Second, the meaning of etiquette
In Chinese, the earliest "ceremony" and "instrument" were used separately. In ancient books, "ceremony" mainly has three meanings: one is political system, the other is etiquette, and the third is gift. "Yi" also has three meanings: first, it refers to appearance and appearance; Second, refers to the ceremony and etiquette; Third, it refers to norms and laws. In essence, China's ancient "rites" focused more on moral education in the political system.
In the west, "etiquette" also has three meanings: first, it refers to polite manners; Second, it refers to upbringing and rules, that is, etiquette; Third, it refers to etiquette, rituals and customs.
The ceremony we are talking about today mainly refers to etiquette. Etiquette is to express people's inner respect for others through beautiful instruments and ceremonies. Looking at the understanding of the meaning of "etiquette" at home and abroad, we can see that it has the following three basic meanings:
1. Etiquette is a code of conduct or behavior pattern. Don't reach out when you meet, but say "goodbye" consciously when you leave. No one forced you to do this, but you think it is the only proper and correct way.
Everyone abides by the etiquette. Of course, it is impossible for everyone in the world to follow the same etiquette, but etiquette is universal compared with accidental behavior. Nowadays, greeting each other is very common in the world.
3. Etiquette has its rationality, such as restraining people's desires, ensuring social order and realizing the harmony of interpersonal relationships. Of course, this is conceptual cognition, which is different from external performance.
Third, etiquette is embodied in politeness, etiquette, appearance, ceremony and so on.
1. Politeness refers to the mutual respect, friendliness and propriety that people should have in the process of mutual communication.
2. Etiquette refers to the customary forms and norms such as respect, congratulations, greetings, greetings and condolences expressed by people in the process of social communication.
3. Instrument refers to a person's appearance, such as appearance, clothes, posture, etc.
4. Ceremony refers to activities with special procedures and norms held on fixed occasions. For example, award ceremony, signing ceremony and opening ceremony.
Question 2: What are the contents of politeness and etiquette? 1. What is etiquette?
A: Etiquette refers to the code of conduct and norms formed by people in social communication activities. Reflected in politeness, etiquette, appearance, ceremony and so on.
2. What is politeness?
A: Politeness refers to the mutual respect, friendliness and propriety that people should have in the process of mutual communication.
3, standard etiquette standards:
Good looks and generous manners;
Dignified and steady, neither humble nor supercilious;
Kindness and sincerity;
Dress code, neat and crisp;
Dress appropriately and make up lightly;
Well-trained and well-behaved.
4. Polite content:
appear
The content/manner of speech
Etiquette and manners
meeting etiquette
Official etiquette
Question 3: What does etiquette mean? 1. What is etiquette?
A: Etiquette refers to the code of conduct and norms formed by people in social communication activities. Reflected in politeness, etiquette, appearance, ceremony and so on.
2. What is politeness?
A: Politeness refers to the mutual respect, friendliness and propriety that people should have in the process of mutual communication.
3. What is etiquette?
A: Etiquette refers to the customary forms and norms such as respect, congratulations, greetings, greetings and condolences expressed by people in the process of social communication.
4. What is a musical instrument?
A: Instrument refers to a person's appearance. Such as appearance, dress, posture, etc.
5. What is a ceremony?
A: Ceremony refers to the standardized activities with special procedures held on fixed occasions. For example, award ceremony, signing ceremony and opening ceremony.
6. What are the six basic characteristics of etiquette?
A: * * * Homosexuality, inheritance, unity, difference, class influence, and the development of the times.
7. What are the four principles of etiquette?
A: The principles of respect, compliance, moderation and self-discipline.
8. What are the four functions of etiquette?
A: Communication function, coordination function, maintenance function and education function.
9. Why is China "a country with an ancient civilization and etiquette"?
China is an ancient civilization with a long history. For thousands of years, it has created splendid culture, formed noble moral standards and complete etiquette norms, and is called "the country with ancient civilization and etiquette" by the world.
10, why pay attention to etiquette?
A: Paying attention to etiquette is not a trivial matter in personal life, but a realistic reflection of a country's social atmosphere and an important symbol of the progress of a nation's spiritual civilization.
1 1. What is the function of etiquette to society?
A: For society, etiquette can improve people's moral concept, purify social atmosphere and improve social and cultural quality.
12, what does etiquette do for individuals?
A: For individuals, etiquette can build self-esteem, enhance self-esteem, self-confidence and self-love, pave the way for social interpersonal communication and handle various relationships well.
13, how to strengthen personal cultivation?
