What was your mood and circle of friends on June 65438+1 October1day, 2020?
Take a look at mine first:
At that time, I was meeting Mr. Wei from Anhui, a few kilometers away from home. I sent this circle of friends at that time, which means: I will focus on parenting this year.
However, people are not as good as heaven. Due to the serious impact of the epidemic, Mr. Wei has to worry about economic problems. In addition, my own career is a bit heavy, and sometimes bringing a baby will make me feel worthless, so I didn't make this circle of friends.
But I did my best. The picture shows my complementary food:
The picture shows me racing against time to write a manuscript:
At that time, we yearned for 2020, just as we yearn for 202 1 now; I didn't expect 2020 to be so tortuous, and everyone's experience will have ups and downs.
Looking back on your past experience, you can understand how today's situation is formed. Let me review and review my year 2020 according to the seven dimensions of flower of life (I have made changes according to my own values)!
(1) Good health and skin cultivation
In recent years, health has become the top priority, as Yi Shu said: "No matter how clever the soul is, it can't live independently. What can we do? "
Because of his natural weakness, he became a doctor after a long illness, and he saw that people around him were tortured by illness, and even wanted to "abandon school and become a doctor." However, after repeated thinking and trying, I found it difficult to become a doctor, and it was difficult for me to be trained. What's more, since you became a monk halfway, since you can't "save the world and save people", then save yourself first!
So I switched to cooking, and I went to cooking school and New Oriental for an audition.
I also tried to cook at home, and finally I really found that I had no talent. Compared with the kitchen, I am more suitable to stay in the study and read and write quietly.
This year, I had to sacrifice a lot of rest and maintenance time because of my baby and work pressure. I didn't get enough sleep in the first half of the year. The overall situation of my body this year is: haggard; This year's appearance is generally in the downhill stage, and it can even be described as "sloppy".
(2) Input library
From the beginning of this year to the end of July, it is the stage of bringing a baby. Most of the time, I bring it myself. Only I know the pain. Tired, I have little time to recharge myself.
August-65438+February, charge yourself quickly, and the total number of books you read should be almost100;
(3) the output library:
① Organize 2 households at home.
Do housework, clean and tidy your home every day. Here, I borrow Eiko Yamashita's book Breaking Up? A passage in the life list: Many women have to do a lot of housework every day. Although housework can't earn money, it is essential for daily life and survival.
Cleaning up the living environment in order to protect the health of yourself and your family-doing housework is such an excellent job.
The picture shows some of my contributions to my family this year:
In fact, housework has now extended to three types of jobs: nanny, hourly worker and organizer. In "Escape from Shame but Useful", it is accurately explained that if women do housework at home, it is not a small amount when converted into wages.
I hereby appeal to all people in the society, especially male compatriots, not to look down on any full-time wives, full-time nannies, especially working nannies, please respect them! They live a hard life, and they are willing to pay, pay themselves, just for the happy life of this family.
③ Write 18 articles and publish 69 little red book notes.
(4) Holding an online reading club, which was broadcast live in Tik Tok for about a week, but the effect was not great, so I gave up for the time being;
⑤ Developed an online course-occupation? Help the dream grow up camp, but nobody cares, so it has never been started;
Occasionally, I help Mr. Wei with the tour. Although I am not good at it, I can only bite the bullet.
The lack of career is all because I don't work hard enough. For example, I know that being a blogger must make good video works, but because I feel difficult and troublesome, I just took a few pictures and gave up halfway. In this era when everyone writes and everyone can be a self-media (including a star), how to stand out from the crowd and how to maintain their core competitiveness is a problem worthy of serious consideration.
(4) Financial system
Since last year, an annual financial analysis statistics table has been made every year. Unexpectedly, this year is nearly 1 10,000 yuan less than last year.
I didn't expect to buy very few clothes this year, but I still bought nearly 7,000 yuan. Many of them were bought by mistake, especially on idle fish. At least I bought 1000 yuan, and I can't return it.
