I. Process
1 After the senior high school entrance examination in Hefei, Anhui Province, a candidate told his mother that he forgot to paint the answer sheet, which caused the boy's mother to collapse and cry at the scene, and everything in her hand fell to the ground, swearing at the boy: You didn't write, how did you forget to fill in the answer?
2, the mother's collapse is heartbreaking, and everyone can see sadness and disappointment from her performance, because the senior high school entrance examination is not only important for children, but also a key step for parents to realize their good wishes.
However, the video was deleted immediately after it was released. According to the publisher, the video was deleted by the relevant departments because there was no need to fill in the answer sheet for the mathematics test paper of Hefei senior high school entrance examination, and the parents collapsed for other reasons, which remains to be investigated. Please forgive me for causing unnecessary misunderstanding.
When this statement came out, some parents who care about their children's grades breathed a sigh of relief. In any case, candidates' scores in the senior high school entrance examination should not have any impact. As long as they go all out and don't let "little things" affect the senior high school entrance examination, everything will be fine.
Many people will think of what their mother said. It may be that candidates and their mothers said that some questions were not answered well, and some regrets led to the collapse of their mothers. It is also said that there may be a communication problem between the child and the mother, and the mother lost patience and could not control her emotions.
6. This makes people worry about this student. Excellent educational environment and good learning mentality are the fundamental guarantee for students to play their normal level. If they don't play normally for some objective reasons, and they can't get the understanding and tolerance they deserve, then children's future study and even entering the society will become an invisible shackle, which will affect their lives.
Second, family education is very important.
1, a good family environment can promote children's learning, and also enable children to have a healthy attitude to face the challenges they may face in the future. When children are still young, parents' general wish is to be healthy, grow sturdily, not get sick and be happy every day. This is what most parents expect of their children.
As the child grows up, from primary school to middle school, the pressure he faces comes one after another. In addition to further study, he is also exploring his own value. As he grows older, his mind is also thinking about the value and significance of his existence. Everyone has gone through this stage. At this time, the importance of being a parent appears.
3. At this time, parents' expectations have also increased, and "other people's children" has become a childhood nightmare for generations, which is a social problem caused by the strong contrast between this expectation and reality. "For your own good" made many students ask questions and even lost their way.
4. The improvement of parents' expectations of students is generally related to the rapid development of society to some extent. From the media, we can often see young and promising teenagers, and there are some top students in our class. Many parents admire their outstanding performance in a certain aspect.
5. As a result, the contrast began to appear. "This is not good, that is not right" often appears in the evaluation of their children, planting seeds in their young hearts-I just can't compare with others, and my family looks down on me. Slowly, the students began to feel inferior, and began to find other channels to vent their inner pressure, which changed their life trajectory and buried many bright spots in themselves.
Third, life is tested everywhere, and a normal mind can go further.
1, examination should be regarded as a way to test learning achievements, and should not be a cage that binds hands and feet. Many people can understand their parents' expectations. As parents, who doesn't live for their children? In reality, we always shed tears for the story that parents have worked so hard to cultivate their children's growth, and we are also gratified that children will give back to their parents after they become famous.
2. But have we ever thought that life is a long-distance race? If you win at the starting line, you don't have to win the long-distance running all your life. In the future, you have to ask yourself what you can learn from your parents and what you can give them, and seek truth from facts.
3, there is a rough saying on the Internet, which is widely circulated. It is said that if you feel that life is boring, you should go to the intensive care unit of the hospital. If you don't appreciate the hardships in the world, you won't cherish what you have now. So are children. He is not someone's exclusive product, and the meaning of life needs him to understand.
4. As parents, as long as you are yourself and be the eternal sun of your children, you will reap the fruits of a bumper harvest. I don't regret it until I lose my trust. The power of family can be greater than everything, or it can destroy everything, depending on how you grasp it.