A:
(1) Consciously improve personal moral cultivation;
(2) Have a sense of justice and principle;
(3) Care, respect and help others.
14, how to cultivate self-sentiment?
A:
(1) Strengthen the study of science and culture and make yourself a knowledgeable person;
(2) optimistic, cheerful and generous;
(3) Enthusiasm, sincerity, consideration, kindness and friendliness.
Question 4: What are the etiquette of the flag-raising ceremony? It can be carried out according to the following procedures: (read by name) Good morning, dear teachers and students! Today is January, Monday, this week, the flag-raising ceremony is presided over by the grade class. Now I declare the beginning of the flag-raising ceremony in primary schools: item one: all stand at attention, wave flags and shout, and play music! (Playing the national flag song). Item 2: Raise the national flag, play the national anthem, and all salute! (After the ceremony). Item 3: Speak under the national flag (teacher or student). Item 4: Talk about other issues. Item 5: The flag-raising ceremony ends here. Please leave the classroom in an orderly manner. (The music used is my own)
Question 5: What are the basic manners? (A) daily communication etiquette
1. Respect local customs and observe social morality.
Be punctual and don't stand up. 3. Respect the elderly and women, take good care of getting on and off vehicles and elevators, and let them go first when going out.
4. Have dignity and pay attention to your words and deeds. 5. Don't spit everywhere, spit in a paper towel and throw it into the dustbin. Don't throw cigarette butts or other discarded items.
6. Don't manicure, pick your teeth, pick your nose, blow your nose, dig your ears, tickle, shake your legs, take off your shoes, choke, stretch and hum a tune in public. When sneezing or yawning, cover your nose and mouth with a handkerchief and face to one side to avoid making noise.
Smoking is not allowed in public places, such as watching performances and eating. When smoking is allowed, the woman's consent should be obtained. Don't walk with a cigarette in your mouth. Please put out your cigarettes before entering the reception room and dining room.
8. Don't eat garlic, onions and other smelly things before taking part in the activity.
(2) Appearance and clothing
1. Hair and beard should be trimmed frequently. Nose hair and nails should be cut short.
2. Clothes should be clean and tidy, especially shirts should be changed frequently. 3. Generally wear dark clothes when attending major events, and the upper and lower body colors should be consistent.
4. Take off your coat, hat, scarf, gloves, etc. After attending the activity, send it to the clothing storage place for storage. Check your personal belongings in your pocket before storing them.
Men are not allowed to wear hats indoors at any time.
6. Generally, black glasses are not worn indoors. Even outdoors, sunglasses should not be worn in formal occasions such as grand ceremonies and welcoming guests.
(3) Meeting etiquette
1. The first acquaintance is usually introduced by a third party or self. When introducing others, first of all, we should know whether they have the desire to get to know each other, and don't make a move. Low status and young age should be introduced to high status and old age, and men should be introduced to women. State your name and position clearly. When introducing a specific person, you should politely signal with your hands, don't point with your fingers, and don't pat others with your hands. Introduce yourself, say your name and identity first, and then ask the other person. You can exchange business cards when introducing each other.
2. Say hello when you meet for the first time in a day or at an activity. When the other person takes the initiative to say hello, you must make a corresponding answer. We usually shake hands when we meet. Because there are many people attending large-scale activities, you can shake hands with the host and nod to others without shaking hands. Some people in Buddhist countries in Southeast Asia don't shake hands, but greet them with folded hands. When shaking hands, the host, the old man, the high-ranking person and the lady reach out first. Guests, young people and people with low status can say hello first, and then hold hands when they meet. When people shake hands at the same time, be careful not to cross and wait for others to shake hands before reaching out. Men should take off their hats when shaking hands outdoors.
(4) Pay attention to manners when speaking.
1. When talking in social situations, we must first find out the identity of the other party, so that we can talk appropriately and pertinently.
2. Contact and conversation abroad should be natural and cordial. Listen carefully when the other person is talking, don't look around at your watch.
Don't use too many gestures when you speak. Don't speak too loudly so that the other person can hear you clearly.
Don't talk about unpleasant things such as illness. Generally don't ask each other's resume. Speak in time and be polite. If the other person doesn't talk, don't ask. Don't ask the lady's age and whether she is married or not.
Seek truth from facts in foreign conversation, don't answer things you don't know casually, don't promise things you are not sure about, and keep your word.
6. When there are more than three people present, don't just say what two people know and exclude others.
7. Don't talk about the affairs of a third party. 8. Don't always talk by yourself, let others have a chance to talk. Don't interrupt others when they are talking.
