I am afraid that my child will lose at the starting line, and I am afraid that my child's talent will disappear. In fact, the child's talent has been stereotyped and will not be changed because of early education.
What parents should do is to explore their children's talents in time and create space for their development. In the future, children will be lucky once they turn their interests into careers and live a happy life.
Whether you enroll in an interest class or exercise by yourself, you need to find out where your child is more talented. So how do you discover your child's talent?
The classification of children's talents can be roughly divided into these categories: language, painting, music, dance or sports, logical exploration, scientific skills, communication, practical ability, observation ability and imagination.
Every child's talent is different, and mothers should observe it from their daily performance. Discover the child's talent in time and give guidance.
Generally speaking, children with language talent are eloquent and expressive.
Children with painting talent like to draw patiently with a brush, and draw well.
Children with musical talent have a strong sense of rhythm, like singing, beating time and dancing to music.
Children with sports talent, like outdoor sports, are very happy and excited to exercise, and are active sunshine babies.
Children who are gifted in logical exploration have good computing ability, certain reasoning ability and strong curiosity about things.
Children with scientific skills are curious about some scientific experiments or some common sense and can take the initiative to explore.
Children with communication talent are good at dealing with people and have certain leadership skills. They hope to play a leading role in everything.
A child with hands-on ability likes to take apart some toys and things he is interested in, and can make what he wants from some materials.
Children with observation ability like to observe animals and plants and some things around them.
Imaginative children often have some new ideas to surprise people.
Parents can sit in the right position and see what kind of genius their baby is! You don't have to worry about enrolling in any interest classes anymore.
How do parents guide 1 Respect children's interests.
Parents can't drive ducks to the shelves. It should be understood that the main body of cultivating interest is children.
As long as the child likes it, if you don't like it, you will force him to study, but it will make him rebellious towards learning. Judge the child's talent according to his daily performance.
Don't scold children who are developing interests. Children who love painting paint walls, children who love to open things, children who love dancing are a little annoyed, and children who love quarreling talk back to you. ...
Parents must be very angry when they meet this kind of Xiong Haizi. They are nothing more than reprimands, but they may bury a genius.
2. Parents' correct guidance
Mothers should see their children's potential through appearances, praise their advantages, and don't always criticize their shortcomings.
Some children don't like to talk, but they draw beautifully and are patient. Some children do not like reading, but are good at outdoor sports. Some children are impatient, but he will have strange ideas all day.
If parents determine a certain talent of their children, they should actively invite professional teachers to develop their children's potential, or supplement their own knowledge to teach.
It is not a day or two to develop their potential. Parents have the responsibility to create conditions for their children before they reach adulthood. Parents don't give up, your persistence and encouragement will certainly cultivate a little genius.
If the child is introverted and has no outstanding performance in any aspect, parents should create opportunities for their children. For example, organize a family debate, an outdoor sports meeting, a painting competition ... to explore children's potential.