1. Consciousness: The most important thing after returning to China is parent-child time.
I don't care about housework, hygiene and other things when I get home. Hug and play with children after washing their hands. I basically go home and get directly involved in the parent-child relationship, and all kinds of other messy things are discussed after getting along with the children. Many mothers are uncomfortable when they come home and look at the mess at home. After cleaning up, the children will go to bed and spend little time with them. Please meditate when you get home: housework is not as important as children. Housework is not as important as children.
2. Being with children is like falling in love, and all the important people are there.
The first thing you have to do is to look after the children with your children (four tones). Yes, look at the children with your eyes, not your cell phone. Look, the mobile phone company is not an effective company. If you want to play mobile phone, you should tell your children that mom and dad want to be alone now, play with you for a while, and then go to the bedroom to play.
Three. skill
For children, we will buy them all kinds of toys, picture books or early education courses. In fact, these toys, picture books and early education are actually used to educate parents.
For example, when we buy a toy, we must look at its description-applicable age. Sometimes two or three-year-old children buy toys for six-year-old children, and the children certainly don't like them, and even some parts are dangerous to the baby. Sometimes we think this toy is so simple and retarded, but children of this age just like to play and can play alone for a long time. I remember coming back from a business trip and bringing a gift to Xiaohua. As a result, there are few toys suitable for my baby. There is only one toy with beads. It looks simple: colorful and various shapes of perforated plates+ropes+sticks. As a result, Xiaohua came back to play alone, and it was not uncommon for him to have no strength to wear beads after playing for several months.
For example, picture books also have age groups. Small and wide books are meaningless and too complicated; Xiaohua's book Xiao Kuan is not interested, it's too simple.
There are also early education toys, such as Qiao Hu. We must read the instructions of every toy and book carefully. Only parents know how to play can they bring them into their children well. Here comes the teaching aid. Read the instructions first. The psychological characteristics of children of this age, what abilities they need to cultivate and what games they play are all very clear.
What I read tonight is this cognitive book about numbers. Later, when playing with building blocks, I will consciously ask Xiaohua which problem is the biggest. Just learn to use it.
You should treat accompanying children as early education teachers to prepare lessons and find feelings, haha.
After sleeping with my child Xiaohua contentedly, I began to share knowledge, write articles, take care of myself, do housework and study in the group.
A beautiful day is over!