I believe everyone is familiar with QQ parent group, class group, WeChat parent group and class group, but if there are school-age children at home, which parent doesn't join these groups? Even when children go to early education or kindergarten, teachers will set up class groups to facilitate their work and contact their parents. In today's parents' mobile phones, there are not dozens of groups that really can't play with society. From elementary school to junior high school to high school to university, there are also colleagues and classmates, and the class groups established by teachers of children often make many parents switch back and forth in different groups to send wrong information.
It's ok if the wrong information is harmless, but some parents love to gag with the opposite sex, some parents talk regardless of the object and occasion, and some parents swear.
There is nothing wrong with expressing the wrong feelings in this way, but I was embarrassed for a while in the wrong place, which will not affect other parents and teachers anyway.
This message should not be sent. One person sent the wrong message, and then several parents sent the same reply. This simple and repeated copy and paste has such a coquettish operation in most groups. I didn't know there were so many people eager to save trouble. Just don't read the materials edited by others. Think about it, how does the teacher feel after seeing such a uniform "damn"? How do parents feel? In addition to embarrassment, they should be ashamed and eager to find a breakthrough, or avoid meeting their parents and consider transferring their children.
There is a crazy story on the Internet. My father sang a song excitedly because his daughter got 100, expressing his jubilant mood. He should have shared this joy with the mother of the child, but he was sent to the class group by mistake, which is undoubtedly embarrassing and showing off in front of the parents in the class. Some parents are silent after reading it, and some parents have a good relationship with him. They sent a private message to remind them to withdraw, but it was too late. In addition to embarrassment, it is estimated that this father has also lost face. He met other parents when he picked up the children. I really don't know how he can face others.
It is unintentional to say that these embarrassing cases happen from time to time, but a small number of parents take class groups to vent their anger. Children and classmates have some quarrels at school. It is a small contradiction between children. If they are unhappy today, they may make up tomorrow. However, parents are very concerned. In the class group, the teacher can't get off the stage, and other parents are also serious. They swear in the group and want to make an appointment offline. Finally, the teacher had to let them quit the class group.
With the wider application of WeChat group, the daily management in primary and secondary education is also widely used. Because the class group of each class can not only improve the work efficiency and management of teachers, but also be convenient and timely. Let wechat group become an educational information service window. Interaction and communication are the core functions of WeChat group, which can publish messages anytime and anywhere. For example, you can publish activity notices, suspension notices, school notices and educational information, and you can also assign homework and publish curriculum arrangements and learning processes to improve students' learning efficiency; Parents can learn about their children's situation at school through WeChat group.
As the organizer and manager of the class group, teachers should give full play to the main role of learning and communication, lead parents to spread positive energy, update group announcements in real time, and prevent parents from publishing content unrelated to learning or unhealthy. Be diligent in communication, let parents * * * maintain this public platform and build a bridge between home and school.
When parents make inappropriate remarks in class, as class teachers and managers, they should first keep calm, not speak blindly and be anxious to deal with them.
1. First, it is necessary to find out the ins and outs of the matter and whether the object of inappropriate remarks is other parents, class teachers, schools, or other people and departments;
2. To preliminarily judge the reasons, nature and influence of making inappropriate remarks;
3. If you can solve the problem in time and effectively, communicate with your parents alone first. As for how to communicate, talk privately or meet, just don't discuss in groups, because in public, you can't solve the problem, but it is likely to make things worse.
4. If you don't have the ability or your own authority can't solve the problem, you should first calm your parents' emotions and avoid the deterioration of the situation, and then notify the leaders or relevant departments to solve it together;
5. Depending on the severity of the situation, consider whether to ban the speech and take measures such as screen capture to preserve the evidence.
Class group is a communication platform between teachers and parents. No matter which side you speak, be careful. Now the relationship between parents and teachers has become a bit subtle, and the authority of teachers is not as good as before. Whether parents have complaints about teachers or teachers have suggestions for parents, it is best to talk privately, communicate frequently, learn more and be more tolerant, so that the relationship can be more harmonious and the cooperative relationship between * * * and educating children can be more harmonious.
Good education must be based on good family education, so that family, society and school can be organically combined, and children can work together, plus self-education, which is conducive to the all-round development of children's physical and mental health.