Lack of maternal love and severe autism.
Xiao Li's career is very successful. Later, she gave birth to a baby, and her work and children were very busy. It happened that her father was ill and hospitalized. Although the family will help, Xiaoli is still too busy to take care of her children and can't adjust her mood in the face of them. This situation lasted for a year until my father recovered. But Xiaoli found the child abnormal, less talkative than other children, and timid. Later, I took the child to see a doctor and said that the child had mild autism and needed accompanying treatment.
My family has brought Dabao for two years.
When Dabao was two years old, my husband and I quarreled and went back to Guangzhou to work alone. Later, the child went back to Guangzhou with me, and my father helped to take care of it. At that time, the work was quite smooth, that is, children were often sick and the most serious pneumonia was seriously hospitalized. At that time, they were busy with their work and seldom cared about their children's affairs and their inner growth. Bauer is a full-time employee. Now he is over 5 years old and has been in good health.
Ma Bao is worried that if the children have problems, they will be given early education.
Xiao Li is my neighbor. Before the age of three, her grandmother took care of the children. Although living together, Xiaoli still finds that the child is introverted and doesn't like to go out to play. Later, she brought her own and gave her children more than 10 thousand early education classes. She said it worked well. At least the children are happy and love to laugh. They will take the initiative to say hello when they meet people.
The benefits of being detained
Many friends around me, because of their busy work, will send their children to custody when they are two and a half years old. They say their children are very adaptable. And many children in it had a good time. In fact, trusteeship should be more suitable for children to develop various good habits. After my second treasure went to kindergarten, she learned to eat and dress by herself. I have read a book "Learning to Raise Children from German Mothers", which says that German children go to kindergarten at the age of one and a half.
If the child has strong adaptability and hands-on ability, you can take the child to experience trusteeship. Personally, trusteeship helps children develop many good habits. Children who are sent to custody must pay attention to spending more time with their children after work, parent-child stories, and playing more games. Everyone can share what happened during the day. Be sure to pay close attention to your children. Spend more time with your children on weekends.
The benefits of Ma Bao's own belt.
Ma Bao is not easy, it is very difficult. When a person is busy with housework, he should take care of his children and guide them to learn knowledge when they are old. So it's not easy for Mabao. Ma Bao loves children very much, and when he develops good habits for his children, he will inevitably spoil them for fear that they can't stand it. In my impression, children seldom eat by themselves before they are three years old. Every time I think he is slow. I just don't have the patience to wait for him, which is the taboo of treasure moms. My children are not under guardianship, so they have to take care of them themselves. It is also very fulfilling to climb mountains and cook and learn things every day. Children's childhood is full of happiness and memories. Bauer has always been very confident and cheerful, likes to make friends, and is in good health and inner health.
All choices have two sides, and the one that suits you is the best. Spend more time with the children during detention. If you take care of children, you should learn more about parenting and guide them with your heart.