There are several situations in which children delay learning: one is low interest in learning, crustily coping, tired and helpless, procrastinating when they can, lacking self-confidence and being irresponsible; The second is "slow temper", slow, slow, nervous, you can rush, but also me; Third, the concept of time and efficiency is lacking, and the significance of time to life is ignored. Therefore, the correction of procrastination should be based on different situations and prescribe the right medicine. In the first case, we should strive to stimulate interest in learning, enhance self-confidence and improve our sense of responsibility. Parents can refer to this book to cultivate interest and take educational measures. In the second and third cases, efforts should be made to improve learning efficiency. The following is my reference method for parents.
First, contact life, study reality, discuss the harm of muddling along with children, and understand the basic truth that "time is life and time is wealth". In a highly competitive society, people who are slow and inefficient will be eliminated and life will be very difficult. The bad habit of fooling around is harmful to life.
Second, strengthen special time and improve training efficiency. Help children determine the time, task and target requirements for each study, and then complete and evaluate the results. Every study is a combination of the three. According to the age characteristics and personality characteristics of children, the requirements of the three are different. Let children taste the sweetness of improving efficiency and increasing play time.
Third, increase regular activities. Children's procrastination is not only manifested in learning, but also in all aspects of life, such as dressing, eating, packing schoolbags and stationery, and washing clothes. Because? Therefore, overcoming procrastination requires people from different angles. Starting from the actual performance of children, it is feasible to increase regular activities. How long does it take to do a thing? Set it in advance, and then implement it as soon as possible with good quality and quantity. Afterwards, parents and children will evaluate together, adjust the requirements and do better next time. For younger children, it will be better if parents and children have a small competition of regular reading, regular memory, regular answering questions and regular labor together.
Fourth, let your children study and play with children who are efficient, and give play to the influence between children. You can contact parents of efficient children in advance, let them put forward higher requirements for their children, and drive procrastinating children in the process of learning and playing.
There are three basic reasons for children's carelessness: first, the carelessness of childhood has not been corrected in time, forming a fixed pattern; Second, the sense of responsibility is not strong, there are too many ingredients to deal with, and there is a lack of real sense of responsibility; Third, too much homework, too much homework, can not be completed quickly, so busy, forgetful, and make mistakes.
The following methods can be taken to correct carelessness.
First, use life examples to let children know the relationship between speed, quality and benefit, and what kind of bad consequences carelessness may bring. If some relatives and friends are engaged in precise and meticulous work, they might as well take their children to see their work. Asking relatives and friends to express their views will have a great influence on children's thinking. In science and technology, there are also a lot of empirical materials.
Second, guide children to form the habit of self-checking learning effect. Some children's careless homework mistakes are often detected by their parents or other elders and corrected one by one. This method is not only not conducive to overcoming the problem of carelessness, but also may lead to children's dependence and carelessness. The correct way is to guide children to check and verify the learning effect by themselves. Parents' inspection is not to specifically point out the mistakes after the children's inspection, but to delimit the scope of the mistakes and let the children check for themselves. In particular, we should cultivate the habit of doing it right once.
Third, guide children to make their own measures to punish carelessness. For example, due to carelessness, problems in homework or exams, cancel a plan to go out and play, and cancel an entertainment activity of watching TV or movies; You can also punish yourself by reciting two proverbs, famous sayings, proverbs about being serious and not careless, or by learning to tell a related story.
Fourth, carry out "Seiko" training. There are many "small jobs" in study and life, and you can't do them well without being serious. For a careless child, his shortcomings can be overcome by doing "fine work" For example, write block letters, draw meticulous paintings, sew clothes buttons, wash rice, pick sand, wash vegetables, calculate utilities, play games with your head and so on. Let children choose this kind of thing purposefully and train regularly, and they will become more and more careful.