In a few days, the school will start. Many children of kindergarten age are sent to kindergarten by their parents.

Mothers in the group are also sharing photos of their children receiving admission notices, but some mothers are talking about sending their children to kindergarten.

For example, some mothers' children may be young, so they hesitate to send their children to kindergarten, or their children are over the age of kindergarten, but they are too dependent on their parents, so they don't send their children to kindergarten.

There are also some parents who are afraid that sending their children to kindergarten too late will delay their future study and the development of intelligence and emotional intelligence.

However, I am worried that sending my children to school too early will not adapt to the life in kindergarten, but it will be counterproductive. In fact, these concerns of mothers are normal, because each child's development is different, so whether to send children to kindergarten must be considered according to each child's own situation and reality.

From the moment my best friend was pregnant with her baby, she made up her mind to train her baby into an elite, so she spent a lot of effort on prenatal education and early education.

In a blink of an eye, the child reached the age of kindergarten. In fact, at that time, the children of girlfriends were just three years old, and they were very dependent on girlfriends. It can be said that it is completely inseparable from girlfriends, but girlfriends still send their children to kindergarten without hesitation.

Because my best friend thinks about other three-year-old children around her, most of them are in kindergarten, so she also wants to send her children to kindergarten.

After that, my girlfriend chose the most famous private kindergarten nearby for her children, which is very expensive. It will cost her tens of thousands of dollars a year, but her girlfriend didn't even blink her eyes and gave the child a name directly.

I paid all the tuition fees for one semester at a time, but I still didn't achieve the effect my girlfriend wanted.

Because children are too young to live without their parents, and they are very exclusive to going to kindergarten, it can be said that they have not made much progress in kindergarten this year and become more timid and unwilling to be close to their parents.

Therefore, in the face of when to send their children to kindergarten, mothers must learn this lesson from my girlfriends and don't blindly follow suit.

A foreign scholar studied this problem many years ago. How old should the child be sent to kindergarten?

The results show that it is best to send children to kindergarten when they are three or four years old, which is most conducive to their development and growth. But in fact, there are many advantages to sending children to kindergarten as soon as possible within the time range acceptable to children.

(1) can help children adapt to campus life in advance.

As we all know, when the baby is about 6 years old, he will almost be sent to primary school. If he goes to kindergarten early, it will be of great help for the child to adapt to campus life in advance.

Although there is still a big gap between kindergartens and primary schools, they all have one thing in common, that is, they all have a group of study partners, that is, classmates and teachers who lead them to progress.

From birth to three years old, babies are basically with their parents, and there are few opportunities to get along with a large group of strangers. Therefore, if children go to kindergarten earlier, they can also cultivate their ability to communicate with others.

I believe there is still a big gap between getting along with teachers and classmates at school and getting along with your parents at home. You can get used to going to kindergarten as soon as possible.

(2) Reduce the pressure on parents with children.

Nowadays, most families are dual-income families, that is, the parents of children have their own jobs, because it takes a lot of money to train a child now, unlike in the previous era, it didn't cost much to study.

Secondly, interest classes and training classes were not popular in the past, so children spent little on education.

However, times are different now. Many parents don't want their children's living conditions to be worse than other children in the future, and they are trying to make money.

Therefore, if the children can be sent to kindergarten earlier, then a dual-employee family like this can reduce a great burden.

Both parents have more time to deal with their own affairs at work, and can also provide a better living environment for their babies.

It would be a pity if children meet an interest that they really want to learn in the future and refuse them because the family economic conditions do not allow it.

③ Promote the development of children's emotional intelligence.

Now it is required to carry out quality education for children and develop morally, intellectually, physically, aesthetically and laboriously. Therefore, if you send your children to kindergarten as soon as possible, you can not only learn bilingual knowledge in kindergarten, but also let your children learn to communicate with others, killing two birds with one stone.

As we all know, if children learn a foreign language from an early age, it will also be of great help to the development of their emotional intelligence. Secondly, in the process of getting along with classmates and teachers, children also learn to communicate, which further promotes the development of children's emotional intelligence.

However, if parents only see the benefits of sending their children to kindergarten earlier, without considering the actual situation of their children, it will have many bad effects on their children.

1) The child is depressed or irritable.

As we all know, when children are forced to do things they don't want to do, they are often prone to rebellious psychology and conflict with their parents.

Kindergarten is the same. Although children are still young, they are also good at expressing their emotions. If parents don't respect their children's wishes and let them go to kindergarten directly, then if the children are not ready at this time, they will either feel depressed or upset after being sent to kindergarten, and they are not in the mood to study hard and play with friends at all.

2) Alienation from parents

If parents go against their children's wishes, then children are likely to be alienated from their parents, leading to the estrangement between parents.

In childhood, if parents fail to maintain a good parent-child relationship with their children, when children enter adolescence, children will have rebellious psychology at this time, and it is difficult to communicate peacefully with their parents. Coupled with the poor parent-child relationship as a child, the relationship between children and parents may deteriorate further in the future.

3) Fear of campus life

We all know that sending children to kindergarten is only the first hurdle on their way to school. If children are exposed to campus life from the beginning, they will have a bad impression on campus life and fear.

Then when children reach primary school age, I believe it is difficult to adapt to campus life, and there will be resistance. At this time, the impact is far greater than not sending children to kindergarten.

As parents, no matter what decisions they make for their children, they should fully consider their own wishes.

Especially for such a big thing as going to school, although many children don't have the ability to make their own decisions at this stage, if parents develop the habit of making decisions for their children for a long time, children will become very unable to make decisions in the future, and they will become very entangled and even have a phobia of choice.

So whether to send their children to school or kindergarten at this time, I suggest that parents can ask their children more about their own ideas.

If the child really resists or wants to be with his parents, then parents can have a rest, but they can't keep the child from sending him to kindergarten.

We all know that after children go to kindergarten, a teacher has to take care of more than a dozen children, so sometimes he is too busy to take care of them.

At this time, children need to have a certain ability to take care of themselves, such as eating by themselves, dressing and combing their hair after a nap, and washing their hands before meals. If children don't have any self-care ability and are sent to kindergartens, it will be difficult to adapt to the life in kindergartens.

Most children are very dependent on their mothers, especially children aged three to four. Boys may be better. But for those little girls, they are usually very dependent on their parents at home.

Therefore, if children still have a strong dependence on their parents, then it is recommended not to rush to send their children directly to kindergarten, and they can be given a transition period.

Do psychological work for children, let children gradually become independent and no longer have so much dependence on their parents. After all, as children get older, sooner or later they will leave their parents and go out on their own.

Sending children to kindergarten can be said to be the first major event in children's lives, so parents should carefully consider whether to send their children to kindergarten and combine their own situation. You can't just watch what people around you do and blindly follow the trend.