I have had such an experience. When my child was four or five years old, I wanted him to be influenced by art and gave him a set of drums. As a result, the child plays it twice a day in a daze, and as a result, he can't play a song. I gave up decisively! First of all, children have no talent and interest in this field. Secondly, no one in my family has a musical cell, and it is impossible to create an environment for children to cultivate this interest. Therefore, when children don't have much self-awareness, I think this musical instrument learning can be put aside.
Then go roller skating, and my son fell in love with it as soon as he touched it. In class, the coach asked him to rest, so he kept practicing on the sidelines alone and made rapid progress. But in the later period, the roller skating organization where he took classes closed down and sold the rest of his classes to another training class. There, my son met a master-the third runner-up in the provincial speed skating competition. Those children may laugh at their son during recess and say that he is not good at skating. Since then, his son has been very resistant to taking roller skating lessons. Because the scalping class is almost over, my son can do a few tricks well, and his son has more learning tasks after attending elementary school, so we didn't continue to sign him up to learn pulley.
In the first grade, my son watched "Happy Basket Beyond the Future" on TV, and suddenly fell in love with basketball. On New Year's Day, I was dragged to the basketball court in the opposite park to play basketball. I didn't miss a day during the winter vacation. I go shooting every day, and I will be dragged after school. I think he is really interested this time. It's good to think that boys should cultivate a hobby in sports. After reconfirming with our son, we signed up for a basketball class. However, after a period of class, my son's interest dropped like a cliff! He began to look for various reasons and excuses not to attend class. Even if he is forced to go to class, he will hide in the toilet on the pretext of having a stomachache! I am really angry. Why did a sport I like so much suddenly become like this? Asked if he was criticized by the coach, he said no, anyway, he was too tired to play! I don't think so. I haven't finished my class yet. It's a course of several thousand yuan, so it can't be wasted. In addition, playing basketball is definitely a plus for boys. This sports meeting has many positive effects on him, and he is also interested, so I choose to force him at this time! I communicated with the coach and invited him to our home to talk with him, and then the training slowly returned to the right track. Then, there is progress visible to the naked eye! My son himself felt that he was getting worse, and his confidence followed, and his interest was revived at once. This is the result of a virtuous circle.
Therefore, I want to say that interest is the best teacher for children. But interest needs to be cultivated and cared for, and as a parent, the best way is to participate and accompany.