One day, I saw him wilting, so I went to touch his head. He jerked his head up to show that he didn't like being caressed. But I have touched it at this moment and know that he has a fever.
"You are ill." I said.
"Oh, this feeling is disgusting. I thought I didn't get enough sleep. Mom, what medicine should I take? " He asked.
Children seldom get sick, and even forget the taste of being sick. I just wanted to find a thermometer in the medicine cabinet at home, and I was suddenly startled. Because I have been a doctor for many years, my children are sick, and I usually treat them at home. He has hardly been to the hospital.
"You are so old, you have to learn to get sick." I said.
"Is it necessary to learn when you are sick? Isn't this already sick? " He was taken aback.
"I mean, you must learn what to do when you are sick." I said.
"I knew what to do after I got sick. Looking for you. " He has a plan in mind.
"What if I'm not here?"
"Then I'll call you."
"What if ... you can't find me at last?"
"Then I'll ... I'll call my dad."
Maybe it is cruel to force a sick child like this. But I know that one day he must face the disease alone. Since I am a mother, I should teach him to get sick as soon as possible.
"What if I can't find your dad in the end?"
"Then I can bear it. You will go home sooner or later anyway. " The son said.
"Some diseases are unbearable. One minute earlier is one minute. The best way to get sick is to go to the hospital. "
"Mom, do you mean to let me go to the hospital alone today?" He said. Although the child is ill, he is still very clever.
"Exactly." I gritted my teeth and said that I was afraid I would change my mind.
"Well, then ..." He said, holding his forehead, not knowing whether it was weakness or thinking.
"Take a taxi outside, and then go to XX hospital. Register first, remember, buy books ... "I said.
"What book?" He's confused.
"It's medical records. Then go to the internal medicine department, go to the semicolon desk first, go to the clinic where the doctor told you to go, and sit at the door. Don't break someone else's thermometer when checking their temperature. I told you to go to the lab during the test. You should draw the price first, and then pay the fee. Your ears should be cocked up while waiting for the test results. Don't call your name and didn't catch it ... "I tell you endlessly.
"Mom, stop it." The son said hoarsely.
My heart melted at once. Yes, children are children after all, and they are sick children. I took his hot hand and said, "Mom will take you to the hospital."
He broke free and said, "I didn't mean that." I mean, I'm going to find a pen and write down what you said so that I can do it. "
The son staggered away. I began to regret it from the moment he left home. I think I must be the cruelest mother in the world. The child was ill, and instead of helping him, she made him worse. I just want to exercise him, so I will take him with me and give him some advice along the way, so that he can have an impression first and then follow the map later. Although there is probably no trace of memory, there is no need to care about every minute of the disease.
Time passes hard and falls into my restless heart like an hourglass. Two hours have passed and my son hasn't come back yet. Although I know that the hospital is a slow-heating place, my heart is still contracting in pain.
Although I am almost sure that my son has a common cold and it is the best choice to find something suitable for medical treatment, I still deeply condemn myself. If things could be done all over again, I would never teach him to see a doctor alone again. In case he gets sick alone in the future, he can say anything. I just want him by my side now!
Finally, familiar footsteps sounded in the corridor, but a little slower than usual. I opened the door and leaned against it.
"I have learned to look. I had an injection to reduce my fever, and I'm much better now. This is really a troublesome thing. But there is nothing. " The son proudly announced and added, "There is something wrong with the paper you and I remember."
I looked at him and my courage gradually returned to my heart. I know that I will constantly temper him, and in the process, I will also temper myself.
Son, don't complain about my indifference when you are sick. One day, you will leave me and face many hardships including illness alone. What I can help you in advance is to dictate a road map to you. It may not be so accurate, but talking is better than nothing.
1. In a nutshell, what changes have taken place in your heart when you went to the hospital alone?
Regret →→→→→→→→
In the penultimate paragraph, I think he is brave. . . . Hone him and yourself?'
3. The eighth paragraph "I bite my teeth" analyzes the benefits expressed by this sentence.
What I can help you in advance is to dictate a road map to you. It may not be so accurate, but talking is better than nothing. '
What benefits did you get from the dictation circuit diagram of your elders?
This one?
Answer:
1, regret-remorse-worry-courage
It is a test for children to go to see a doctor alone. In this process, mother suffers from worry and pain, so it is also a test for herself.
To be precise, after a fierce psychological struggle, I made up my mind to let my son go to the hospital alone.
4. Understanding: On the road of our growth, the direction pointed out by our elders in advance and the experience and methods taught are very helpful to us.
Benefits: The teaching of elders allows us to take fewer detours and have more ways to solve difficulties.