(Brief Writing) Youth Wind Education Studio I. Psychological preparation for admission: Children's admission to school is a crucial step in life, even more important than children's admission to college, because the younger they are, the more difficult they are. The first grade is really a difficult day in a child's life. Children who are not prepared will face more growth problems in the coming school life, and even develop into psychological problems and moral problems. Only when there is a first-grade student in the family will parents find that the most difficult time in a child's life is from the beginning of the first grade to the end of the study. Many parents began to panic and were at a loss. Children's psychological preparation for school will have a subtle influence on children. Therefore, before children go to school, parents should first sit down and talk with their children, stimulate their interest in school, solve some doubts about school and study in their hearts, and go to school with excitement and expectation as soon as possible. For example, parents can ask: Do you like school? Why do you like this school? Go to school, what should we do now? At the same time, parents might as well teach their children to write their own names, know their parents' phone numbers, where their parents live and where their parents work, and briefly introduce themselves in a paragraph. The purpose of doing these jobs is to build children's confidence in going to school, which is very important. Second, school impression preparation: tell your child about the history and current situation of the primary school your child will attend in the future. "Oh, girl, mom chose a good school for you. This school is great! ..... "The words are full of yearning, pride and expectation, and the children will gradually get excited and especially look forward to going to this school. This is a must. Parents can also take advantage of the weekend. Parents (must be two people) can take their children to school together, even if it is a walk at the school gate. At the same time, let the children be familiar with the way from home to school. At home, please ask your big brother and big sister to talk about interesting things in school, and tell your children what is the difference between primary school and kindergarten, such as "stand up straight, sit up straight, put your legs flat and hold your arms". Let children have more yearning. At this time, families can imitate school learning games with their children. Dad asked as a teacher, and mom, grandma and other children did it as required. You can also let your child be a teacher once, so that he or she can feel what to do in class, what requirements, habits and the most basic polite expressions should be used in class. Third, safety education preparation: health is more important than scores, and safety is more important than health. There are many sports equipment in the school, the venue is hard, there are many students, and the first-grade children are small and fragile. Parents should educate their children not to push and fight when they get to school, especially when they have a ruler and pencil in their hands. Second, don't run wildly, walk into the campus slowly and gently, and have someone else in mind. When children rush, they often look at the children chasing after them, bump into trees and fall under the steps, which is easy to get hurt. Parents should also pay attention to traffic safety. Children aged 6 to 12 must be picked up by their parents. The traffic situation is too complicated now, and there is only one child. When leading a child, you must lead the child with your right hand; Send the child, see the child enter the school gate and then turn around. Tell your children to go home after school and make this rule for them on the first day of school. At home, let children develop the habit of washing their hands before and after meals, only drinking their own cups, and not drinking anyone's cups when they catch them. This is also an aspect of food safety education. Fourth, family environment preparation: provide a fixed study place for children at home-study room, let children participate, give ideas and express opinions, but don't listen. For example, the best pencil is a log-colored pencil with no pattern on it; Rubber, not grotesque, exudes a strong fragrance; The pencil case is an ordinary flip cover, and children can't use it as a toy. There must be books suitable for children at home, more than one year 10. There is no study, so a desk must be left for the children. There is a white wall in front of the desk and a window on the left. You see, the light comes from the left, and the child's vision will not decline; The white wall in front won't leave any room for children to be distracted. After the child sits down, his feet must be on the ground, which is called practicality. The desk lamp must be incandescent lamp (not electroluminescent), that is, ground glass with visible tungsten filament, and it is best not to exceed 25 watts. From the beginning of freshmen's registration, cultivate the habit of "putting it back after use" For example, prepare a schoolbag, put some school supplies in it, put them neatly and train every day. Put the Chinese and math books in one place, the homework to be handed in in one place and the pencil box in one place after school starts. Parents should do their duty. Some children spend more time looking for things than doing their homework. In class, they look for notebooks and pencils. When they all find them, they start to do their homework, and others have finished it. This is the difference in school preparation. In the first semester of grade one, parents should study with their sons and princesses. One of the parents has to cancel all the business trips and meals of the unit and run back after work. When children begin to do homework, parents should show their children no matter how tired and busy they are, even if they pretend to read the newspaper, don't eat while doing homework, or let their children hear the sound of TV next to them. Parents help their children for a period of time, which means helping them for a lifetime. After school, parents should let their children tell themselves what happened in school with great interest, instead of being bored and listening with their eyes and ears, instead of listening with their mouths (whatever). Remember: the attitude towards schools and teachers must be well-behaved and respectful. Never speak ill of school or teachers in front of children. It is an opportunity and the most effective to use teachers to correct children's bad habits. V. Preparation for study habits: What parents can do now must be to cultivate their children's living habits. Children with messy living habits should not expect to have good study habits. For example, eating slowly, dressing slowly, and doing homework at school will definitely be slow. Therefore, children must take the initiative to tackle key problems, complete the specified tasks within the specified time, and never fool around. In the first month after school starts, children can do several things every day according to fixed procedures after returning home. It's over. You are free to spend your time. Parents may wish to make a "feedback form on learning and habits in one day" for their children, stick it on the desk and follow these steps step by step. Put a tick after you finish, such as "put away your schoolbag → wash your hands → drink water and eat → finish your homework → check right and wrong → read or preview → get ready". This habit was formed in one month, and parents are happy for life; If the habit is not formed well, parents will worry for life. Therefore, parents must first insist, and secondly, there must be one person in the family who can control the children, and the whole family must listen to this person, so it is necessary to form a joint force of education. Children will leave their parents eventually, so we should prepare for their future development. Overindulgence of children will hurt them. It is the result of this "irrational" educational behavior that children fail to honor their parents and study in a mess. Sixth, the preparation of learning ability: children learn first by vision, that is, eyes. After school, 80% of the learning information is received through the eyes. Secondly, listening, 15% of learning information is received by listening. Listen and see, that's what it means. Among them, attention is the most important thing for children to learn. ADHD is actually a hearing and visual defect, that is, when you talk to your child, his eyes don't communicate with you and his ears can't hear clearly. Then, the children will be smart in the future, and they will be at the bottom of the school. This is the "learning disability". This must be corrected with great efforts-let children look into people's eyes and talk. During the summer vacation, parents should let their children live regularly, and when to get up, rest and watch TV should not be too casual; We should also take our children to exercise more, so that their extra energy can be released. You will find that at this time, taking a child to read for a while, he (she) is most willing to be quiet; Eat at a certain speed. Do not feed. If a child does not eat, he or she will not be allowed to eat. Remember, he or she must not eat snacks. At the next meal, the children will eat quickly and have a good time. It is not easy to be a child, he can't choose his parents again; It is not easy for parents to educate their children about genetics, eugenics, nutrition, hygiene, nursing, pediatrics, pharmacology, psychology, pedagogy, behavior correction and so on. None of us will be parents unless we understand this. Therefore, at best, we can only be called "parents", not "parents". "Long" requires some experience and knowledge. When a child is born, you must be "careful"; When we were five or six years old, we were a little "free"; In the first grade, we began to "hurry-scurry"; In junior high school, we had to "give up on ourselves". It can be seen that behind every child who does not grow up, there must be a pair of parents who do not grow up. This educational process cannot be repeated. Therefore, parents must study with their children, grow up together, and eventually become a qualified "parent".