2. Take the baby out on weekends and ask for his advice, but don't ask "Where do you want to go", but ask "Do you want to go to the zoo or the aquarium". Giving him the range of choices and letting him make his own choices will increase his confidence in himself. ?
The baby has just learned to speak. You teach him "big watermelon", but he says "catch it in the west". Don't laugh at him, and don't emphasize it at that time. Teach him next time. During the baby's language learning period, your ridicule will make him lose confidence and interest in learning the language. ?
4. The baby asks questions and listens patiently. If you can't answer, tell him honestly. Let him know what no one can do, dispel his awe of others, and thus increase his self-confidence. ?
5. Let the baby do what he can in a consultative tone, such as "Take the newspaper to mom, will you?" Letting children know that they are needed is the best way to improve their self-confidence ?
6. Let the baby stick his graffiti on the most eye-catching wall at home; Make a display stand for the baby on the cupboard to show his little creations. A sense of honor can best stimulate a child's self-confidence. ?
7. Give the baby a room. If there are no conditions, you can give him some rooms and let him have a free little world. Because he has his own "territory", his heart is full of pride, which will increase his confidence. ?
8. Don't always blame the baby for the mess in the room or on the desktop, but teach him to pick up the scattered toys and do it with him. Mother's tolerance is the soil to cultivate baby's self-confidence. ?
9. Don't say to your baby, "My sister can count, but you can't. You are so stupid! " Even if he is really worse than other children. Always compare children who are better than him with him, which can defeat children's self-confidence best. ?
10. Take the baby to the supermarket, give him the payment and ask him to give it to the cashier. He can't settle accounts yet, but at least let him know that money can buy things. Gradually letting children master their own pocket money and let him be the master will increase his self-confidence in life. ?
1 1. Buy clothes for the baby and let the children choose their own colors and styles. Maybe you don't like the color he chose, but don't deny his eyes. Being respected for a child's opinion is the beginning of his confidence. ?
12. Watch his favorite cartoons with children, discuss his favorite characters and lines, and show interest in his views. Equal coexistence and communication are the steps to give him confidence. ?
13. Let the baby wash socks and handkerchiefs independently, even if they are not clean. The child's self-confidence comes from your recognition of him in every little thing.
14. Beat the baby when he is reciting poems, telling stories and singing to show harmony. Cultivating him to dare to perform on stage calmly is to cultivate his self-confidence ?
15. Let the baby get close to strange children and actively encourage him to communicate freely with people of all ages. Cultivating his social skills is actually cultivating his self-confidence. ?
16. Help the baby to make a detailed plan and remind him to carry it out. For example, help your baby make a piano practice plan and negotiate with him when making a plan. Remind him during the execution, "Baby, should we practice the piano now?" Let him get into the habit of doing things according to the plan. Do things with confidence, and you can be confident. ?
17. Don't stop your baby from playing with coke bottles, shoe boxes and other wastes. Children like to explore things that interest them. If you stop his interest, it will dampen his confidence in exploration. ?
18. Children encounter difficulties in jigsaw puzzles, and they should be encouraged to find ways to solve them themselves. When you really can't figure out a way, you can give directions from the side. Overcoming difficulties can make him more confident. ?
19. When you get along with your child, you should always look for specific reasons worthy of praise and encourage him with praise language, but don't praise your child in an empty way. It can be said: "The baby knows that he has peed and has made progress." Don't say, "Baby, you are so smart. Mom likes you so much. " Specific praise makes him confident, while empty praise makes him arrogant. ?
I didn't want to take him to McDonald's at first, but I promised him to go casually, but it didn't come true. Your dishonesty made him lose confidence and trust in you. ?
2 1. Help your baby develop positive aspects of his personality and make him a person with personality. If the baby is impatient, exercise his speed of doing things; If you are a slow learner, exercise his organization. Forcing him to change his nature will make you lose confidence in him and make him lose confidence. ?
22. Teach him to recognize his looks from an early age. For example, tell him that although he doesn't have big eyes, small eyes look good as long as there is a god. A lot of self-distrust often stems from the disapproval of one's appearance. ?
23. Provide children with books and materials to support them to do what they dream of doing. Let the child realize his talent and ability, and he will be more confident. ?
24. Try to make your baby get rid of dependence in life. Go to kindergarten on time and try to wake him up with an alarm clock instead of his mother calling him again and again. Can take care of their children, in the absence of dependence, but also full of confidence. ?
25. Let the baby learn to travel from an early age. When traveling with your baby, tell him more about the animals, plants, geography, allusions and other knowledge you meet. Knowing more can make you more confident. ?
26. Don't punish children's mistakes with abuse. Abuse will not only hurt children's self-confidence, but also make them rebellious. ?
27. When the baby encounters setbacks, analyze the experience with him in a relaxed tone, so that he won't make the same mistake next time. It is particularly important to regain his confidence. ?
28. Parents should follow reasonable standards of behavior and be respectable people. Parents are not respected in society, which hurts children's self-confidence most.