I have a friend in high school who is introverted and doesn't communicate with people often, but he plays table tennis very well. I have carefully observed his life, that is, studying and playing ball. His grades are not very good, and he is often asked by the class teacher, so his study is rather depressing.
But every time I play with him, I find that he seems to be a different person after playing, and the whole person becomes particularly energetic and devoted, which is why he can abuse us every time!
When life is not satisfactory, you might as well cultivate a hobby and make it better than ordinary people, so as to find a sense of accomplishment and make life more meaningful!
This hobby needs to be explored by yourself, which can be playing ball, photography, broadcasting and so on.
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I am in a mess now. Want a career without a career, want love without love. At the age of marriage, most of my peers have children of several years old, and I am still working in a city without temperature to barely support myself. I don't even have the spare money I think. This kind of me is almost the loser defined by most people. Even I think so myself.
I have this idea, but I don't even have a friend who can say this. Sometimes, it's not that I don't want to say it, but that I have said it. How many people understand and how many people are willing to listen? Not disappointed in the world, but disappointed in yourself.
I have also experienced the envy of others, enjoyed the applause of others and accepted the worship of others. I have also experienced failures, setbacks and alienation, and now I feel deliberately isolated and independent. What am I thinking now? I only know that I will try to please myself in the future. Life is so short that you don't know if there is an afterlife. Why not try to be happy in this life? The premise is not to hurt others.
Although it took me a long time to adjust after the failure of starting a business, I am now comfortable, peaceful and sensible. I just don't know if it is affected by the physiological period, and I am beginning to feel sad. I don't know if the subject asked this question, but he feels the same as me at this stage and is very disappointed with himself. I'm sorry, my ability can't keep up with my expectations now.
Today, I was thinking on my way home from work. I must adjust my mind and continue to welcome a beautiful day. Although I hate watching some dry chicken soup, I always read Rhonda Bourne's secret when I am lonely. I hope this is useful for you, too. Now I should cry, watch a movie, and cry an emotional vent. I will give myself some time to adjust. QTM's sadness and QTM's touch, I firmly believe that I will get better and better, and so will you. Finally, it's like my signature: I hope everyone can make an appointment for a better future in their own name.
Try to make money, and friends will come when you have money.
Let me share a real experience of my own:
/kloc-in 0/8, because my father was ill, I changed my job and helped my mother take care of the family from 8: 00 to 5: 00 on weekends. With the decrease of income, I feel more and more stressed. In order to relieve the pressure, after work, I started to set up stalls in the market to sell snacks such as sizzling squid and baked real eggs to increase my income. The new job is also in the familiar period, which may be caused by the mentality. It was like being possessed during that time. When business is good, I am very happy. When business is bad or the weather can't stand, I am particularly irritable and don't like anything. In the face of family and friends' kind concern, I either keep silent, prevaricate or even close myself. At that time, I felt terrible and chaotic. I don't think everything is going well. Everything is aimed at me.
I remember my son going to the movies on summer nights. Considering that his wife booked a ticket at 9: 00 pm after work, I thought about closing the booth early to spend time with his wife and children. Instead, an old customer didn't check out until 8: 30, and snack car forgot to charge again. I will never forget my mother, daughter-in-law and son pushing a cart behind me (the electric four-wheel snack car is really heavy). Even if it is difficult, I am still comforting me. It doesn't matter, how can everything go smoothly ... At that moment, I felt that things were not as bad as I thought, after all, you still have family behind you.
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Now my father's illness has greatly improved, and snack car's business just ended at the end of the year. The weather in Northeast China is perfect this year, with little rain in summer and cold in winter, and the benefits are still moderate. Maybe my efforts touched God, haha! What surprised me most was that my son got a good score of 100 in the final exam of grade six last semester, which was much better than his child's mid-term score.
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With all this nonsense, everything is a double-edged sword. The direction of things often depends on your attitude, and negative or positive faces will produce completely different endings. Don't blame others, feel sorry for yourself, and don't subjectively shield all your relatives and friends who care about you. Just think about what is holding on to you when you have nothing and difficulties. We should be responsible for ourselves and those who care about us. All difficulties should be honed. I believe that life will not treat hard-working friends badly. Come on!
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Don't spray if you don't like your personal opinion.
If you can visit the whole lake where you have lived since the Enlightenment, and you don't have a trustworthy friend, it means that you have a clear understanding of yourself and your life.
Life is good in rivers and lakes, or what is usually called a good society. There are good times and bad times, flowers and thorns, noisy times and cold days. People are born with parents, grandparents, grandparents, and a bunch of people who cry and laugh with you. When you grow up, you must face the sunshine or miserable life independently. Family is a boat, and life is an endless sea. It is impossible to expect someone to accompany you across the endless sea (of course, you are lucky, you may have a very strong partner or best friend to support you). Your persistence and patience are your only strong backing.
