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I've been pregnant for a year. And everything seems to be yesterday.
In the second week of marriage, I found myself pregnant, my brain was blank and my mood was complicated. But when the doctor asked me if I wanted it, I said yes without hesitation.
Life is so painless, I think pregnancy is so much, except for some fear of pain during childbirth, at least it is smooth sailing at present. However, fate always seems to throw a few stones at the calm water.
And this stone started with Tang's screening. Tang screening is mainly used for screening, that is, to check whether the baby is down syndrome with congenital stupidity. My report shows that one of the indicators is high risk.
At that time, the doctor at the maternity hospital asked me to go to the genetics department of the best hospital in the city for reexamination. So I moved to the hospital in the city, and the doctor suggested that I do a non-invasive DNA.
This is to detect the genetic information of the fetus by taking the venous blood of pregnant women and whether the fetus has three chromosomal diseases: 2 1 trisomy syndrome (Down syndrome),1trisomy syndrome (Edwards syndrome) and1trisomy syndrome (Patau syndrome).
If Down's syndrome screening can screen 60% to 70% of children with Down's syndrome, then non-invasive DNA can detect more than 99% of children with Down's syndrome.
What reality tells you once again is that no matter how fearful you wait, he won't change his decision because of your anxiety.
As a result, chromosome 5 was copied, and it was not a short segment.
From the day Tang Xi failed, my world seemed to have been finalized. I hold my mobile phone every night, hoping to find some peace of mind for a good pregnant mother from the same experience and results, but it is more sad to see the bad ones.
I even thought about giving birth to him without further examination, no matter what the result is. After much hesitation, I followed the doctor's advice and made further amniocentesis.
Amniocentesis is to insert a needle directly into the stomach of a pregnant woman and extract amniotic fluid from it for testing.
I finally got to myself. I only remember sleeping on the operating bed, and the light was a bit dazzling. I always needed to pump four tubes of amniotic fluid. The first tube of pale yellow amniotic fluid is mixed with some bloodshot, and the last three tubes can't see any color amniotic fluid.
My head is blank, and the nurse next to me looks nervous and a little busy, just like duckweed swimming in the pond when the wind blows. The doctor told me to lie on the left side of the next bed for half an hour, and then I'll check it out.
During the reexamination, the doctor only said nothing. I only asked if the bleeding had stopped. The doctor said it had stopped. Let me check it again tomorrow.
Out of the operating room, I sat in the hospital for a long time, and my husband kept talking. However, I didn't remember what he said, only felt that those words drifted away from my ears like the wind.
When I walked to the hospital, I didn't remember what my husband said. Suddenly, tears poured down uncontrollably. I ignored the eyes of passers-by and cried.
The next day, I decided to go to a nearby local hospital for a second B-ultrasound, and the result was a blood clot of five centimeters. At that time, the doctor who helped me do B-ultrasound said that even if I went to the hospital in the city for B-ultrasound, I had to queue up, but the bumpy journey was not good.
Might as well go home and observe. If the blood clot does not change or become smaller after two days, it means that the blood has stopped. If the blood clot gets bigger, you can only be mentally prepared.
When I got home, I only felt that the sky was falling, and I didn't remember how many tears I shed in those two days. It doesn't matter what the result is. I prayed to God countless times in my heart. In the face of loss, I really understand that life is really small and precious, and nothing is worth mentioning in front of it.
Fortunately, in The Faithful Wife, the blood clot dispersed and the child was saved. I think all the worries should stop here. But who knows, this is just another beginning.
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The production process went smoothly. I'm not premature, but the baby was born with only two kilograms. Looking at this thin baby, my heart is full of guilt and love. So the next day we decided to send him to the neonatal department for a while.
The baby was hospitalized for 7 days. My husband and mother-in-law sent him in because I was inconvenient to move. When I came out, I saw their eyes were red and their eyes were wet. From his birth to the baby's hospitalization, I really didn't feel anything at that time, so I went up to comfort him.
Until he was hospitalized, the pediatrician called and said that the baby had found a bacterial infection and injected him with some cephalosporins. It is necessary to continue to observe the situation. The ductus arteriosus and foramen ovale of the heart were not closed, and I couldn't help crying again.
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Since he left the hospital, I have tried my best to do it myself and insisted on exclusive breastfeeding. Despite the help of my family, I can't remember how many days and nights I slept, fed, changed diapers and bathed. Only an experienced treasure mother can understand the taste.
I was lonely and frustrated. But since the baby can laugh and start interacting with me, I feel that the past days have passed, and the future time will be full of hope no matter how difficult it is!
Pushkin said, if life deceives you, don't be sad and impatient! Melancholy days need peace; Believe it, happy days will come; My heart always yearns for the future, but now it is often melancholy; Everything is instantaneous, and everything will pass; The past will be a beautiful memory.
The world is worth it.
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