It may be that there is something wrong with the way parents guide them. Instead of guiding the child to think, he chose to tell the answer directly after the other person made mistakes one after another, and then assumed that the child had understood, so he naturally could not make any progress. Secondly, parents didn't consider their children's acceptance. In the news, the father often tutors his children until late at night. The other person is obviously a little tired at this time, but the adults don't realize it at all, so it is normal for the learning efficiency to decline during the whole process. Finally, parents ignore their children's emotions, and frequent high-intensity counseling is easy to cause rebellious psychology. Some children deliberately use it to play abnormally? Revenge? Parents, this is also the reason why scores are getting less and less.

It happened in Henan. Contemporary parents help their children with their homework, so the father in this article is no exception, even more conscientious. He often helped his children with their homework until late at night, which lasted for a year. The child's grades fell instead of rising, and the father was so angry that he doubted life. Netizens are also very sympathetic to this father. After all, their efforts have not been rewarded. However, some people see that everything has two sides. The fact that children's grades have not improved actually reflects that there is a problem with the way of counseling. For example, the time is too long, parents don't pay attention to methods and skills, and even getting 6 points in math test is just an illusion. Maybe children will do this again? Persuade? Adults give up tutoring.

No matter what the situation is, everyone will laugh when it is posted online, because isn't this what they experienced when they were children? Parents began to tutor their children because of their poor grades. Consultation? But actually, I'm still telling the answer myself. Because most parents have no patience and scientific and effective guidance methods, when they see that their children have made many mistakes, they gradually lose their temper and start to blame or even beat and scold him. How can he listen to what the other party is saying in this situation? Some people even arrange things directly and tell their children the answer directly. What is the difference between being a tutor and not being a tutor?

Therefore, if parents really want to help their children learn, they should put themselves in their shoes, understand his emotions, his ability and his acceptance, and then constantly adjust the counseling methods. Only in this way can they achieve satisfactory results.