I often hear novice parents vomit: it is too difficult to bring a baby!
I can't speak, I can't express, whether I want to eat milk, sleep or pee, all my thoughts are just "crying". I began to guess his "small mind" every day, and I always guessed wrong. It's too hard to be a parent!
Of course, this is just the tip of the iceberg in the daily difficulties of bringing a baby. When it comes to feeding, changing diapers, taking a bath, dressing, doing early education, and even getting sick, you will face various problems and often treat your baby as a mouse. ...
In fact, although the baby at a young age can't speak, he has poor ability to move independently, which seems to be very chaotic with his daily life. If you straighten it out, it won't be so difficult.
Because after the baby is born, the growth and development of each month are regular, such as how many kilograms and centimeters each month, how much milk to eat every day, and how many times to eat. The most common problem of this month's age is actually "regularity".
The premise is that novice parents must first understand these parenting rules, and then raise their babies accordingly, which will be handy.
Next, Ma Jing will talk about the development law of the baby in the first three months after birth, hoping to help novice parents adapt to their parents' identity as soon as possible, explore the law of getting along with the baby and take care of the baby smoothly.
Sleep in January: A one-month-old baby is fine and sleeps most of the time.
After living in the most expensive small house in the world for 10 months, with the birth of the baby, it will go through an "adaptation period" after birth.
So the newborn baby will have a long time, continuing the present state-legs curled up like little frogs.
Moreover, because the baby's development in many aspects is not complete, the ability of independent activities is poor, and it needs rapid growth and development, and it will sleep most of the time.
Newborns can sleep 16-20 hours a day, and everything is normal except breastfeeding.
If it's feeding time and the baby is still sleeping, the mother doesn't have to wake the baby on purpose. She can use the baby's mouth and he will "wake up to feed".
PS: But there are special circumstances. In both cases, parents should be vigilant and see a doctor when necessary.
If the baby sleeps continuously for more than 4 hours, it is necessary to pay attention;
The baby is sleepy when he is nursing. Be careful if you are in a daze.
In addition, this month, mothers may have the most breast-feeding problems, usually 8- 10 times every 24 hours, or even more. Breastfeeding pays attention to "adaptive feeding", that is, feeding the baby when he is hungry and wants to eat.
Mothers whose breast milk is not enough for their babies should find ways to replenish milk, drink milk soup properly through a balanced diet, try to ensure adequate sleep and try to keep a good mood.
Mothers who can't finish breast milk and always swell up should suck it out with a breast pump after each feeding and put it in a milk storage bag. Don't be lazy when you feel swollen, this situation will be very serious.
Generally, around the full moon, breast milk can reach the state of "supply and demand balance" by running in with the actual needs of the baby.
Crying in February: In the second month, the baby slept less, but crying became difficult.
From around the full moon, parents will find that the baby seems to be different from when it was born.
Every time I wake up, I can play for a while when I am full, but maybe new problems appear again.
Some babies sleep during the day and play at night. This situation is "black and white upside down" because parents don't pay attention to helping their baby develop a routine.
For example, if the baby wakes up in the middle of the night and wants to play, and the mother doesn't sleep in time, she will play with the baby. Slowly, she may get into the habit of playing at night and sleeping all day. It is necessary to correct it as soon as possible and help the baby develop a correct "day and night routine".
Other babies cry every night, which is very puzzling and difficult to bring.
This situation is probably due to the baby's flatulence, which may cause colic in severe cases. Novice parents should help their baby correct it in time and correctly. When the baby is comfortable, he naturally stops crying.
▲ How to judge whether the baby has flatulence?
Actually, it's not difficult. It's a little hard when I touch my stomach. When touching, the baby may cry more, which may be as shown in the figure below, which is basically flatulence (severe colic).
▲ What should parents do?
The first is the baby's reaction when he is "crying uncomfortable". The most effective thing is "venting".
For example, let the baby lie on the stomach of an adult, rub the baby's stomach clockwise, apply hot compress to the stomach (don't burn the baby), hug by plane, etc. , can help your baby exhaust; You can also listen to white noise to stop the baby from crying and calm down.
Secondly, prevention in peacetime is also very important. The most effective thing is to "prevent the baby from taking in too much air".
(1) Make sure that each feeding is correct:
Breastfeeding baby, the posture is correct, so that the baby's mouth is complete, and the mother can press it with her fingers when the milk array comes.
The baby who drinks milk, the feeding posture is correct, and the baby is held obliquely, so that the bottle and the baby's mouth have a certain angle, above the nipple; The nipple matches the baby's age to avoid oversize aperture.
(2) Burping after each feeding:
There are three kinds of burps, no matter which one is used, it is best to burp the baby after each feeding and burp the empty food; Otherwise, if there is too much air in the baby's stomach, it will be flatulent and uncomfortable.
(3) usually help the baby to exhaust and keep warm;
For example, often help your baby's stomach clockwise and do passive exercise of your legs. , but also help exhaust.
Then don't dress the baby too little, cover it too thin and get cold and flatulence. You can wear a small sleeping bag or wrap it in swaddling clothes, which helps to keep warm and reduce the shock reflex.
Save your stomach in March: How many days may the baby be in the third month? No, it's not necessarily constipation.
As I said before, newborn babies are underdeveloped in many aspects, including gastrointestinal digestion.
After being born for a period of time, the gastrointestinal function is gradually enhanced, and the baby will begin to "squat". The most obvious performance is that the number of babies is less.
It used to be 7-8 times a day, but suddenly it only pulled 1-2 times a day; Or the baby who used to do it once a day 1-2 times changed it to once every 4-5 days.
Therefore, novice parents will be very anxious, worried about their baby's constipation and upset stomach.
In fact, such a small baby generally does not have constipation, but diarrhea will occur at this age to meet the nutritional needs of the baby's rapid growth and development.
So, how to judge whether the baby has a stomachache? You can refer to the following figure:
If the baby is in the picture, eating well and playing beautifully without any discomfort, it may be a stomachache, so mom and dad don't have to worry at all.
In short, the common problems of babies every month are basically those. As long as parents study in advance, many problems are not problems, they can be handled well and it is not so difficult to take care of them.
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How many months is your baby now? What do you think is the most common problem every month in the first three months? Welcome to share and discuss your parenting problems and experiences with your parents.
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The above is the infant formula table of 1 February, which is about the sharing of infant care. After watching the baby sleep in January and cry in February, I hope this will help everyone!