyone goes home from school and does their own thing behind closed doors, it is difficult to find the power of motivation through peers. What do we do? I brush the internet, pay attention to some master mothers, and learn the method of morning reading. Listening to the inspirational songs in the video and watching the children who get up at six o'clock and stand in a military posture and read aloud, my heart tightens. I can't help but reflect on myself. I really didn't do well in the education of study habits. No wonder my grades are poor. It is said that primary schools mainly test parents' supervision and education on children's habits.

Then I saw a parent planning a daily study plan with a mind map, and writing out the exercise books and review parts of Chinese, Mathematics and English in detail. It's never too tiring to do this day after day. Parents who are the same as the first grade can't help but feel ashamed of the huge difference in the content of their children's execution. I feel that I have harmed my children, wasted half a year's study time and failed to develop good study habits.

After finding a role model, I know what to do. First of all, I gave my child an ideological education to make her understand that this grade is not good, and she promised to follow my requirements if she wanted to change her learning methods. So I stipulate that children get up at 6: 30 in the morning and read books for 20 minutes, no matter Saturday or Sunday. Brush your teeth and wake up after getting up, and then start reading aloud in the morning. Morning reading includes: Chinese textbooks, new words; Unit summary of review materials; Look at pictures and write books. Morning reading is the best way to improve Chinese performance. Good memory in the morning and reading aloud can enhance the sense of language. In the past three months, my daughter has almost improved her Chinese performance through morning reading. Now my daughter's Chinese unit exam is almost the top three in the class, often ranking first, and people are much more confident because of better grades.

Second, learn Olympic Mathematics and train mathematical thinking. In the compulsory education stage, the content of mathematics teaching in the classroom is relatively simple. So, I listened to the advice of a math teacher friend. She said, "Children have to learn Olympic Mathematics since the first grade. In the past, children would participate in the competitions of Bud Cup, Miao Cup and Olympic Cup, and there were many top students. It is not held now, but children's mathematical thinking should be cultivated from an early age. " I bought a set of Olympic math problems, with online classes, one lesson a week, and supporting exercises. Children often have a sense of accomplishment when solving problems. In a math class, when I was studying "Understanding Figures", my child said to me, "Today, the teacher asked us to count figures, but we missed the largest and outermost triangle. I mentioned it and the teacher praised me. This is the method I learned in the Olympics. " This makes me feel that learning Olympic Mathematics not only does not increase the burden on children, but also increases her learning pleasure. It's worth insisting on. Now my daughter's math score is almost 100.

Third, use free resources to learn English. Because my area is relatively backward. I didn't start learning English until the third grade. I think it's too late. Children in first-tier cities are all pre-school enlightenment. I used to follow the trend and take various online classes for enlightenment. It cost a lot of money, but the effect is not obvious. Now, I use the "National Smart Education Platform for Primary and Secondary Schools" to purchase supporting teaching materials and workbooks, and I have followed suit since the first volume of Senior One. Although there is no good evaluation in the local area, she can at least start reading aloud and doing simple English exercises. It is much better than the original aimless and pure happiness education.

Fourth, we should keep up with the cultivation of various interests. Hard pen writing training lasted for half a year, and the current level can represent the school to participate in regional competitions. I hope I can get good results in this June 1st competition. I became a small host of the school, participated in several speech contests, and my stage expression ability was not bad. I began to learn painting at the age of 4, and I really became interested. I can record my life with painting every day, and I win the first prize of the school in every competition.

The first grade is not over yet, so it can't be said to be complete, but judging from the performance of half a semester, I think I used the right method, and my daughter learned easily and gained a lot. Every year, children's growth characteristics are different, and the level of knowledge learning is different. Parents need to constantly adjust and adapt to help their children adapt.