It's "carelessness"!
It is these children who are often careless when doing problems, which leads to the loss of points in the papers.
As we all know, "carelessness" is not conducive to children's growth, and may also affect their mental health. Therefore, we must find the crux of the child's carelessness in time and find a solution.
Let's talk about the following five aspects:
First, don't criticize severely.
When children make mistakes, parents and teachers must control their emotions, don't lose their temper, and don't blame them. Get rid of "carelessness" for children and create an atmosphere as relaxed as possible.
Second, don't label it negatively.
Mom and dad should pay special attention to this. When children are careless, don't label them negatively;
"You are going to be a careless king!"
"You are hopeless!"
"You are a little horse and tiger!"
"I don't think your carelessness can be changed!"
…… ……
When parents say this, they are boasting about their emotional euphoria, but for children, they can only increase their inferiority complex, dampen their self-confidence and lose their enthusiasm for learning, which is harmful and useless.
Third, help children find "carelessness"
A lot of math is not good. My mother analyzes the reason why she makes mistakes every time: it's not that she can't do the problem, but that she misreads the problem every time. From this, it is concluded that it is easy to read the wrong question, which is the child's "carelessness". So, mother told blossoming: "You are careless because your brain is blocked every time you examine the questions." In this way, every time you do this problem again, calm down, close your eyes and count to three, then open your eyes and write it down, so it is not easy to make mistakes. Because you didn't let your brain get stuck, you consciously set up a warning sign to remind you that this is your accident-prone area, so be careful. "
After such a period of time, blossoming again to do the problem, this kind of mistake is rarely made.
Fourth, make a fuss about care.
When the child is careless, parents should not always stare at the mistakes made by the child because of carelessness, but look for opportunities to praise the child's carefulness.
For example, when children do their homework, they usually make a little mistake, even if it is a little progress, they should be found in time and praised in time.
For example, Rui Rui is lively and active. It's hard to be quiet even when you do your homework. Homework that can be finished in half an hour is often finished in one hour, because you have to stand seven or eight times during the period. It is difficult to concentrate when writing a word or doing a problem for a long time, and the error rate is naturally high.
Rui Rui's mother came up with a reward and punishment method: stand up no more than three times today and watch cartoons at will that night; If it is more than 3 times, the cartoon can only be watched for a short time; If it exceeds 5 times, you can't watch TV that night. As a result, Rui Rui tried to restrain himself and really did it.
Parents can also make an elaborate table with their children and stick it on the wall. Every time I am very careful, I draw a five-pointed star, and I will give a small reward when I am full of five, and a big reward when I am full of two small rewards. After a period of persistence, you will find that children are more and more careful, and careless problems will naturally decrease.
Fifth, let the children prepare a wrong book.
Lele's exercise book and composition book are full of typos, and the children feel inferior. Mother came up with a good idea. She and Lele counted and sorted out the typos in the exercise book together. After sorting, they were surprised to find that there were only a few typos. Then analyze the reasons why these words are misspelled with your children. A week later, there were almost no typos in the children's exercise books.
A wrong question is actually a detailed arrangement of children's "carelessness" and can be corrected ideologically and consciously. In the future, when children encounter similar problems, the brain will automatically issue an early warning to respond, so that the phenomenon of "carelessness" can be controlled to the maximum extent.
It's like a driver driving on the road. At first, because I was unfamiliar with it, I was nervous when I met the traffic lights. I should drive carefully and be afraid of running the red light and pressing the yellow line. The wrong question is a child's "red light". Because of caution, the possibility of making mistakes is naturally much less. I have encountered typos or wrong questions many times. If you are skilled, you won't make mistakes again. In this way, the child's "carelessness" has gradually improved.
Friends, do you agree with Teacher Ping's method? Please participate in the discussion in the comments section!