Many parents insist that children are forced by their parents and need strict discipline, stop cheating and study hard.
But the children who can't manage it are only oral, and the painful children are convinced.
Overbearing parents have suppressed their children for a long time. On the surface, the child is very obedient, but in fact, the child is very rebellious and tries his best to escape.
The child ran away one day, and the parents must have been caught off guard and could not accept it.
2. Suspicious parents are likely to cause children's sensitive and inferior personality;
Some mothers are naturally sensitive, but they also like to be moody, suspicious and distrust their children.
This behavior of parents is more common in families.
To enlarge the influence of news reports, there are often too many doubts about girls, which makes children feel the warmth of their parents. Anyway, parents have doubted and taken it seriously, and children should go to puppy love to get the warmth of the outside world for a moment.
Suspicious about children is that parents personally bury sensitive and inferior mines for their children.
3. Parents are radical and let their children avoid it;
I am not afraid that my parents are unreasonable, but I am afraid that my parents are grumpy, too radical, haggle with their children and often fly into a rage.
At first, the child was frightened by his parents. When children are older, they don't buy their parents' accounts and start doing whatever they want, trying to escape their parents' control and not going home at all.
4. The more parents complain, the more children give up on themselves;
Many parents complain about their children, just venting their emotions, not really insisting on their children. Parents also have joys and sorrows, and it is inevitable to compare with others and envy "other people's children."
However, children will think that their parents are dissatisfied with themselves every day and start to get bored, "broken pots and broken falls", don't care about their parents and hate them.
When parents complain, they put pressure on their children. Don't deny that the power of parents' gossip is enormous, and children will "explode".
5. Parents are cheerful and children are more optimistic;
Parents are cheerful, children are willing to share their worries, parent-child communication is smooth, and children are smarter and more enterprising.
Parents who are cheerful are often open-minded, and their children are impressed, generous and willing to get close to others.
Enlightened parents generally like to encourage their children, not discourage them, so that they have a sense of sunshine and are particularly energetic.
6. Parents are gentle and children are more assertive;
Gentle parents are often self-disciplined and open-minded, and children are more willing to listen to their parents' opinions.