Cousin and husband are both only children. They flew to the other side of the earth, and the four old people who stayed at home were a little lonely. I have worked hard for half my life, but my children have flown to the other side of the ocean. I can imagine the lonely thoughts in my heart. In order to see more of your children, you can only chat with them by video from time to time.
Last year, my cousin was pregnant in the United States, and my uncle and aunt flew to the other side of the world to reunite with her daughter and son-in-law, also to take care of my cousin for the second month. But in less than ten days, menstruation began to eat badly and sleep badly. Because my uncle is a national cadre and stays in the United States for half a month at most, the old couple went home in less than half a month. On the way back, menstruation has been complaining about the use of raising children so well, and since we are not separated, it is impossible to make out with her, alas!
My classmate's children stay in Shanghai after graduating from college and can't come back several times a year. The old couple often feel empty and have no children at home. It seems that life has lost its original passion. Every day they just go to work, eat, sleep and live a routine and boring life. On 20 16, the second child policy was relaxed, and she unexpectedly had a little baby. She discussed it with her husband and decided to give birth to the baby. Although she is over forty years old, and the difference between the two children is over twenty years old, she still wants this baby without hesitation in order to have a child around her. Her husband has told her his plan countless times, and the child can't make him too capable in any case. Then he will go to a technical school to learn a skill after graduating from junior high school, so you can stay with him. Can no longer be like Dabao, the higher the knowledge, the farther away from us. However, when Bao Xiao was almost two years old, her husband began to read some early education books every day, tirelessly telling stories to the children and discussing Bauer's early education plan with her. Once, a classmate teased her husband: "With your training method, Bauer may fly farther than Dabao in the future, and your plan to stay in Bauer will be ruined again!" "So, I understand the truth, but who doesn't want their children to be excellent! Even if you cross Qian Shan, you must send it! "
It's really capable to chat with my colleague Li Yan's son when he is free in the office. Now he has bought a house in Beijing. When he said this, everyone looked envious. When he was busy with his work during the holiday, everyone sighed in unison: What's the use of a good boy? He has not been trained for others. He won't come back to accompany you during the holiday. If you are old and ill in the future, we may not expect him to come back to take care of you until you die.
Everyone knows the truth. It is an ironclad fact that the better a child is, the farther away he is from his parents. Some people may say that the children are excellent and can take their parents with them if they have the conditions! However, most elderly people are reluctant to leave their homeland and their roots where they have lived for decades. They don't want to disturb their children's lives unless they have to come to them.
Since everyone knows that the better a child is, the farther away from his parents, why do parents still give everything they have to support their children? According to the voices of many parents, there are roughly the following reasons:
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It is often said that most love is for mutual possession, but the love between parents and children is for separation. In order to make their children stand firm in the society after leaving their children, they have to spend all they have to support their children so that they can shine in their own world in the future. Just like a dandelion mother wants her children to take root and grow sturdily wherever the wind blows.
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The better the child, the more fulfilled the parents are. This feeling is like a domino effect, with a sense of accomplishment, followed by happiness. Parents who are often happy are mostly in a good mood and healthy.
I remember one Spring Festival, my uncle and aunt held a Spring Festival get-together together and their daughter also attended the festival. When the host introduced that "the only female doctor on our scene-Yan Bureau's daughter also brought us a wonderful program today", everyone applauded! "Hearing the only female doctor at the scene, everyone at the scene gave a thumbs-up sign to their uncles and aunts. The sense of pride and accomplishment on my uncle and aunt's face is really enviable. Because my daughter is excellent, she has won everyone's admiration. Many people also learn from her how to train their daughters so well and are even more proud of her. Happy mood, happy feeling, now they are still like young people in their sixties, singing and dancing every day, and driving in the wild when the weather is sunny. They are really good partners in the sunset.
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The better the children are, the greater their contribution to the country. This is also the result that every parent wants to see. Because the family is a cell of the country and people are a cell of the family. People are strong, families are strong, and countries are strong. Only when the country is strong can it stand proudly in the forest of the world and not be afraid of cheetahs and wolves, can people live and work in peace and contentment and live a happy and healthy life.
All parents in the world want to be with their children forever, but they will grow old one day. Therefore, before the child becomes an adult, parents can only fly higher and farther if they make their children's wings fuller, their horizons wider and their knowledge more extensive. Therefore, there are no parents in the world who don't want their children to be excellent. No matter how high and far the child flies, as long as it is good for the child, parents should support the child even if they eat chaff and sell iron. Therefore, when children leave their parents, they should also understand their love, their hardship, their disappointment and their heartache.