Mr. Chen Heqin, an educator in China, said: "Let children do what they can." Let the children make their own decisions. Why? The following analysis from two aspects.
First, children can make their own decisions and give full play to their own advantages. Children who graduated from Grade Three are at least fifteen years old and can basically know themselves. The child didn't do well in the exam, and he knows the reason best. If children think they have done their best, there is no need to force them to go to high school, because the courses in high school are much more difficult than those in junior high school. Without a certain foundation and thinking, even if you study hard, you may not be good. If he is forced to go to junior high school, if he can't keep up with the course, he will muddle along. I have a friend who is a class teacher in high school. He told me bluntly that students who didn't want to go to high school were not advised to force them to study. Many of them do nothing all day, either sleeping or playing mobile phones in class. This has wasted three years, so it is better to choose an interesting technical study as soon as possible.
Therefore, when your children choose to go to high school, you must support them and try to provide a school with strict management. You can't pass the formal public senior high school entrance examination. If family conditions permit, you can choose a private school. After all, private schools live by quality, and their management is much stricter than that of public schools.
Whether a child chooses a technical school or a high school is up to him according to his actual situation. What he decides by himself can give full play to his advantages.
Therefore, parents, when your child wants to choose a technical school, try to follow his choice.
Do not choose a technical school, choose a high school, and you must support it.
If a child thinks he is lazy, not serious and not trying his best, he will choose to go to high school. Although these children do poorly in the senior high school entrance examination, they still have potential. As long as they work hard in high school, they can get their grades back.
Second: children will fight for what they decide.
Let him decide for himself, and he will naturally realize that life depends on himself. And you can reflect on past mistakes. Now the consequence is that you have not worked hard, and you are responsible for yourself. When you have a sense of responsibility, you will naturally make plans for your future life.
No matter in technical school or high school, we will actively strive for progress. This invisibly gives children the strength to grow up.
Let the children decide for themselves whether their parents stand by and watch. No, parents should be companions, listeners and leaders.
It is a fact that children fail the exam. Don't complain and nag too much, which will increase their psychological burden. If it is serious, it will give up on itself.
Parents should stay with their children, listen to their voices and collect all kinds of information for them. If possible, please ask experienced experts and scholars for guidance. In any case, the final decision should be given to the children. In the future, he will use his youth to create countless fruits.