Method 1: Encourage your daughter to be a rose with thorns.
Girls are easily bullied and become lambs in the eyes of criminals. They just caught the girl's weak character. Former British Prime Minister Winston Churchill said: "Courage is a human trait. If you have courage, you will naturally have other qualities. " Parents can't always think that their daughters are obedient, and they dare not put forward their own opinions at home, which will only deepen their daughter's weakness. Wise parents know how to cultivate their daughters' courage.
Although roses are beautiful, they are full of thorns to protect themselves from harm. Parents should tell their daughters that when they are bullied, they should show courage and be a thorny rose instead of a docile little sheep.
Method 2: urge girls to participate in physical exercise regularly.
When a girl is in danger, the best way is to run to a safe place. Children who often take part in physical exercise will be better than their peers in reaction, speed and explosiveness. A study found that people with motor nerve sensitivity also have superhuman reaction ability. Sensitive reaction ability, can quickly turn the brain when in danger, get out of danger as soon as possible and protect yourself.
There is a concept in psychology called "suicidal thoughts". It means that when people encounter danger or emergency, they are too scared to walk, almost paralyzed, and their brains are blank. Some people are even scared to death. Such people have poor psychological quality and physical strength, and it is difficult to cope with dangerous situations. Therefore, parents usually let their children participate in more sports, and she will gradually form a quick response ability, thus better protecting herself.
Method 3: Teach your daughter to see through popular deception.
Look at this message:
Two girls met a young man on their way from school. He stopped them and praised the beauty and figure of these girls. Then he took out his business card and said that he worked for an advertising company. Now the company needs some amateur models and asks the girls if they are interested. One of the girls has long been fascinated by his sweet words, dreaming of becoming a model, and can't help but go for an interview.
The other girl is very calm. She remembered what her mother often said: "Don't trust a stranger easily, no matter what he says." She thought: If there is such a good thing, why not go directly to the school to recruit people, but go to the street to recruit people? So I quickly took my friend and ran away.
Bad guys always get what they want by hook or by crook. In order to deceive girls, they may pretend to be "Prince Charming" in girls' hearts, and they can make up some "beautiful things" to lure girls close to them. Therefore, parents should tell their daughters to be vigilant in the face of strangers' approach and not to be blinded by superficial "benefits".
If a child learns to read and listen, resist temptation and distrust strangers, she will not act rashly and will minimize possible dangers.