1, don't "encourage others"
Many parents have unrealistic expectations for early education. Some parents think that their children should prepare for school as early as possible, so that a 4-year-old child can master the knowledge of primary school in advance. In fact, parents' early education for their children is too hasty, ignoring the foundation of learning.
Learning to think is the premise of learning other knowledge. On the one hand, early education should adapt to the development level of children's thinking, on the other hand, it should also help children master thinking methods.
2. Don't dampen children's enthusiasm because of comparison.
Sometimes, it is not intentional, but parents like to say to their children, "Look, whose children learn so well, why can't you do anything?" This comparison will make children feel frustrated to a great extent and begin to face learning negatively. In fact, children's interest in learning English is easy to cultivate when they are young, but the more they grow up, the less they can afford it. At this time, we should adopt an encouraging strategy and pay attention to the individual progress of children, instead of always comparing the strengths of others. Early childhood education can only be carried out when children have no opposing emotions, and can promote their voluntary development.
3. Don't learn by rote.
Parents should not aim at listing meaningless knowledge when tutoring or supervising their children's learning. In infancy, children should rely on their own efforts to discover the colorful world around them and gradually enrich their perceptual knowledge. Knowledge is valuable only if it becomes the driving force of intellectual activities.
4. Don't pursue "standard answers"
In exam-oriented education, there is always a standard answer, and only by answering the standard answer can you get full marks. But there is no such answer in real life. The society is changing, and children's future should be created by themselves. So parents should cultivate their creativity in their children's early childhood.
In the excellent early education guide, the method often used is to guide children to think, discover and encourage their new ideas, and improve their creative ability in the application of creative methods.
5. Don't always be alone.
Pursuing children's all-round and harmonious development and cultivating good personality is an important trend of preschool education in the world at present. Childhood is an important period of personality formation. Children who always play by themselves or pester their parents will not get a balanced development of personality. Let children integrate into the group and communicate and play with others in the group, which is an interactive and mutually promoting growth and development. Only by laying a solid foundation for early childhood education can personality develop in a balanced way.