Most of the topics in this book are applicable to preschool children aged 2-6. The book records her and Xiao D's mental journey of "fighting monsters and upgrading", and the contents in the book are particularly suitable for our lives. Every child is an independent individual, but I think the methods in the book are all wisdom kits on the road to parenting, full of dry goods! A good book especially worth learning!
This book covers the field of 1 1, from kindergarten selection, early education, character cultivation, emotional intelligence education, to the cultivation of social skills and habits, as well as parent-child games, sex education enlightenment, parent-child communication, love and rules, and parents' growth. It also combines the advanced concepts of American kindergartens with her own personal experience and methods. The methods mentioned in many books are very operable and are real sharing of parenting experience. I feel that with the growth of children, the methods in reference books can be read repeatedly and digested slowly!
Now the material conditions of life are getting better and better, and our generation of mothers are paying more and more attention to the education and quality training of their children. However, sometimes they feel that they have too much to learn and change. Can I restrain myself from saying "no" when my child asks for inappropriate behavior? However, according to the current situation, I still can't, and the inherent thinking mode always makes me blurt out; Always dislike children's slow movements, and then do a lot of things for them, thus depriving them of opportunities for self-growth, but blaming them for not growing up! All this is my wrong behavior on the road of parenting! After reading this book, I was deeply inspired, and my parents' beloved son had a far-reaching influence!
To truly love children, we should not do everything for them, but help them grow up by themselves. In family life, let children experience the process of growth, experience the true feelings of success or failure, let children experience the joy of success and make themselves more confident! Let them accept setbacks and failures and learn to turn their enemies into friends. Reduce dependence on parents and let them understand that their own affairs are different from their parents'. Let me more clearly understand the sentence "parenting first". Parents are children's first teachers, and children observe their parents' behaviors every day, so their parents' learning is their role model! Being a "growing parent" is also a compulsory course for every parent with the progress of the times! Parents' learning and growth is not to change their children, but to do their best to lead their children and let them grow up in a loving energy field. Children's growth is irreversible and education is a quiet process. Effective is more important than reasonable. Effectiveness is the love you feel with your heart, and rationality is to judge right and wrong with your brain. We should strengthen study and reflection, set an example, correct bad habits, and let children learn to reflect on their words and deeds, which will make them feel the same way! So as to achieve a better parent-child relationship with children, grow together with children and make progress together!