Editor Xin's mother
The rapid progress of the times has also brought about rapid economic development and brought heavy pressure to the lives of countless people. Now the cost of living has greatly increased, making many families have to choose to send their children to early education institutions. Many parents think that early education institutions can bring more professional education to their children, but they don't know that there are many parent-child activities in the institutions that require parents and children to participate together. At this time, many parents often say, "I sent my children to your institution just to let you take care of them." I'm busy at work and have no time. "This practice is not so much to give children better living conditions as to evade the responsibility of parents.
Many times, parents feel that the material conditions brought to their children by hard work are superior, and an expensive toy will make their children happier than their parents' company. Actually, it is not. According to a questionnaire survey, many children choose their parents between expensive toys and their parents' company. What children need more is the company of their parents. Lack of parents' company will have a lot of influence on their growth.
1. I don't know how to deal with interpersonal relationships and my communication skills are poor.
Parent-child relationship is not only a philosophy of life for children, but also a form of education. When parents lack time to accompany their children, children tend to become more and more silent, unwilling to have too much communication with others, and gradually lose their communication skills, which is unfavorable to their future study and life.
2. Children become sensitive, insecure and don't communicate with others.
Because children lack the company of their parents since childhood, they will become overly sensitive and refuse to communicate with others. At the same time, they will feel insecure. In life, they show resistance to others' closeness and dare not talk to others. If parents often accompany their children, they will make them more confident.
3. Gradually rebelled in growth, and the "rebellious period" came ahead of schedule.
Children who lack their parents' company will lock up their hearts and not share them with others. At the same time, they will also resist communication with their parents, "oppose" their parents and become more grumpy and rebellious.
"companionship is not companionship." Many parents think that picking up their children from school in the afternoon, coming back at night to accompany them to do their homework and telling them a few stories before going to bed is companionship. But do children really need such "companionship"?
1. Set an example in children's learning process and give them high-quality companionship.
In the process of accompanying children to study, you should put down all electronic devices, or you can learn to write by yourself, settle down and study, forget all the troubles at work and experience the beauty of parent-child interaction. In the long run, burying your head in paper and pens creates a strong family culture atmosphere, making children fall in love with learning and correct their learning attitude.
2. Learn to listen to your children.
Children always tell adults what happened around them today. Maybe they quarreled with some children today, or maybe they met something interesting today. Although these are boring topics in the eyes of adults, please really listen to what children say to know what they are thinking.
3. Have more parent-child interaction with children to enhance communication.
You can take your children for an outing in your spare time and play educational games with them at home to improve communication with them. There are many kinds of parent-child interaction, and the one that suits your child is the best.
Companionship requires careful communication with children, and parent-child relationship requires two-way communication. Don't let electronic products cut off the bridge between you and your children. High-quality companionship of parents is very important for children's childhood. There is no reason to accompany children, no matter how busy you are, don't forget the importance of companionship!