Is the traditional education of the older generation appropriate in the present family? Is it too early for the baby to receive knowledge education? Does the mother often question her child's ability? These common educational problems are very worthy of our understanding.

1, paying too much attention to early knowledge is contrary to children's nature of exploring the world with their senses.

Jin Meng, a famous education expert, believes that children will give priority to emotional education and family education in the form of caring, loving, touching and kissing. Babies like to explore the world through physical contact. Most Chinese mothers prefer their babies to win at the starting line, and various educational institutions are grasping the parents' psychology. Under the signboard of early education, various training courses are offered.

Training courses such as painting, dance and Olympic Mathematics have been widely used in the early education industry. However, there are even reports that some institutions actually have aristocratic training courses. It is harmful for children to expose themselves to the lifestyle of adults too early. Moreover, it is children's nature to be playful. Too many training courses occupy children's after-school life and make them live a mechanical life. The emergence of new things is also difficult to arouse children's interest, and innovation is naturally vacant. It also makes children lose their innocence.

2, don't trust children's ability, too much control and do it for them.

Many parents will lament that foreign children have strong self-care ability. Since childhood, they have tried to eat by themselves with spoons, wear their own shoes and carry their own bags. But mothers still stick to tradition. That set? . Whether it is food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is arranged for children.

Take feeding as an example. Eating is everyone's natural instinct. Children as old as seven or eight months can eat by themselves. When a child first comes into contact, he will play with a spoon in his hand or send food to his nose and face. It will happen if you turn directly into the bowl. Mom doesn't have to be too nervous. Just do some auxiliary guiding actions appropriately. Try to let the baby have more contact and hands-on in early childhood, which is very beneficial to the development of his hands-on ability and self-confidence in the future.

3. The quick success and instant benefit brought by survival anxiety interferes with the child's peaceful growth.

Now that parents are in a highly competitive society, it is inevitable that they will have anxiety and affect the concept of parenting. I hope that children will show extraordinary wisdom from an early age. For the children? Late ripening? Being upset means you are anxious. Teacher Jin Meng pointed out that, in fact, children's civilization has its stages. Pulling out seedlings will only affect the growth of children. Knowledge and skills should be mastered after the age of 3. The knowledge and skills education before children go to primary school should focus on what they have learned in the process, instead of blindly pursuing what kind of good grades they have achieved. It is necessary to cultivate children's curiosity out of interest and sense of accomplishment, and a calm and optimistic attitude towards things is very important for children's growth process.