Shi Yi is 4 years old this year. On this day, my parents went to the neighbor's house and said something was wrong. Shi Yi was painting at home alone. He remembered that there were some new plates bought by his mother in the kitchen and decided to take them out. The little man is a little out of reach, ah, I almost got it, "pa"! Oh, my god, the plate broke into several large pieces and countless pieces of slag on the hard tile floor. Mom and dad will be back soon. How did Shi Yi explain to them these big flowers and scraps on the ground?

Mr. Shi's explanation is; "Mom, Cat Ann just broke the plate!" Analyzing and fabricating lies is a common behavior of children. Children can't tell the difference between reality and imagination, ideal and fantasy. Sometimes he is expressing his intention, but it seems to be lying to adults. Before the age of 4, children always regard whether their parents are happy or not as the standard to measure their behavior. Therefore, children of this age can't easily label their children as "lying" when they lie. If the child reaches the age of six or seven, he still can't understand the nature and boundary between lies and truth. Parents will not make necessary and patient corrections, and this kind of behavior will gradually settle down, form a habit and become a lie to avoid responsibility.

Countermeasures 1. Create a relaxed, democratic and happy family environment.

The most important factor to help children develop healthy psychological quality is to create a peaceful and happy growth environment for children. In a good and democratic family atmosphere, children don't have fear whenever they do something wrong. Therefore, parents should strive to create a family psychological environment of mutual respect, mutual trust, honesty and peace. When children encounter difficulties and problems, they can tell their parents to be patient and give help. So that children will not think that making up lies can save themselves. I believe that only by respecting children can we cultivate self-confident and self-respecting children.

2. Cultivate children's fun of telling the truth

In the process of shaping children's good psychological quality, we should seize the opportunity and educate children in time. For example; Sometimes children will make up some fantastic stories or lies. At this time, parents can listen and laugh, and then tell their children, "The story you made up is great, but it's too fake." Then explain the difference between fantasy and reality to the child, and then let him tell a real thing. When he finished speaking, the parents gave sincere praise, which made the children truly feel the joy of telling the truth.

3. Help children distinguish between fantasy and reality.

Psychological research shows that 18% of 6-year-old children can distinguish between reality and fantasy; 90% 9-year-old children can understand whether the story is fabricated or true; 1 1 year-old children have begun to understand honesty from a new perspective. As they get older, children gradually understand what lies and honesty are. Therefore, parents should start training and educating their children when they are 3-4 years old, and learn to distinguish between what is false and what is true. At the same time, help children realize the difference between doing something wrong and making up lies and lying. If you do something wrong, you can correct it. Corrected, still a good boy. Especially when children admit their mistakes, they should be praised and encouraged in time. When children lie for the first time, they often feel extremely uneasy. If parents find it in time and treat it in the right way, children will continue to develop in a healthy direction.

4. Let children understand the truth in simple and easy-to-understand words and learn more about early science education. Please log in to the early education column.