1, deeply understand the reasons for "dislike": parents should first understand why children have prejudices against teachers before they can solve them. At present, due to many factors, including the lack of quality of some teachers, many children have resistance to some classroom teachers. As a result, some children will draw conclusions about classroom teachers based on some personal intuitive feelings.
The reason why they don't like teachers is sometimes simple, perhaps because male teachers are "bad"; Others think that teachers are "eccentric" because teachers tend to be more tolerant of children with excellent grades, which may be the "eccentricity" in the eyes of children.
2, specific analysis, guide children: for children, emotional likes and dislikes are often temporary, after a period of time, may forget things that make him unhappy. However, if this negative emotion will be strengthened from time to time, it will gradually make children have resistance to someone. For example, children don't like math teachers, which is the case.
What parents have to do is to restore the scene of things that make children unhappy with the math teacher, divide it into several paragraphs from front to back, and let the children conduct cognitive analysis one by one. Which paragraph is the child's fault, you must let him know. Which paragraph belongs to the teacher? You have to let the children know. As long as you enhance your child's resolution, you can lay a good foundation for the next step.
3. Let children experience the interest of subject knowledge: Although we adults know how important learning itself is, children are faced with a living teacher, and the teacher's feedback to children directly affects them. Therefore, it is actually very difficult to convince children to understand the truth.
At this time, parents should look for the highlights and interesting points of summarizing subject knowledge, such as mathematics. In fact, most children can have some fun from math if they don't do badly in math. Some simple and skillfully designed Olympic math problems can easily stimulate their interest in learning.
4. Help children look at the problem from another angle: When children don't like math teachers, we can guide them to look at the teacher from another angle and look at the problem from another angle to help them find the advantages of teachers and strengthen them. Over time, as long as we can guide them correctly, children will gradually become fond of teachers from never liking or even hating them.
Parents should skillfully use the wisdom of life, make a good bridge and link between teachers and children, and help children and teachers establish a harmonious teacher-student relationship. When encountering problems, parents can communicate with teachers privately, but supporting teachers in front of their children is the best policy.