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Yaya's mother was busy with work these two days, so she left her children at grandma's house. This is the first time that Bao Xiao has lived with her grandmother since she was two and a half years old. After two days of single life, Yaya's mother happily went to the gate of the community to pick up the children. Who would have thought that after seeing me, the baby would cry and hold her grandmother and shout "no mother, grandma".
Yaya's mother has mixed feelings. She finally hugged her waist and brought delicious food, and then coaxed her for more than two hours before hugging her. Bao Xiao's grandmother told Yaya's mother that the baby was becoming more and more stubborn. Grandma's words made her mother seriously think about how to cultivate her baby's good character, so that they could gain something in every exploration on the road to growth.
As the saying goes, as you sow, you reap. Love your baby and he will reap love.
A baby is like a blank sheet of paper. When we praise him, he will become confident and go forward bravely. We encourage him, and he will become brave and enterprising; If we comfort him, he will be happy and friendly to others; When we accompany him, he will remain modest and make continuous progress.
What kind of personality we give our baby, he will think about how to look at things. So, how should we gradually cultivate the baby's personality?
Cultivating creativity
A report by the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that what children really need to grow up healthily is more play time, and this time does not need to be disturbed by adults.
When the baby needs it, the mother can find some early education games to play with the baby. When the baby doesn't need it, the mother can try to let go, let the child focus on his own affairs and give the child more room for innovation; If you play with other friends, you can also improve their social skills and coordination skills, and let your mother relax and do what she likes.
Montessori Education: Create a world for children and let them be themselves. In April, those people sent cold to meet the East Army, and it rained during Tomb-Sweeping Day's stay. The golden wind is warm, and everything recovers. Hundreds of parties exude a faint fragrance, and birds are singing in spring.
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The Guide to Learning and Development for Children Aged 3-6 issued by the Ministry of Education points out: "Preschool children are in the stage of curiosity, exploration and preparation for learning. In the meantime, we should guide them to observe the surrounding environment with various senses. Explore and find problems.
Mothers must find a balance between "letting go" and "protecting". Babies are curious and new. They constantly explore new things and make their brains grow rapidly. When they are curious about colors, musical instruments and engineering tools, parents should let them explore for themselves and help them develop and improve their brains as soon as possible.
For example, take the baby outdoors, with parents standing behind, and let him go for a walk or see something of interest; Play with the baby in Naughty Castle, observe his interaction with other friends, and appear when there is an argument. Let them observe the beauty of life with their eyes and taste the taste of various ingredients with their mouths; Touch the things around them with their little hands and listen to different sounds with their ears.
Montessori education: Respect children's choice to rest or watch other children's games, and don't disturb him or force him to do other things. In April, these people will be welcomed by the cold, welcome Dong Jun and spend rainy days in Tomb-Sweeping Day. The golden wind warms everything up. Baifang exudes a faint fragrance, and birds in spring break their throats.
Hug them every day
Tell them "I love you"
The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests: "Our family relationship with our parents is one of the most important relationships. We need to eliminate fear and avoid violence in this relationship. Beating and cursing can't solve the problem, it will only increase the prevalence rate. Children's belligerence and belligerence.
If babies do well, they can encourage them with rewards. If they are uncomfortable, they can choose to think about themselves and teach them how to keep a clear head when the situation worsens.
In the face of children's pranks, mothers should patiently guide and correct and calm their children's emotions in time. Hug them every day, say I love you, make them feel needed, and keep a soft heart in a safe environment. .
Since Bao Xiao began to learn to speak and visit Want Want team, he would tell me "Spider King, don't be afraid" and then tell me "Xiao Li will help". When passing by the construction site, he will tell you that "the excavator is digging." When he sees other children eating, he will say "lollipop, ice cream, delicious." The more ya ya mother listens, the more she interacts with her baby, and the more she talks.
/kloc-before 0/year-old, mothers should change their way of speaking, emphasize what babies don't understand, treat themselves as babies, treat some babies' languages and communicate with them in short sentences; /kloc-after 0/year old, he will use some verbs to say you, me and him, but the baby's "baby language" may only be understood by the mother. Mothers should never laugh at their babies when their pronunciation is inaccurate. First, they must affirm his pronunciation, then correct him with correct pronunciation and encourage him.
Of course, if you are a good mother, maybe your children will begin to imitate their father's language ability?
A team of experts from the University of North Carolina found that there was too much communication between mothers and children. When the mother's vocabulary exceeds the baby's imitation ability, the child will turn to imitate the father's language. Master vocabulary.
The baby's hands-on ability is much stronger than we thought. As children grow up, mothers can make some lists and let them do some housework by themselves.
Before the age of 3
Let children learn to put toys, throw garbage or choose clothes and shoes to wear the next day.
After 3 years old
Learn how to wash socks and handkerchiefs with the help of adults, or help my mother clean the room and make the bed.
A survey by the Chinese Academy of Educational Sciences shows that children who do housework perform better than those who don't.
A 20-year study by Harvard University shows that the employment rate of children who don't like housework and children who love housework will be 1: 15, their income will be reduced by 20%, and the divorce rate is very high. The golden wind is warm, and everything is restored. Hundreds of parties exude a faint fragrance, and birds are singing in spring.
Accompanying children to do housework can not only improve their practical ability, but also cultivate their sense of responsibility.
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