Basically, when I come back every day, I will ask, did you write it today? I will also teach children to write when I have time. But where the children can listen and sit, they draw peach symbols on paper, and grandpa slowly loses patience.
Sitting on the sidelines, I'm a little proud. I talked to grandpa before. It's too early for children to learn to write. Don't be too hasty On the contrary, it was scolded by the child's grandfather, saying that a child who used to live upstairs began to learn to write at such a young age and wrote well. Said I shouldn't just take my children to play all day, I should teach them something.
After listening to it, I felt a little uncomfortable. Shouldn't three and a half-year-olds play? When I was so young, I didn't know where I was still playing with mud. Many parents should worry about the harm of learning to write too early to their children:
1. Early writing in children can lead to phalangeal deformity and fatigue.
Writing is a very fine movement, which mainly completes hand-eye coordination actions such as holding a pen and controlling strokes through coordinated movements of finger muscles, phalanges and knuckles. Due to the late development of small muscles, the fine movements of children's hands are clumsy and uncoordinated. When writing, children must hold the pen hard, and younger children even hold the pen with their whole hands. Therefore, children will find it difficult to write. Writing has almost become a physical activity. Children have poor muscle strength and endurance, and their bones are very soft. If children write for a long time, it is easy to cause fatigue and phalangeal deformity.
2. premature writing will affect the development of children's spine and bones.
The physiological curvature of children's spine is not formed, the ossification process is not completed, and the bones are easily deformed. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's correct standing and walking posture at this stage. If children write for a long time, it is difficult to maintain the correct sitting posture, and it is easy to form bad sitting posture such as hunchback and twisting, which may easily lead to spinal deformation.
Learning to write too early is easy to be nearsighted.
Children's early writing has a great influence on children's eyes and eyesight. Because children's optic nerve can't focus, they often have to put books close to their eyes to see clearly. When children write, their eyes are generally concentrated in a small range around the pen tip, and their eye-hand coordination ability is low. Therefore, children must stare at the pen tip tightly to complete a word, so that their eyes will soon become dry and tired, which will lead to the decline of their focus adjustment ability over time and cause myopia.
Now public kindergartens don't teach writing, that is, private kindergartens teach it when they arrive in large classes. So many children picked up the pen early, but they couldn't write a good hand.
At what age did you start learning to write?
Children after the age of 6 are suitable for learning to write, which is determined by the development of children's hand muscles and nerves. 90% of children aged 2-4 are graffiti. 95% 5-year-old children can copy and draw accurately, but 75% children can't write simple Chinese characters with correct stroke order and posture. Children over 6 years old can basically write simple Chinese characters with correct posture and stroke order. Therefore, writing is basically after children enter primary school, so there is no need to rush.