In the process of early education, I came into contact with many families and children. The most frequently mentioned question is about "children's insecurity." What should I do? " It can be seen that children's sense of security is very important for the whole family education. The family environment is different, the things that children are exposed to are different, and the growth direction of children is different. On this issue, I have the following suggestions:

Parents should create a warm family atmosphere.

Children are like saplings growing at home. In the initial stage, the healthy growth of children depends on the surrounding environment. In the process of family education, as parents, we should create a warm family atmosphere and pass on the positive energy in life to our children, which will easily bring children a sense of security. When children grow up, they will feel the warmth of the family, and their hearts will become full and happy, and parents will not worry about their children's insecurity.

(2) Accompany children to grow up together.

Many times, because of work or other things, our parents spend less and less time with their children. When children can't see their parents in sight, they will feel anxious or afraid. Negative emotions will interfere with children's judgment, making them feel insecure, become swayed by considerations of gain and loss, introverted and inarticulate.

Of course, parents should try their best to take time out to grow up with their children. If they want to leave for a short time or be busy with work, they should let their children know where they are going and when they will come back, thus reducing their anxiety.

(3) Give more encouragement to children.

As parents, give more encouragement to children in life, so that children will not feel insecure. Encourage children to do the right thing and let them bravely take their own steps. Even if children are not perfect in some things, their parents' support and encouragement will inspire their confidence, thus contributing to their healthy growth.