Scientists are lonely in the process of research. They have been doing unknown jobs all their lives. No one can share their worries and problems. No one can say a word to them. Only they are running around in that unknown field. Entrepreneurs are doing their work in obscurity before success. Only after success do they realize their personal value and be recognized by people.
Mr. Lu Xun wrote a poem:
What do you want from the delivery of the canopy, but you dare not turn over and meet each other.
A broken hat covers the downtown, and a leaky boat carries wine.
Fierce-browed, I coolly defy a thousand pointing fingers, Head-bowed, like a willing ox I serve the children.
Hiding in the small building into a unified, regardless of winter Xia Chunqiu.
Mr. Lu Xun is in a bad position. As the saying goes, when bad luck comes, he hits a wall everywhere. Walking in the downtown area like a beggar wearing a broken hat, rocking a leaking boat and drinking wine in the rapids. However, Mr. Lu did not lose heart, and he still had a firm belief. No matter spring, summer, autumn and winter, he wrote a campaign against "the finger of a thousand people" with a pen and shouted loudly to the people who were still sleeping, so as to arouse the people to fight for the nation.
Of course, maybe we are ordinary. We don't expect ourselves to settle for second best like Mr. Lu Xun, such as Mr. Judy, indifferent to Zhi Ming, quiet and far-reaching. It is a good way of life to watch Nanshan leisurely under Mr. Tao Yuanming's chrysanthemum picking fence. Life doesn't have to be a hero, but you can be brave; Do not seek great achievements, as long as you have worked hard and struggled; Do not seek greatness, but live comfortably. ...
Life is short, no matter at any time, we must be clear about our own direction, strengthen our beliefs, and work hard in that direction, which will give life practical significance.
Bottom line: think twice before you act-this is the only rule of life at any time!
My mother-in-law's sudden departure, property wars, hard struggle, and finally burying the old man with my father-in-law made me realize that human nature is ugly, the world is cold, and things have passed. A friend said, why didn't you tell me? I am your true friend. I just laughed. Before May 7th, a friend forced me to marry her so-called brother. I want to help financially. But he can't help me take care of the children. I refused. The friend flew into a rage. That's very kind of you. You can raise your mother-in-law Why can't you help others? Sell me some small things. Others asked me to go to some therapeutic equipment. I said I had no money, and I didn't believe it either. The other party is unhappy, and my friend has something to do. Look at you. You have something to see your friend. Silence slowly and earn money to support your family, because not all the so-called friends are.
The first important thing is to reflect on yourself. I visit myself three times a day, which is a good habit of an excellent person and a good quality that we must have as we grow up and mature.
In the process of reflection, I find that I have made mistakes, correct them in time and bear the chain effect brought by mistakes, and strive to set things right and win the recognition and appreciation of people I care about!
There is nothing wrong with reflecting on yourself. It is external factors that have led to the present situation. Then we still have to live in our own way and enjoy our present life. Everyone in the world is different from another person. Why it is unreasonable to adapt yourself to the people and things around you.
I am me, different fruit!
1, "Life is so bitter that there is no one to talk to". This state is not that philosophers take the initiative to avoid the world for enlightenment, nor that monks practice in seclusion, but that a person is really poor and unhappy in the secular world, so it is really "sad and miserable"!
2. Everything in the world follows a causal relationship. If there is no reason, there will be no result, and there will be no reason for the result!
There must be a reason for the above extreme and tragic situation.
If it's your own fault, it's likely that you are extremely irresponsible and ungrateful, so that people don't thank you for your kindness, but bite the hand that feeds them, causing everyone to be extremely disappointed with you!
If you stick to the idea that you are still too advanced, which leads to people's incomprehension and isolation, this may not be a bad thing, so that you can focus on what you think is right without secular interference. Remember, sometimes it is "the old sober person, the sages are forgotten"!
3, no matter what the situation, as a person with independent consciousness and thinking ability, you should calm down and reflect!
In any case, you can't give up on yourself, let alone despair!
When fate is bleak, we must "hold the fate by the throat"!
At this time, a person is actually quite good.
I have had the experience of not doing anything serious every day. I slept until I woke up naturally and went out for a walk as soon as I filled my stomach. I go straight ahead, and when I get tired, I walk around and come back.
At that time, I estimated that I said less than ten sentences a month, and most of them were said to strangers.
This has been repeated for several months, and a person walks and understands a lot, and then starts over.
Since no one can talk, I won't talk to others, just spend some time with myself and ask myself, what's wrong with you?
After a long time and much thought, the road will be easy.
Are you talking about me?
I can lie in bed and watch my cell phone day and night, or overeat to release stress. That's what I do.
I have no friends, I'm still sick, and I still owe more than 3 thousand. Because of severe depression, I have never had a job, and I can't do it even if I find it. Because of depression, I have a bad headache, so I can't work. But I'm still wandering alone, because I don't want anything to do with my family. If you can't, overeat and watch cartoons to release stress. Sometimes I lie in bed for three days and two nights and don't want to go out. This is me.