Many men don't have a clear position before the age of 30, and they don't plan their future well. Or because you are young and inexperienced, you think things are too simple, or because you are young and frivolous. By the age of 30, they have been walking in the workplace for six or seven years. They have seen a lot of things, changed a lot and defined themselves more clearly. At this time, they urgently need to draw up a practical career plan. However, although quite a few people want to reposition themselves, there will always be some deviations and problems, or the positioning is vague, or the entrance can not be found, or the implementation is not in place. All these have brought a moderate shadow to their higher prospects.

Second, love.

"Standing at 30, not confused at 40", the so-called "not confused", can be understood in many ways, that is, no longer confused by emotions, no longer confused and confused by secular vanity, no longer seduced by money and beauty (this sentence is purely for the explanation of "not confused", because our ancestors thought that people should be so confused at the age of 40, but as a modern 30-year-old,