Judging from your tone, you should be married, right? I just may think that my family, economy or career have no plans to have children. You feel that you are not prepared for this child, both physically and mentally. You are worried that the workplace will be unpopular after pregnancy and there is no hope of promotion. I am worried that my child will not get a good living and educational environment after birth, that no one will help take care of the child, and that my career will be delayed because of my child. ...

Maybe you think a lot and feel anxious. But many things don't go according to plan, especially life. Full of variables is the truth of life. What we should do is not to escape, but to find ways to adapt to it and make our life better. To put it bluntly, we should benefit from it.

I once met a mother who was pregnant unexpectedly like you, and was transferred to stew mushrooms in disguise by the company. Finally, she left her job. Since there is nothing we can do, we must face it well. Short-term mood is low and backward, adjust your mood immediately to prepare for the arrival of your baby. Many people around her feel it's a pity. She has a good chance to appreciate it. It's not that she hasn't thought about it, but she feels anxious. But she later felt that since she was here, she would give herself a rest time to readjust.

So she learned parenting knowledge during pregnancy, and handled things with ease after the child was born. When it was time to add complementary food, she learned to cook a lot of baby meals in order to have a good appetite for the baby. As children grow up, the dishes become more and more colorful. Other young mothers expressed their willingness to pay for their studies, so she opened a small class with several people in her family. With experience and word of mouth, she also determined the direction of her new career.

Therefore, it is not a terrible thing for a child to come when there is no plan. Maybe it is an opportunity given to you by God.