When I was a child, I heard the old man say: children who wear anti-shoes should pay attention to being big. Such a general sentence was a minority at that time, and I naturally don't understand why. Later, I became a mother, and my son was learning to walk. He always tried to put on his shoes, but every time he put them on backwards. Therefore, this long-forgotten sentence was picked up and wanted to find out.
Why do children wear reverse shoes? Let's take a look at how western scientists with research spirit give an explanation.
1. Exploratory psychology
Children are fun and exploratory. They will create some "games" for themselves to "entertain themselves", and wearing reverse shoes is one of them.
They see that their shoes are different from those of adults, and 80% are still waiting for their parents to find out.
If parents are surprised and react greatly, then he will be happier and have a sense of accomplishment. His purpose is to attract others' attention. If someone really pays attention to him, he will become the focus of adults' eyes, and they will enjoy it like a star.
2. Shoes won't follow your feet.
Some children wear nice shoes, but they don't follow their feet. In addition to instinct, children wear shoes backwards, and adults can also try. You don't know that putting on your shoes backwards can make the original big shoes hang on your feet and it's not easy to fall off.
How's it going? If the child wears the wrong shoes for this reason, 80% of you are still secretly happy. Is my child too clever?
Indeed, smart adults always underestimate their children. In fact, they are the species closer to nature and the essence of heaven and earth. Unfortunately, as they grow older, they will gradually lose the wisdom given by God.
3. Can't tell right from left
It is true that some children can't tell right from left easily because they don't know that they are wearing the wrong shoes. For such children, parents' criticism will only make them more confused. They have no idea why mom is angry, why mom criticizes herself, and what is left and right?
In fact, smart mothers can take this opportunity to strengthen their children's sense of direction and guide them more in space. Instead of making the child feel that the mother is a bit puzzling.
4. Rebellious baby
Don't say that my children are still young, so they don't know what treason is and can't be rebellious. In fact, when the child is about three years old, he will enter a short rebellious period. At this time, they must challenge the law and confront adults. We can also understand that children are testing our bottom line.
Of course, there is another kind of children who are born different. They are more self-seeking and like to do what they like. If I think wearing reverse shoes is fun, that's it.
In short, the so-called "pressure" of children wearing anti-shoes can't escape these four points. If parents have a good grasp of what to say and don't pay attention, we don't need to worry about prescribing the right medicine according to the child's situation.
How's it going? Do you know your children? If you have anything to say, please ask. Let's learn parenting knowledge together.
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