Just when the child didn't know it, he paid for it. As a result, he signed up Fortunately, the children didn't go, but there was not much money.
Children who don't want to go to interest classes may really dislike them, or time may not be up.
My family used to be very exclusive, and I am very willing to play this year. He chose football by himself and will teach us how to do it when he comes back.
Don't blindly give your child an interest class, at least take a look at your child's personality. Ask her what she likes and his wishes before she reports to class, and then choose a suitable one according to the child's preference.
At the same time, interest is the best motivation to distinguish between what parents think is useful and what children think is interesting.
The same is true when children first come into contact with various interest classes. In the audition stage, some children feel fun no matter what class they listen to, and they want to sign up for all kinds of classes. But once I signed up, I didn't want to study in a few days and didn't want to go again.
Some parents will compromise immediately when they hear their children say they don't want to go to interest classes. This practice will make children form an escape mentality when they encounter difficulties.
We should listen to the reasons why the children don't go first. At the same time, be sure of your child's previous behavior. It's good to tell him that the course is so difficult that he can persist until now.
Then, we can talk to the children about their interesting stories in the last class, or some positive feedback from the teacher. For example, which small partner played a fun game with the class; Last class, the teacher said he did well and rewarded him with a little star. Doing so can help children find the motivation to continue.
Then, we waited for an opportunity to encourage the children and went to see it again. You can guide your child to see if there will be any fun this time, or if there are any new friends to join. With the preparation before, plus the small goal that we only gave once, children will generally agree to try again.
As long as the child goes to an interest class again, regardless of the outcome, parents should encourage and affirm that the child is willing to try and persist. At the same time, you can ask your child if there are any new discoveries in this class. Or is there anything interesting? Help children accumulate the motivation to go again.