Bao Xiao actually spends only about 1200 per month on average. I really didn't buy him anything except milk powder, but after he got sick, he spent more than 2,000 yuan, especially 3,000 yuan in the month of hospitalization.
Of the 4855.72 yuan spent on study, 2500 yuan is used for adult college entrance examination and senior high school entrance examination; Buying books also cost more than 2 100;
Money that should not be spent:
June+10, 5438, I signed up for a copywriting class in Aon, but I didn't have time for class or homework at all. In February, Aon asked me to take a new class, but because of the time problem and I was not interested in marketing copy, I stopped.
In March, I spent 149 yuan to buy an acaricide tester. After using it for 1 time, it was shelved. Finally, it was sold in idle fish, and the transaction price was 50 yuan. Alas, as the "Dragon Cherry" said, if you buy it, you should think about selling it. People are always exploited.
I bought an electric foot bath bucket in April, but I only used it once and gave it to my uncle.
In July, I spent 1500 to get a snack retail. I was going to make it for mom. As a result, I found it a little difficult to take my baby to retail again, so I did it with my sister. I only lasted for a week, and those snacks could only be given away, which was another loss-making business.
On June 5438+00, because the charging treasure has not been returned, 99 yuan was automatically deducted;
In fact, there should be a lot of money that should not be spent, and this financial statement is also very inaccurate, especially in the first four months, which is probably recorded every few days from memory.
(5) Relational database
My current roles are daughter, wife, mother, sister and freelancer. I'm not satisfied with every role. Especially as a mother, I have anxiety about raising children. When I can't spend too much time with her, have no patience to educate her, and have no money to send her to an early education class, I feel very guilty and sad.
As a daughter, I didn't completely reassure my parents; As a wife, I didn't share the heavy responsibility financially; As a sister, I sometimes have a bad temper and attitude, but to be honest, I still have a clear conscience about the role of sister; As a freelancer, I am very unqualified. I am not very self-disciplined and have little output.
However, everything, I will strive to improve, do my best, and leave no regrets!
(6) Entertainment and leisure
I hardly leave myself time and money for entertainment. This year is really not worthy of entertainment. If I do, take a bath and wash my hair, and go out for a walk without thinking about anything, which is the best entertainment for me.
I bought a folding bathtub and planned to love myself. Life is more than work. Don't make life boring. Learn to enjoy life after work. This is also a research worthy of attention.
(7) Time expenditure records
Time is a fair and unique wealth and a more precious resource than money, because money is mobile and infinite. We can build without a country, but time is gone forever, and everyone's time resources are limited.
This year, I spent 80% of my time on parenting and family, and 30% on my study and career. Time can show everything without words. What you are depends on where you spend your time.
Life is the superposition of happiness and unhappiness. This year, there were times of happiness and laughter, and there were countless times of collapse, but these experiences were the accumulation of my own life experiences, good or bad, which constituted my 2020!
For everyone, every life experience can't define everything in your life. Every effort and persistence is also worthy of respect and affirmation. I still firmly believe that there is a saying: no pains, no gains, and hard work will definitely pay off. You just have to work hard and leave the rest to time.
I want to give myself and my family a big hug after the rematch. Thank you for taking care of yourself and your family this year; Thanks to Mr. Wei for taking most of the financial security for this family; Thanks to my mother for taking care of Bao Xiao and helping me share the housework, so that I can devote myself to my career without worries. There are too many people to thank. Thank you for your hard work, and always keep it in your heart.
Finally, I would like to give you this passage from Grandma Moses:
I believe that the meaning of life lies not in what we finally achieved, but in what we experienced. When I stand at the end of my life and look back on my life, the seeds of happiness I have sown all the way have sprouted and grown into a big tree. I have no reason to be unhappy in my life!
I hope you can find some strength from this article and continue to love life.