9. If the other person didn't hear you clearly, you can ask again. I found that the other party misunderstood my speech and should explain it further.
10. In social situations, you should actively communicate according to your identity. But don't eavesdrop if others are talking alone. If you need to talk to someone, you should wait until others have finished. If I need to talk to you urgently, I should say hello and apologize first.
Question 6: What does etiquette training include? Personal etiquette, communication etiquette, reception etiquette, meeting etiquette, banquet etiquette, etiquette, foreign etiquette and clerical etiquette.
Question 7: What is etiquette? Etiquette is the minimum moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society. Etiquette includes etiquette, courtesy and ceremony.
Etiquette, such customary forms as showing respect, thanks, welcome, congratulations and mourning, is the code of conduct in interpersonal communication.
Politeness is the expression of modesty and respect in words and actions, and the expression of etiquette in speech acts.
Ceremony is a form of holding ceremony according to certain procedures.
Etiquette is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication, and is fixed by customs, habits and traditions.
Question 8: What are the general aspects of opening etiquette? In the business world, the establishment and opening of any unit, or the completion and completion of projects or projects operated by this unit, such as the establishment of companies, the opening of stores, the opening of branches, the completion of office buildings, the opening of new bridges, the launching of new ships, etc. , are hard-won and gratifying success, so it has always been highly valued by experienced businessmen. Generally speaking, in this case, the two sides usually hold a special opening ceremony for this purpose.
Opening ceremony refers to a special ceremony held ceremoniously in accordance with certain procedures to celebrate or commemorate the establishment and opening of a unit, the completion and completion of a project, the official opening of a building or the official start of a project. Sometimes the opening ceremony is also called the opening ceremony.
The opening ceremony has always been favored by business people. The reason is not only that businessmen only seek a good fortune for themselves, but that they can make the best use of the situation and benefit the development of their own business. It is generally believed that the opening ceremony can play at least the following five roles. First, it helps to shape the good image of the unit and improve its popularity and reputation. Second, it helps to expand the social influence of the unit and attract the attention of all sectors of society. Third, it helps to "publicize" the establishment or performance of the unit and attract customers for themselves. Fourth, it will help to share the joy of success with the different and incisive societies that have supported them, and then lay a good foundation for further cooperation in the future. Fifth, it helps to enhance the sense of pride and responsibility of all employees in this unit, so as to create a good start or a new starting point for themselves.
Opening etiquette generally refers to the etiquette practices that should be followed in the specific process of preparation and action for the opening ceremony. Usually, it includes two basic contents. The first is the preparation for the opening ceremony. The second is the action of the opening ceremony.
Although the opening ceremony lasted for a short time, it was not easy to create a warm atmosphere and achieve a complete success. Because it involves a wide range and has a huge impact, we should make careful preparations. Whether the preparatory work is serious and sufficient often determines whether an opening ceremony can be truly successful. Organizers must attach great importance to this.
Preparations for the opening ceremony should first follow the guiding ideology of "enthusiasm", "thrift" and "meticulous" three principles. The so-called "enthusiasm" is to strive to create a cheerful, festive, grand and exciting atmosphere in the opening ceremony, and not to make it too dull and boring. A person who has been in business for many years said: "The opening ceremony should be simplified, but there should be no lack of enthusiasm and solemnity. Instead of being sloppy or stepping on the stage in one breath, it is better to simply omit it. "
The so-called "frugality" means that the organizers are required to run the museum diligently. In the whole process of holding the opening ceremony and preparing for the opening ceremony, the expenditure should be measured, controlled and frugal. Oppose extravagance and waste. What should be spent, what should not be spent, is not wasted.
The so-called "meticulous" means that when preparing for the opening ceremony, the organizers should not only follow the etiquette convention, but also analyze the specific situation, carefully plan, pay attention to details, be responsible for the division of labor and be meticulous. Strive to be thorough and meticulous, and guard against all secrets and mistakes on the spot.
Specifically, when preparing for the opening ceremony, it is especially necessary to make careful arrangements in advance in six aspects: public opinion propaganda, guest invitation, venue layout, reception service, gifts and process.
First, do a good job in public opinion propaganda. Since the purpose of holding the opening ceremony is to create a good image of the unit, it is necessary to carry out public opinion propaganda to attract the attention of all sectors of society and strive for public recognition or acceptance. The routine work to be done for this purpose is as follows: First, select effective mass media and carry out centralized advertising. Its contents are mostly: the date and place of the opening ceremony, the preferential treatment to customers when opening, the business characteristics of the opening unit and so on. The second is to invite relevant people from the mass media to interview and report at the opening ceremony to further promote the unit positively.
