The words and deeds of women, especially mothers, are the most important source of children's three views, and also determine the level and happiness of family members.

It is often said that history is a mirror. If you like reading historical stories, you will find a very interesting discovery, that is, behind every celebrity, there is almost a wise, knowledgeable and upright mother.

Meng Mu's three movements, Tao Mu's refusal to fish, Ou Mu's paintings, her mother-in-law's tattoos, and the stories of four ancient virtuous mothers, even if read today, can still make people feel the femininity of women and motherhood, as well as the nobility of integrity and invulnerability.

In traditional families in China, it is generally advocated that "the man is the master outside and the woman is the master inside". Dad is busy making money to buy milk powder, and mom is responsible for children's eating, drinking, sleeping and education at home. Nowadays, due to the improvement of women's status, many mothers choose to go out to work. However, educating children, the role of mothers will always rank first.

Many people around me are saying that children are so happy now that they can have whatever they want. We spend all our energy on children and provide them with the best education and the most expensive toys. Why are there still so many rebellious, lonely, extreme and unhappy children?

First, no matter how busy she is at ordinary times, working mothers should try to find time to spend with their children every day.

Whether it's two hours or twenty minutes, whether it's a kiss on your child's forehead when you get up early or a big hug when you get off work, as long as you have the heart, you can always find opportunities to express your love to your child. At the same time, please consciously turn off TV and mobile phones and other distractions, and accompany your children wholeheartedly. That kind of absent-minded company hurts children's feelings more than your absence. Think about how the other person often plays mobile phones when you are dating.

Second, you don't have to follow your child's every move for 24 hours.

Compared with professional mothers, stay-at-home mothers have a lot of time to spend with their babies, but be careful not to go to the other extreme. Even if you rely on your baby again, he (she) needs to have a daze, quiet and entertaining time. Create a safe and comfortable space for children, put his (her) favorite books and toys, and let him (her) do what he (she) wants for some time every day.

Third, don't isolate children from normal life.

Some mothers think that housework such as washing, cooking and cleaning is hard work. Not only complain about yourself, but also refuse children to participate because they care about them. They only ask him (her) to watch early education cartoons while reading word cards, thinking that it is "business". In fact, in the eyes of children, the content of life is far more interesting than that in cartoons. Let him (her) see a mother singing and doing housework, and at the same time encourage the child to do some housework as much as possible, which can not only satisfy the child's curiosity, but also enhance the child's self-confidence.

Behind these historical stories, there is often an ordinary mother who has never left a name in history. She has fine features and gentle tone, but she is quite opinionated and determined. They are hard-working and diligent, but they also know right from wrong and know the overall situation. It can be said that their words and deeds shaped the history of China, and their weak arms propped up the unyielding backbone of the Chinese nation.

The best education is in day-to-day life, in the little time that mothers and children get along.

A mother who is not absent is the most urgently needed talent in our time. Remember that behind every excellent child there is a great mother!