Do you want to send your child to kindergarten or not? In general, the following questions need to be considered:
1. Is there anyone with high quality at home?
Like many dual-income families, they can only accompany their children after work. During the day, children are mostly accompanied by old people or nannies, and only need to eat and wear warm clothes when accompanying them. Caregivers have no energy or will not play games with their children. Before the age of 3, the child's brain is developing rapidly and needs games, language, music and other stimuli. Therefore, if this is the case, you can consider sending your child to a nursery.
2. Is there a better flight?
Generally speaking, teachers have a good attitude, a good class environment and good food, and scientific and standardized daily activities are the minimum. Whether choosing a nursery or a kindergarten, parents really need to work harder on the choice, not just for the sake of proximity or cheapness. This is a summary of my field trip.
I visited a nursery near the community with my friends before, and frankly I was disappointed. When the children in the nursing class are disobedient, the teacher immediately gets angry and shouts, and even hits the children; After the children go to the toilet, they go back to the classroom and give them cookies without guiding them to wash their hands. When the child drinks water, he puts his hand into the water to play, and the teacher lets the child drink when he sees it; Toddlers are monitored, but they are not given to parents. Tell parents that the system is old and they can only look over there. These are what we saw with our own eyes and heard with our own ears. The photos of children playing happily received by parents of students were all captured by teachers. So many parents think it's not bad there, but in fact, the children are so small and have limited expression ability, and parents don't understand anything.
It is also a nursery, and the one where I take my children to early education is doing very well. Their recipes are published every day. I sometimes take my children there to play, and I can see that the food is good. Teachers are also very patient. When the child goes to the toilet, the teacher will follow, smile and accompany the child all the way, then guide the child to the toilet, teach the child to flush the toilet and remind the child to wash his hands. When a child cries, the teacher will pick him up and comfort him in times of crisis. Sometimes children are too playful to enter the classroom, and the teacher will kneel down and tell the children patiently.
In addition, every classroom and even every corner here is monitored and open to parents. I happened to see all these. There is no artificial element in them, which can better reflect the service attitude of an organization, isn't it?
So, if you want to send your child to kindergarten, try to choose a better one for your child!
3. What is the child's own situation?
Children often have one-on-one service at home, but it's different in the nursery. It's best summed up as a class with two teachers and an aunt. There is also a teacher and an aunt, and then a small class. A small class usually has ten or twenty children, or even more. If children are too delicate, their simple language skills and self-care ability are not good, they will definitely suffer in the past. It is not recommended to send the children immediately. Parents can guide their children together, and it is not too late to send them when their abilities and habits can gradually adapt to day-care life. In addition, children in poor health, it is best to wait until the children recuperate.
4. Are family conditions allowed?
Generally speaking, better day care is not cheap. The day care I give my children early education costs more than 10 thousand a semester, which is the price of ordinary working families. If there is mortgage pressure, there will still be some pressure in the past. Therefore, when choosing a kindergarten class for children, we need to consider this issue.
If the above problems are comprehensively considered, we think that children can be sent to nurseries. After returning home, parents must spend more time with their children, which will make them feel safe and adapt to day care life more quickly. Observing the children who have been to kindergarten around them, they will have separation anxiety at the beginning, so parents don't have to worry too much. Are all normal manifestations. Fortunately, many children who have attended kindergarten will no longer be anxious when they go to kindergarten.
The above is the question of whether to send children to kindergarten.