After children go to kindergarten, they always can't sit still and don't like learning, which makes teachers have a headache and always complains to their parents. Parents have no choice but to tell their children to "listen to the teacher".
But this didn't happen to my children. Children show amazing concentration and learning ability as soon as they enter school, and they can keep up with the teacher's rhythm after sitting for a whole class.
Kindergarten teachers, like treasure hunting, always boast that children are too worry-free: they can not only sit still in class, but also learn things very quickly. They are very careful in manual work, and they are very popular because of their strong logical thinking in learning mathematics.
The teacher is curious about how to do it and wants to teach other parents some experience. I want to share the simplest method, but I need to remind you that you must resist the pressure of being rejected by your family.
Why? Like my grandmother, I especially envy people who spend tens of thousands of dollars on preschool classes. I despise the way I take care of my children. I think I don't do things seriously every day, and I don't learn eloquence and addition and subtraction like others, so don't delay my children.
What is my trick? Just take the children to play with stickers, as if they were playing, as if they didn't need to learn anything. However, many doctors and mothers are using it. Because it conforms to the law of children's development, children are particularly interested and improve their abilities unconsciously.
When the child is about 4 years old, "intentional attention" will gradually form, which is a good opportunity to cultivate concentration.
On the surface, concentration can sit still. In fact, concentration also includes stability, distribution, mobility and breadth, that is, children should be able to focus on one goal, focus on positive things, and accomplish multiple tasks at the same time. These abilities can only be mastered through deliberate practice.
Stickers have different shapes, bright colors and interesting patterns, which can be operated by hand. For children with visual sensitivity and strong hands-on ability, they will fall in love at first sight. Bauer has loved stickers since he was two years old. Enthusiasm was high at the age of 3 and obsession at the age of 4. He bought about 50 stickers.
When a child does something that interests him, the first thing he solves is the problem of sitting still. Bauer can play alone for an hour.
Stickers are not posted casually, but are posted in the right place according to the theme requirements.
For example, to help an animal find a home, it is necessary to observe the outline of the animal first, and then find a sticker consistent with the outline, so as to complete the pattern.
This process exercises many kinds of concentration: focusing on the target animal. Look in your eyes, stick to your hands, and complete two actions at the same time. If you don't paste it neatly, don't lose heart and don't cry. Stick it patiently. If you want to paste it quickly, you can put the sticker on your hand in advance and break down the task.
The seemingly simple action is actually a collection of multiple steps, which cultivates the child's comprehensive concentration.
Children like to throw things, tear things, tear things, and the house is in a mess. It is not that he deliberately destroys things, but that he is developing fine movements. We all know that ingenuity, brain science also believes that exercising finger flexibility is to exercise the brain and make children smarter.
Children play with stickers mainly to exercise their hands, which is in line with the law of children's development.
Tearing the sticker off the backing paper is not a simple matter, it needs the cooperation of both hands. First, lift the backing paper with the fingers and thumb of the right hand and hold it, then press the lower edge of the target sticker with the thumb of the left hand to make the upper edge of the sticker incline, and put the index finger of the left hand on the bottom of the sticker, and hold and tear the sticker with the thumb.
When pasting, press the page with the fingers of the right hand, hold the paste with the thumb and forefinger of the left hand, gently put it on one side of the outline, gradually pull away the fingers, and smooth the paste with the thumb.
We adults think it is a very simple action, but it is a complicated and subtle process for children. It's hard to start sticking and sticking flat. Only through constant practice can we master this skill. In this process, hand-brain, hand-eye coordination, repeated many times, hand more and more flexible, more and more brain nerve connections.
The design of stickers has a learning function, not as simple as killing time.
For example, this set of "condensed stickers" I use contains 16 books and 16 topics on behavior, IQ, judgment, language, reasoning, life, mathematical ability, creativity, understanding, logic, emotional intelligence, imagination, reaction and observation, all of which are the basic abilities that children should have.
Let me choose a few to give you a brief description, first look at the language ability.
For example, if you know the four seasons, let the children put up stickers corresponding to the seasons and tell the characteristics of the four seasons. Not only let the children map, but also let them look at the pictures and talk.
For example, paste phrases and words on the corresponding dotted lines. Children should remember the shapes of words in order to complete these tasks and exercise their literacy skills.
For example, if a child is sick, how should he be comforted? Children can also show one bubble after another in the form of stickers and learn how to express themselves in life.
Let's look at math again. It is not simply to let children know numbers and calculate, but to cultivate children's sense of numbers, logical thinking ability and ability to solve practical problems, so that children can really like mathematics.
For example, use stickers to complete the apples on the tree, and then count the specific number. Children can correspond quantity, number and things and form concrete impressions in their minds.
For example, stick the building blocks in the corresponding positions, and then compare the height, size, quantity, thickness, thickness and so on. , are inseparable contents of mathematics, so that children have a better understanding of the breadth of mathematics.
For example, through simple calculation, finding an elephant's friend is not a blunt torture, but a flexible and interesting way to make the child unconsciously take the bait, work hard to complete the task and help the child, which is very fulfilling.
Generally speaking, playing with stickers seems to be playing, but it is actually learning, and this kind of learning is silent, and children can't feel it, but their ability is improving.
So, if you want your children to be focused, practical, smart and like to learn quickly and well, let them play with stickers.
I especially recommend this set of "condensed stickers", 16 books, 16 themes and 3080 posters. The children must have had a good time.
I have tested it with my children, and the sticker die-cutting is very good, and it is very easy to tear and finish. Children can operate independently and exercise hard.
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