You know, today is her daughter's birthday, but the cake she kindly bought was ignored by other parents. The more she thinks about it, the angrier she gets. In a rage, Lily called her husband who was away on a business trip to tell her about it.

It turns out that my daughter has been at school since the beginning of the kindergarten holiday. But thinking that today is her daughter's birthday, and fearing that her daughter will be wronged, Lily ordered an ultra-luxurious three-layer cream cake from school.

When picking up her daughter from school in the evening, the teacher returned the cake to Lily, saying that only a little cake was given to her daughter and no other children ate it.

Lily was particularly puzzled and said that she bought a cake for the children to eat together. The teacher didn't need to be too polite, and ordered a big cake that she was worried about not having enough to eat.

But the teacher smiled tactfully and said that his mobile phone had not been quiet for a long time. When the parents in the class heard that someone was sending a cake, they immediately told the teacher privately not to eat it, for the sake of the children.

Not only that, the teacher also reminded Lily not to send cakes to the school in the future, because the school has no such regulations. If a child accidentally eats a bad stomach, it will be unclear whether it is the school's food problem or the parents' take-out is not clean, so it is best to avoid bringing your own food.

Lily's husband also thinks what the teacher said is very reasonable. After all, children are the heart of parents. Who will be responsible for the accident?

In fact, kindergartens do not allow parents to send cakes for the following reasons.

1, children are easy to breed the heart of comparison.

At present, most families have better economic conditions and love their children, so parents will basically do whatever their children want to eat and play.

As far as buying cakes is concerned, if parents customize a big and beautiful cake for their children, it is easy for other children to envy it, and then parents will buy themselves a bigger and better one. Over time, children will form an atmosphere of comparison, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth.

2. Hygiene and quality are difficult to guarantee.

Kindergarten meals are strictly controlled, and food is rarely unclean. But if parents bring it in from the outside, it is difficult to know the quality and hygiene.

So for the sake of children's health, kindergarten teachers will strictly prohibit parents from taking out food. Parents must understand and support the work of kindergartens. After all, children's growth and health are the most important.

3. It is not conducive to children's health.

For sweets such as cakes, most children especially like them, especially those sweet creams that get out of hand when they are eaten. I can't wait to eat more at once.

After all, in order to protect their children's stomachs and teeth, parents basically strictly control their children's chances of eating sweets. Therefore, if parents know that there is a big cake to eat in kindergarten, they will be very worried about their children's health, so this is also the most worrying issue for parents.

So how should parents celebrate their children's birthdays?

1, DIY gift

We often say that life should have a sense of ceremony, which also applies to children's birthdays. Especially now, parents either give their children red envelopes or buy brand-name clothes or toys. These material things make children's appetite bigger and bigger, and it is not easy to understand the hard work of parents to make money.

To this end, parents can take their children to make some handmade gifts. These special gifts will enrich children's hearts, and what parents spend time doing will make children know how to cherish them.

Choose a holiday to take the children out for a day.

Nowadays, children's life is basically learning and attending training classes, and there is little time to play freely on weekends. You know, children also need time to relax, especially taking a day off on their birthdays and doing what they want can make children understand their parents better.

Therefore, if the child's birthday is coming, parents can take the child out for a walk and play. After all, parents will feel more meaningful only if their children are happy.

3. Take the children to visit my grandmother.

As the saying goes, all mothers in the world are great and ask for nothing in return. For example, their children's birthdays, which are obviously the crucifixion day of their children, will not say anything.

In fact, instead of giving children a grand birthday, it is better to teach them to be grateful to their mothers and grandmothers and to be filial to them when they grow up. This is the best gift for parents to give their children.