Second, we should do a good job of inviting guests. In fact, the influence of the opening ceremony often depends on the status and number of guests. Invite as many people as possible ... >>
Question 9: What are the contents of modern etiquette? Modern social etiquette generally refers to the code of conduct and norms that people should abide by in the social process. Specific performance is etiquette, courtesy, ceremony, instrument, etc. The principle of sincere respect for modern social etiquette is a realistic attitude towards people and things, and it is a manifestation of sincere friendship towards others. Sincerity and respect are first manifested in not lying, not hypocrisy, not cheating and not insulting people. The so-called "derailment once, no friends for life"; Secondly, it is manifested in correctly understanding others, trusting and respecting others. The so-called selfless heart and sincere dedication will have fruitful results. Only sincere respect can make the two sides soul mate and their friendship last forever. Of course, sincere respect is very important, but in social situations, sincerity and respect are also manifested in many misunderstandings. One is to pour out all your sincerity blindly in social situations, even regardless of the object; One is that no matter whether the other party can accept it or not, anyone who disagrees or doesn't like it will blindly reject or even attack it. It is not good to fall into such a misunderstanding in social situations. Therefore, in social interaction, we must pay attention to some concrete manifestations of sincerity and respect. When you pour out your heartfelt words, it depends on whether the other person can really pour out his heartfelt words. If the other person doesn't like to hear your sincere voice at all, then you will live in vain. In addition, if you don't like or agree with the other person's views or clothes, you don't have to criticize him tit for tat, let alone laugh at or attack him. You can ask questions tactfully or express them moderately or simply avoid them. Some people think this is hypocritical, which is wrong. It is a sign of respect for others, and naturally it is also a sign of courtesy and sincerity. Just like at the negotiating table, even if the other person is your opponent, you should be polite and show respect for others. This is not only a sign of politeness, but also a sign of defeating each other psychologically. To show your sincerity and respect, in social occasions, remember three points: give others the opportunity to fully show, show their greatest enthusiasm to others, and always leave room for each other. The principle of equality and moderation in social occasions, etiquette behavior is always manifested in both sides. If you give the other person a gift, the other person will naturally give it back to you. The implementation of this etiquette must pay attention to the principle of equality. Equality is the foundation of building emotions when people communicate with each other, and it is also the key to maintaining good interpersonal relationships. In communication, equality is manifested in not being arrogant and impetuous, not going its own way, not being self-righteous, not favoring one side over another, not being arrogant and impetuous, not judging people by their appearances, and not bullying others by their occupation, status and power. On the contrary, we should always treat others with equality and humility. Only in this way can we make more friends. The principle of moderation refers to grasping the discretion in communication and exercising the corresponding etiquette according to the specific situation and situation. For example, when dealing with people, be polite and not condescending; Be warm and generous, but don't be frivolous and flattering; Self-esteem is not conceited; Honest but not rude; Trust people but not credulous; Lively but not frivolous; Modest but not stiff; Be sophisticated and prudent, but not sophisticated. The principle of self-confidence and self-discipline The principle of self-confidence is the principle of mental health in social situations. Only when you have full confidence in yourself can you feel at home and be handy. Self-confidence is a valuable psychological quality in social situations. A self-confident person can be humble and generous in communication, not ashamed when encountering the strong, not discouraged when encountering difficulties, dare to stand up and fight back when encountering insults, and lend a helping hand when encountering the weak; A person who lacks self-confidence will hit a wall everywhere, even out of the water. People who are confident but not conceited, who think they are great and always confident tend to go to the extreme of conceit, self-righteous, disrespectful and even force others to do everything. So how to eliminate conceited inferiority in interpersonal communication? The principle of self-discipline is another principle to correctly handle self-confidence and conceit. Self-discipline is the principle of self-discipline. In the process of social communication, we should establish an internal moral belief and behavior development criterion in our hearts, so as to restrain our behavior, be strict with ourselves, realize self-education and self-management, and set the balance of self-confidence, so that we don't have to be afraid of wolves before and tigers after, and we can't be self-righteous and conceited in everything. Credit tolerance principle: Credit is the principle of paying attention to credibility. Confucius once said, "People can't stand without faith, so make friends and keep promises." Emphasis is placed on the principle of keeping promises. Honesty is the virtue of our Chinese nation. In social situations, we should pay special attention to punctuality, appointments, meetings, talks, meetings, etc. Never delay being late. The second is to keep the contract, that is, the agreement, agreement and verbal commitment signed with people ... >>