Children who have no sense of time always procrastinate, stop and have no plan at all. Therefore, if a mother wants her child to do things in a planned way, she needs to cultivate her child's concept of time first.

Lingling has a poor sense of time and finishes her homework very late every night. However, after finishing her homework, she will play with her Barbie doll and read her comic books until her mother loses her temper. One day, my mother got angry and left her alone. She actually played until twelve o'clock. As a result, due to lack of sleep, Lingling dozed off in class the next day and was criticized by the teacher.

After returning home, Lingling cried and told her mother about her grievances. Mother took the opportunity to educate her, told her to have a sense of time, and made a strict schedule for her. Since then, Lingling has lived according to the schedule, and her concept of time has been much stronger.

In daily life, mothers should consciously cultivate their children's concept of time and let them know when to do what and when not to do what; Let children develop good habits of regular work and rest; Let children develop the good habit of eating on time ... these are the prerequisites for doing things in a planned way.

Method 2: Make plans before urging children to do things.

The class will have a group outing, and Xiaolong's mother will come to see me off. Before leaving, mother took out a piece of paper from her pocket and handed it to Xiaolong: "Do you still want this?"

"Mom, don't worry, I know it." With that, Xiao Long ran into the car.

After the children left, the mother of Xiaolong's good friend came over and asked Xiaolong's mother, "What was the' important document' just given to the children?"

"Xiaolong's outing plan." Xiaolong's mother said proudly.

"Can such a young child make a plan?"

Seeing another child's mother so surprised, Xiaolong's mother talked about her education.

It turns out that when Xiao Long was in kindergarten, she always did things carelessly in Mao Mao. Later, Xiao Long's mother read a story about a German father raising a child in the newspaper, which was very inspiring.

The story goes like this:

A German boy said to his father, "Dad, I want to go to the playground this weekend." His father usually doesn't say yes or no directly, but asks the child, "Have you made a plan? Who do you want to go with? Where are you going? How to get there? " If the child says, "I haven't made a plan yet." Dad would say, "Don't say anything you haven't thought about. Go and plan if you want. "

Mother Xiaolong began to pay attention to the planning of cultivating Xiaolong. For example, when she tells Xiaolong to make a plan for what she will do at the weekend in advance, Xiaolong will write it down in her notebook. On Saturday: water the flowers, call grandma and practice writing ... So far, Xiaolong will make a detailed plan before doing anything.

Method 3: Supervise the children to do it strictly according to the plan.

Although children have made study plans and pocket money plans, they will go to watch cartoons in the middle of their homework or spend all their pocket money on impulse. At this time, mother must follow the plan. If the child can't finish his homework, he can't be put to sleep. When the pocket money is spent, he can't give it any more. Otherwise, children are likely to form a bad habit and lack the motivation to carry out the plan. In addition, mothers should strictly supervise their children to carry out the plan.

Zhi Zhi plans to do her homework with her mother's help. He does Chinese homework from 7: 00 to 7: 40 every night and previews tomorrow's homework. Do English homework from 8: 00 to 8: 40, and preview tomorrow's homework; Do your math homework from 9: 00 to 9: 40 and preview tomorrow's homework. However, Zhi Zhi hates doing math problems and puts them off until late every day.

One day, she really didn't want to do her math homework, so she said to her mother, "Mom, I'm so sleepy and want to sleep." Mother asked, "Have you finished your math homework?" Zhi Zhi didn't answer her mother's question directly: "Mom, I have a stomachache." Mother said, "There is medicine at home. I'll get it for you. " Then he got up to get the medicine. Zhi Zhi couldn't get away, so he had to set about doing his homework.

Method 4: Let children learn daily summary.

"Three provinces a day" is a necessary link. Because introspection is easy for children to find their own omissions in the implementation of the plan and know their own gains and losses.

A mother introduced such a method:

Every night before I go to bed, I will talk to Xiao Na for 10 minutes. "Nana, have you finished your plan today?" "Have you made any progress today?" "Did you have any special experience today?" "Do you still insist on it tomorrow?"

In fact, this mother is guiding her children to make a daily summary. In the long run, the summary of 10 minutes before going to bed every day will become the fixed thinking of children.

In addition, a mother said, "It's also a good idea for children to write a diary summary." Yes, if the child can record the plan, implementation and experience in detail, after the plan is completed, the child will find that he has another fortune!